Is It Normal To Want Male Attention?

   No chick, it's not normal, the only attention you need is your husband's! If you weren't ready to separate from that, you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. If you are bored, find a hobby.

   It's normal for me. I'm a man. The fact that society does not accept it as normal is another matter. It and sex before marriage were not accepted for a while, but that does not mean that it is normal.

   They weren't your friends, they were hyenas hovering around an antelope waiting to be bitten ... a classic. You are already busy, you have a child, you seem too serious prey in the eyes of many men, they are harassed and run away. People like you foretell complications, you are no longer easy for them, a husband who can turn them blue, a child ... or don't, decide that you are in love and harass them with yourself and a child .... Much more it is easy for them to lie to a young and free woman, to use her and dump her when they want, or to have a girlfriend with extra sex if she lets them go. There are men who do not bother to count married women with children, but ... you will find such if you are purposefully looking for a lover. She wanted attention ... If you are beautiful, become a model, or make an Instagram and post half-naked photos, you will have a lot of attention ... if you are for one flat attention. You have a husband and a child ...

   And why should your self-esteem depend on external validation, especially on men? Your dad obviously "loved" you quite selectively when you were little and now you want your dad to love you and approve of what you do, respectively you are looking for male validation.

   Classics. Men are able to say and do anything for the faint hope of giving it to you. And you think it has something to do with you, with how beautiful, beautiful, cool, cute or what nonsense they told you there. How come you didn't notice that this 'male attention' is given to every woman who looks like something? Or did you think you were the only princess? And xia quo, no one "likes" us :) Nothing to go out and smile at the first boar that starts to take you down again, there will always be someone. And then we know how your story will end - look at the neighboring topics ...

   I am a woman and I had a "girlfriend" who for years passed through my body only and only men to pay attention to her - female competition and lust for male attention is a very pathetic job

   And I'm thirsty for male attention! This is in our nature, this is normal! Another thing is that modern men (I do not summarize) are inert, cowardly, behave badly with you, if you do not meet their high criteria, they are tight, especially here in Bulgaria. I am beautiful, and I like to be liked, to be complimented, to be looked at on the street. This is NORMAL, babe. Even if you are MARRIED. A woman needs to feel like a woman, even in the presence of colleagues and friends.

   I guess it's a matter of emotional deficiencies and complexes. I am a woman too and I am terribly annoyed and uncomfortable with the already excessive male attention. Sometimes an approving look and a smile within reason with respect, yes, but that slimy stare with the extras - tossing, whistling, turning with almost a somersault, etc. I already want to bend someone's neck. I like that the man next to me likes me, but my self-esteem does not depend at all on his compliments, first of all I like that I like, respect and love myself! Then I share with him and he with me, I can't imagine being emotionally dependent on someone's compliment. I wonder if it's not because you want to get your husband's attention in essence through the attention of other men. I hope you don't still look like those desperate women who dress funny as teenagers, they grin very loudly, and so on. increasingly desperate and pathetic methods of attracting attention. I don't know how they don't realize how ugly the impression is that just being stuck for sex will shrink for a quick one, because that's the impression they leave. If your problem is your husband's lack of attention, you probably don't like yourself. It's time for personal space, hobbies, entertainment, something that will restore your self-confidence, sparkle in your eyes, self-confidence and EMPLOYMENT outside of it. This may bring his attention back to you. Fitness, dancing, lunch / dinner with friends (men and women). If your problem is your husband's lack of attention, you probably don't like yourself. It's time for personal space, hobbies, entertainment, something that will restore your self-confidence, sparkle in your eyes, self-confidence and EMPLOYMENT outside of it. This may bring his attention back to you. Fitness, dancing, lunch / dinner with friends (men and women). If your problem is your husband's lack of attention, you probably don't like yourself. It's time for personal space, hobbies, entertainment, something that will restore your self-confidence, sparkle in your eyes, self-confidence and EMPLOYMENT outside of it. This may bring his attention back to you. Fitness, dancing, lunch / dinner with friends (men and women).

   It's perfectly normal, don't listen to those who tell you otherwise. Everyone wants to be liked and noticed. I'm also confident, even a little out of the norm, but I'm still glad to know that others like me too. This is a human instinct, by no means infidelity or similar nonsense.

   I am a man and I will explain things to you from a man's point of view. A man pays attention to a woman because this is the first step to an intimate relationship, then she is expected to show interest in getting closer, etc. This is inherent in our nature in order to get closer and get something good. This is not for the purpose of cheaply raising self-confidence. Once you are married and even more so with a child, men will naturally not pay attention to you. Why waste their time and put emotions into you after you're already busy? This attention will be given to women who are not busy and who respond to their feelings and get closer to them and something good happens between them. Wanting to selfishly get attention like that without anything to pump up your self-esteem is wrong, it's narcissistic. Now you just have to want your husband's attention or something is wrong.

   I am a man and I want to finally clarify something to the deluded Bulgarian women zombies by people like Kobilkina and various sick statuses on Facebook. 1 - You are married and have a child. To me, you are a waste of time and investing time in you is stupid. And please, you want such attention, for us all to bow to you, to raise your self-confidence, and what do you offer? Not even sex:) .... let's realize a little, huh? You receive as much as you give, you want not to give, but to receive? Come on, people like you, obviously, your collar is itchy and you've married some moldy people, and that's why your eyes are tickled to start looking at men like that for nothing ... laughter. 2 - Bulgarian women must realize that life moves on the path of LITTLE RESISTANCE! This is how the current moves, this is how the water, the river, everything moves along the path of least resistance. A month ago I liked one chick, she did not respond, after 3 days I already had another boyfriend. And I heard a comment from her that I wanted the easy, some schizophrenic jokes about a hunter and prey. Let me clarify that as well. We do not give 5 money for hunting and fishing. There are billions of women, you are NOT the only ones, you pretend to be interesting - we pass the next one, realize that you are NOT a special thing. You are nothing more than the woman next to you, as you are not you, there are always women. Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. When you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged dolls, even though you're still young (probably). she did not respond, after 3 days I already had another boyfriend. And I heard a comment from her that I wanted the easy, some schizophrenic jokes about a hunter and prey. Let me clarify that as well. We do not give 5 money for hunting and fishing. There are billions of women, you are NOT the only ones, you pretend to be interesting - we pass the next one, realize that you are NOT a special thing. You are nothing more than the woman next to you, as you are not you, there are always women. Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. When you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged aunts, even if you're still young (probably). she did not respond, after 3 days I already had another boyfriend. And I heard a comment from her that I wanted the easy, some schizophrenic jokes about a hunter and prey. Let me clarify that as well. We do not give 5 money for hunting and fishing. There are billions of women, you are NOT the only ones, you pretend to be interesting - we pass the next one, realize that you are NOT a special thing. You are nothing more than the woman next to you, as you are not you, there are always women. Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. As you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged aunts, even if you're still young (probably). And I heard a comment from her that I wanted the easy, some schizophrenic jokes about a hunter and prey. Let me clarify that as well. We do not give 5 money for hunting and fishing. There are billions of women, you are NOT the only ones, you pretend to be interesting - we pass the next one, realize that you are NOT a special thing. You are nothing more than the woman next to you, as you are not you, there are always women. Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. When you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged aunts, even if you're still young (probably). And I heard a comment from her that I wanted the easy, some schizophrenic jokes about a hunter and prey. Let me clarify that as well. We do not give 5 money for hunting and fishing. There are billions of women, you are NOT the only ones, you pretend to be interesting - we pass the next one, realize that you are NOT a special thing. You are nothing more than the woman next to you, as you are not you, there are always women. Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. When you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged aunts, even if you're still young (probably). We do not give 5 money for hunting and fishing. There are billions of women, you are NOT the only ones, you pretend to be interesting - we pass the next one, realize that you are NOT a special thing. You are nothing more than the woman next to you, as you are not you, there are always women. Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. As you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged aunts, even if you're still young (probably). We do not give 5 money for hunting and fishing. There are billions of women, you are NOT the only ones, you pretend to be interesting - we pass the next one, realize that you are NOT a special thing. You are nothing more than the woman next to you, as you are not you, there are always women. Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. When you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged aunts, even if you're still young (probably). Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. When you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged aunts, even if you're still young (probably). Not only were you arrogant with the men around you, but when they wrote you off, you were angry, aloooo. You know very well that the reason is the child, there are also topics on the verge, dig a little. As you wanted attention - to respond, not to get married, not to give birth. Come on, change diapers now and don't bother us with the typical problems of middle-aged aunts, even if you're still young (probably).

   When you don't love your husband, then you seek someone else's attention! Rearrange your priorities and don't do nonsense!

   I am a woman and I have always been amazed by the fact that most women build their self-esteem from the manifestations of male attention to them. If you are smart and observant enough, you will know that even the ugliest, ugly and plump woman has at least a dozen admirers who revolve around her. And I'm not even talking about Facebook - there are probably many more. It is very likely that each of the men who gives you their masculine attention will give the same to girls who she would definitely not call beautiful. So think carefully the next time you decide that men's attention means that you are beautiful and special. ;)