You're jealous, but you love him? Jealousy is far from the feeling of trust, and what is left for love. I don't really condemn you, you can be very deceived, it can be on a mental basis, your thoughts and the rotten society (I think this is a factor for you) and the selfishness of people, mass unhappy relationships, etc. I really do not want to confuse you with religion, but the Apostle Paul see what he said: Love endures long and is merciful; love does not envy; love does not exalt itself, is not proud, does not be rude, does not seek its own, is not irritated, does not take into account evil, does not rejoice in injustice, but rejoices with the truth, everything is silent, everything is believed, everything is he hopes he endures everything. I have a sex life, I have a great relationship (1 for life I am almost 24 already), but I have given freedom to my partner. She is a free person. There are also responsibilities, of course. I know what you're feeling, and from my point of view it's not just love, it's bad feelings that fuck up your relationship. Love, what can I tell you - infidelity is excluded, he or she would not step on the psyche of the person he or she loves, but rather would never do so for the rest of his or her life. But this situation is very rarely reached by people who love each other (mainly for health reasons and other life problems). tn. Sex is important for happiness and a full relationship, I do not deny that. In short, you need to have more trust in the person, otherwise it can really destroy your relationship, in my opinion, as an infidelity, I do not exaggerate. You did not allow infidelity, but you allowed no less an enemy of love and trust, in my opinion, and that is jealousy. You can't have both, love and jealousy are incompatible. This above is my opinion everything, without the quote. I personally wish you to make things right, to have peace and tranquility in the souls of both of you, complete trust and mutual love. Judge for yourself, but I think it's good to share these things with the person, if he loves you, he should help you and overcome him.
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And I keep wondering. My friend claims that he will not cheat on me, that he hates infidelity, and so on. Sometimes I believe him, but men are famous as women, I see them in my environment, I hear what they are talking about, I read how they cheat on movies and shared stories on the net. He hasn't given me a reason so far, but I have one thing in mind anyway. There is simply no way to know. After 20 years of marriage, people cheat on each other and do not even suspect that their spouses can do such a thing, they even swear that they would not do it, and then they realize that they have lived a lie all their lives.