Is It Normal To Talk To Unknown Women?

   Not humiliating, but terribly annoying and brazen. A moron had been watching me for 15 minutes, now before, now after me. As he overtakes me on the stairs, he sits and waits for me like a dog. He walked and stared most impudently, after 15 minutes of psychopathic persecution he shouted in my face "MISS, work or study". He would get acquainted with my heel up close. Another idiot had followed me to my door, even though I had cut it twice already. I was about to call the police. In general, several morons are rubbed every day. In a nightclub and with less psychopathic behavior, it may not be such a bad idea, but it's generally rude. Not to mention if you obviously don't "fit".

   It is perfectly normal to talk to unknown women in different places. I have spoken. It is best to introduce yourself first and say what you are talking about.

   In principle, women can talk everywhere. The important thing is how you do it and ... notice ... how you look. No matter what they tell you, women divide people into two types and if you are attractive - you can hardly be a bastard in their eyes, unless you show it with actions. If you are not - they will think that you are literally mentally ill, in the initial stage of leprosy. The trick is to be light, in the sense that your behavior is light, not to be scorched, and when you talk to them to be funny and witty. Change your point of view, however, because while you think it's disrespectful to serve your instincts, there are a million women who just fuck. But you have to lie to them. The woman would seldom admit to herself, even that she just wanted to fuck. Brother.

   Look, there's nothing wrong with having sex without getting married, but you can't just expect to have sex with someone because you feel like it (except with a prostitute). You have to make her want you too. And talking to a stranger for the sole purpose of having sex with her ... is pretty rude. You have to be quite handsome and have very serious skills with women to afford such a thing. Otherwise, it's obvious that yours has confused you a lot. I would recommend you to go to a therapist, it will be very useful. As for women, you need experience and skills to communicate with them. Such in your history it becomes clear that you have not acquired, so think more in this direction. If all you have in your head is how to have sex with someone without committing, nothing good is waiting for you. Men desperate for sex are repulsive.

   Up to 2 Oooh, no! Our understandings of such relations are too congested. They are afraid to marry, just to have sex with someone, because ... the paritarhal system is still alive and well ...

   Yes, it's called a pickup.

   I sympathize with you because they have really distorted your notions of marriage and family. It makes sense for a man to get married if he is in love. Then it is great and true happiness. Otherwise it is pointless and stupid. There is no point in doing something just because everyone does it and they have told you so. You don't have to be like the others, it's important to be happy, and mud, that's your job. Of course, it's normal to talk to women you don't know. Of course, if after "hello, how do you" shake "I want to fuck you" it will not be respectful. But if you approach it properly, a chick will always come to you to drink something. And from there it will be seen. For example, you say, "Hello, I noticed you and I found you attractive. I'd like to meet you. If you want to go out for a drink. If you don't care, tell me, I don't want to bother you." I was talked about, most of the time I politely told them that they didn't like me, but once a nice boy spoke to me, I liked him and we saw each other for 4 months. Then we were just friends, but he was a cool person.

   I can't stand strangers talking to me on the street. This is completely psychopathic. One time it happened to me, I was walking on the road and a complete stranger stopped the car and said "Do you want me to take you"? I answered NO and did not turn around again. It really startled me and made me very uncomfortable. When you want ONLY sex, there are millions of sites for this purpose, and all the people on this site know why they are there. But on the street, it's very ugly, and can really get a lot of unpleasant reactions. My advice is to visit sites, this is ...; / Helga

   And, it depends, if you come across a woman who likes you, there is no problem. Once in the compartment I talked to a chick, it was just the two of us and the conversation went well, haho giggles. We exchanged phones and then for three months we met to fuck like never before. It is true that she was married, but she also liked it very much.

   It's not pleasant, annoying and rude. I'm certainly not happy for a stranger on the street to talk to me and annoy me, especially for that purpose. There are thousands of dating sites. Tinder, for example - there are many beautiful girls who are looking for just that. From where to where will you stop a chick in the mall and annoy her? It's different in nightclubs, but you don't have to cross certain boundaries there either.

   Abe people, you are a complete zombie ?! It was not pleasant, but annoying to stop women on the street? / number 14 /. Well, this is as old as the world and a NORMAL way of dating! You see the person, you like him and you want to meet. Then if he is for, what is easier and nice? What do you praise sites and tinder for me - fake, manipulated photos and a bunch of false words, and finally, if there is a meeting at all - Quasimodo and Grandma Yaga live. Enough with this virtual love, it's not worth it!

   As a person who talked to unknown women on the street (as part of a pickup course) I can say that IF your approach is adequate you will have a relatively good success (by good luck understand from 100 attempts to talk to have 10-20 longer conversations and finally 3-4 meetings). Personally, I'm not a super handsome man, nor the most sociable person, but even I managed to go out on a few dates after a few days of "pick-up". Some women get annoyed, others are curious about what's going on, and still others seem to like you from the first word. The latter are a minority, but they are everywhere, even if you don't talk in the streets. Otherwise, I haven't spoken for a long time, I don't want to go to courses anymore to be made to speak by someone more experienced than me. I want to talk alone or with friends, so we're practicing in bars now. There are a lot of women set up to lose you, but even there we had normal conversations with exchanging Facebook, etc. But I haven't had a bar date yet.

   I don't see anything wrong with talking to a stranger. But I think it's okay if she doesn't show interest, to back off and not bother her. You don't really read minds, you can't know if she'll want to meet you or not. But once you take the first steps, it will become clear. If he doesn't show interest, leave her alive, healthier.

   It's not bad to talk to them on the street, but there is a high probability that they will cut you. I don't want to offend you, but I will honestly share with you how things stand in women's eyes. 1. Such an acquaintance is a little strange, but why not? However, you have to be really beautiful to succeed. He cares a lot, a lot, a lot about his appearance. Whatever you can change in a positive direction - change it (teeth, well-groomed hair, well-groomed, slimming ...) Also pay attention to your style, hygiene and upbringing. These are all important things that play a huge role. (Regarding the teeth, I personally wouldn't mind if they are crooked, I find it non-standard-charming. :) It would be a problem if they are broken or not. ) 2. Most may cut you because either you won't like them visually, they will have a job, they will be committed, but the most possible reason for trimming is lack of beauty / hygiene. For me, for example, and for many others, appearance and character are equally important. If you are good, but unattractive - you have no special chances. If you are beautiful, but an ass by nature - absolutely. Money doesn't matter. Don't think of them. Well, if they have one of "yours", feel free to send it. 3. Even if you are very cool in every way, even if the girl is free, you may simply not be to her liking. For example, you are blond, and she likes black hair, etc. That is, the fact that she cut you should not complicate you and does not mean that she thinks you are disgusting, she just likes other things. 4 Even if you are not beautiful, you can still find a girl, but much harder. However, this should not demotivate you. Surely, somewhere in the world there is a girl (s) who would like you and such, what are you I just shared my experience and point of view. 5. Always be honest. Don't lie to them because it is felt, and it doesn't make sense. If you just want sex, tell yourself. Well, of course, not in a vulgar way. Here, for example, you have expressed yourself more than perfectly. Honesty is always highly valued, keep that in mind. Success! F, 22

   Brother, you regularly give men advice about women, and you're alone ... And no wonder. Having read the last two sentences to you (I agree with everything else above) and having read other comments here, you are clear ... Don't take offense, I say it with good intentions, but if you continue like this, you will be alone life. Who lied to you that women should lie? Why should I? When I look, you are prone to lies. A little reality: no one likes to be lied to, much less women. Besides, you can't lie, we know the whore numbers by heart. Personally, if someone tries to manipulate / lie to me, they will immediately feel a cruel jester on their doctor. I don't give a second chance. I hate whores and their toys. Many others share my opinion. Some (and not a few) do not deal with men at all, simply because they know what they are. And I'm about to become a man-hater. I'm even very close. "Thank you" for your contribution. He draws his conclusions alone.

   It also depends on what you say. It's very annoying to run somewhere, or to think of something of yours, and for someone who wants to shake something and stop you from your path. Most often they are some worn-out phrases, or outright vulgar. So who is impressed by this? To low-intelligence women. Talk to someone so that you grab her attention and stand out from the crowd. Any phrases sound super hollow. Try something of yourself.

   Up to 15 The annoying thing is when you don't realize that they don't want to talk to you, but you "nod" and hope for something. - Hello girl! You are very beautiful! Do you want to from ... - No! Bye! But she keeps soaking up and thinks that they will stuff her under her skirt ... And now imagine 20-30 hey fabrics a day, every day. If he was a man, he would probably slap them.

   I'm uncomfortable - it worries me. Especially if before he talks to you he hangs around for a while and looks at you impudently. Then he comes and shakes some nonsense and looks at you insistently as if waiting for something you owe him. I'm psychopathic and my only wish is to get out of there faster. This is the only reaction that such attempts have provoked so far - to get away faster. It is unpleasant when you are alone somewhere - for example at an empty stop or in an empty bus and there is no way to escape delicately, it is also unpleasant when it is full of people around and listening to the conversation. Even if the person is very cool and we have common things or topics, there is no way to understand in such a situation, because it is just confusing.

   Everything is normal as long as it is irritating. Talking is an art. Not many people know it. Of course, nothing in the world should be intrusive and annoying. Continuing or stopping is not the most difficult thing to understand / feel. Still, a certain "flair" is needed. The silence of the other party is not always due to lack of interest and unwillingness to communicate. And vice versa - paying attention to a normal human upbringing does not mean readiness for rapprochement. Leading is mainly the gaze. Facial expressions, grimaces ... On the other hand, there are all kinds of annoyances. Very often an acquaintance, colleague or even a relative can annoy you terribly ... In a sense, it depends on you. The smart person will always find the right way to get rid of it (without being rude).

   A serious man will not crash this way. True, I watch a lot of girls and women listen and itch them, but it's still stupid. Nothing serious will come out of this type of dating, if they want to go as boyfriends. Many people do not realize that these things happen spontaneously and with very strong attraction and chemistry. There are some specific moments.

   If you ask "where can", the women for each place will tell you that they can't. He can't be on the street because it was psychopathic; you can't go to the disco because they went there to have fun; you can't go to the gym because they went there to train; you can't work because you can't go there. He is very lucky. If the girl likes you, talking will be successful, but how do you know if she likes you if you don't talk to her? Paragraph 22 is obtained.

   I do not understand what is wrong with this type of dating. Give at least one good reason against. Personally, in my opinion, there is none. What if, for example, you like a man on the street and he would be a dream man for you, and if in your face he also sees the woman of his dreams, and if it really turns out that you were born for each other ??? Then why shouldn't one take the initiative for dating? There is only one life and if you do not use all the chances it gives you, then you are very bad. Yes, it's really a little strange such an acquaintance, but I don't see anything wrong with it. Think a little more modern, drop your prejudices and you will live at least a little better. Also, don't forget to use all the opportunities that life gives you. In time, you may regret it. Number 18

   If you liked a woman on the street and spontaneously decided to talk to her, it's normal .......... although it depends on whether they liked you and / or will like you, anyway. But walking around the streets, malls and restaurants and talking to unknown women for non-binding sex seems crazy to me. Why don't you sign up for some dances in pairs, author - salsa, bachata, kizomba. There you can meet a nice woman who will later tie you up. But it may take you a while. It rarely happens - from head to toe. Hi, I'm fine, do you want a non-binding one ... no?

   This does not work in Bulgaria, here women are blown away and scared if a stranger speaks to them and they feel a panicked desire to run away, probably because they have been taught from an early age not to communicate with strangers and they are very executive. They cannot relax and take advantage of such an opportunity, they are closed, cautious, distrustful and cynical. I have heard that such acquaintances often take place in other European countries and there is something normal - a chance meeting without knowing each other, hello, hello, meet, exchange contacts and start meetings and outings. However, we need people with self-confidence, confidence and positive thinking who see life as a series of opportunities and not people who are afraid, insecure and afraid that someone might do something to them and therefore are suspicious and run away. Here, women usually need time to get used to you and relax, that is, they need to see each other regularly on some other occasion, some commitment, hobby, something like that. You also have to pretend in front of them at the beginning that you are not attracted, because if you show that you like her, she will decide that she is something more and deserves something better. There are a lot of conventions and I'm not sure that if you know what you have to go through, you will care at all. In English there is an expression: "juice is not worth the squeeze" or juice is not worth squeezing, something similar is the situation. There are a lot of conventions and I'm not sure that if you know what you have to go through, you will care at all. In English there is an expression: "juice is not worth the squeeze" or the juice is not worth squeezing, something similar is the situation. There are a lot of conventions and I'm not sure that if you know what you have to go through, you will care at all. In English there is an expression: "juice is not worth the squeeze" or juice is not worth squeezing, something similar is the situation.

   A Bulgarian woman living in London told me that dating on the subway, on the street and the like is commonplace. BUT there is one "but". This usually only happens if the woman explicitly gives some sign to the man. For example, the woman likes him, looks at him more and of course the man easily understands that he is liked and now he decides whether to act. Or the man likes her, looks at her more like that, if she likes him he looks back at him and then follows an acquaintance, jokes possibly or just a quick exchange of contacts. But for a man to come suddenly uninvited and start stocking and annoying, as nothing can lead to a case of sexual harassment.

   One piece of advice, for which it is not clear how to behave. At least the basic manners are: Treat women the way you want men to treat your mother, your sister and your future daughter (God forbid!) Up to 26 "Think a little more modern, drop your prejudices and you'll live at least a little better. "Great, but I still don't think knocking the first person you meet on the street is the best and smartest decision.

   Yes, it works. If I liked a man on the street ... and what? Like it and hop to fuck with it? What if I don't like the character? What is this nonsense ... dating on the streets .... Everyone goes somewhere or has a job, does not think at all about such vulgar dumps. If a man sticks to me like that, not knowing if I'm free, if I'm busy, if I'm in a hurry, I would cut it off right now. I have a boyfriend and I don't need molds roaming the streets to take down women. Even when I wrote it, it sounds super vulgar.

   26 to 30: Where did you see me mention that I was fucking the first person I met and this is the best and smartest solution ??? My comment is in a completely different direction. And even if I did, what of it? I don't owe reports to anyone and I do what I want all my life, just without disturbing others. Otherwise, I do not approve of whores, regardless of gender.

   Talking and downloading are different things after all! I talk to those sitting around me on the train so that time passes faster. Gender, age, appearance in this case do not matter. The only thing I consider is whether they accept my "offer to communicate". If they answer with more than one sentence - we continue, if they do it unambiguously - I do not bother. Downloading is another matter. In all cases, some neutral verbal contact must have been established beforehand. How quickly he will direct the conversation in a dump depends mainly on the boy's darslov. Any haste is risky. Stretching lollipops also does not guarantee success. It is normal, after the initial attraction of attention, to do the maximum for his retention and to arouse interest in more communication. In the meantime, the active person must have grasped the interests of the other object and continue the conversation in the right (for both) direction. I find this sexual harassment too unnatural. In most cases, some insistence from men is needed (women must be inaccessible to some extent). The possibility of bringing a man to justice because of this discourages (to put it mildly) men in landfills. It is no coincidence that homosexuality flourishes. Or maybe this is some kind of ultimate goal. A real lady should not be able to deal verbally with intruders. In really extreme cases, it is normal to have legal protection, but my personal impression is that this is currently being abused a lot. In most cases, some insistence from men is needed (women must be inaccessible to some extent). The possibility of bringing a man to justice for this discourages (to put it mildly) men in landfills. It is no coincidence that homosexuality flourishes. Or maybe this is some kind of ultimate goal. A real lady shouldn't be able to deal verbally with intruders. In really extreme cases, it is normal to have legal protection, but my personal impression is that this is currently being abused a lot. In most cases, some insistence from men is needed (women must be inaccessible to some extent). The possibility of bringing a man to justice because of this discourages (to put it mildly) men in landfills. It is no coincidence that homosexuality flourishes. Or maybe this is some kind of ultimate goal. A real lady should not be able to deal verbally with intruders. In really extreme cases, it is normal to have legal protection, but my personal impression is that this is currently being abused a lot. A real lady should not be able to deal verbally with intruders. In really extreme cases, it is normal to have legal protection, but my personal impression is that this is currently being abused a lot. A real lady should not be able to deal verbally with intruders. In really extreme cases, it is normal to have legal protection, but my personal impression is that this is currently being abused a lot.

   Talking to a stranger on the street is not abnormal - they make him quite crazy every day. However, if you don't want to look like a bad case, travel by train. It's much more normal to talk to someone in the cabin while you're bored.

   24 and 34 are correct. And this is quite effective for trains.

   Interesting! where do you think your grandparents met ?! On Facebook for sure ...

   To number 36, you asked where our grandparents met. Have you heard about arranged marriages? Their parents arranged their marriages. Stranger to go talk to me, for dating, and sex it's awful. And whoever thinks this is normal ... I sincerely regret it. I will not pay any attention to such burners. How can you trust a stranger? What if he's sick of something ...? He won't tell you to be sure. One must choose one's life partners very carefully. And precisely because we are not careful, the abuse of women is not small ... So, let's all be careful who we sleep with. :) The cloud

   Cloud, with this suspicion you will only go to bed for life. Everyone can be sick of anything and they won't tell you just like that. The most important precautions are taken and a measured risk is taken. Having sex only with someone you want to commit to doesn't sound the most sensible thing to me. What if he turns out not to be very good at it? At the same time, someone, without any prior intentions for commitment, just saw you later liked for a lasting relationship ... And to stop and ask random ladies on the street for sex - at most to take some fist on the spot.

   At position 38, one can find the reason why many people are alone. Faced with such an attitude, many people stop making any effort at all and just start "waiting" for something to happen.

   Cloud, arranged marriages were among the upper class. My grandparents met at school and fell in love. The young people often met by people, by sedents. Like the current discos. And the boys were talking to the girls at the fountain. Believe me, if I talk to you on the street, I won't necessarily want sex. Yes, in principle I would like to, but after we meet and if we like each other. If you show me you're not interested, I'll respect your refusal. But I have neither failed nor burned. People are different. I know women who have told me that they admire the courage of strangers who show balls to talk to them. And even if they have no interest and cut off the man, they still have respect.

   I agree with number 15. We need to distinguish more between innocent talk and vulgar talk where things are completely different, every woman has probably fallen into the awkward situation where she coats and speaks in an unacceptable way and demonstrates psychopathic behavior at least once in her life. It is understandable why women are afraid and are prejudiced before what happens, but give a chance not to jump to any conclusions, you can very clearly understand whether a person or good or bad intentions towards you. I would be happy if someone talked to me. For example, I'm sitting on a bench in the park or I'm having coffee. I would be happy if someone decided to talk to me like that without any intention of doing so. Then you wonder why decent men are nowhere to be found, but how to meet someone like that, they are probably afraid to take the first step so as not to be accused of something or are ignored because they do not look impressive enough. It's really sad that nowadays people rely on dating sites, there's nothing wrong with that, but the bad thing is that it's at the expense of the other, and the old way is now perceived as almost abnormal. How did dating happen in the past through common acquaintances or if someone decides to talk to someone. One is not insured against anything in this life and on the internet you can come across a geek as a lot of people have said people pretend to be something they don't take other people's photos and pretend to be someone else and this method is not safe at all. I'm talking about dating. Personally, I generally wouldn't have casual sex in any of the ways listed, but I would definitely prefer to meet people live. I really hope people have more courage to do this and not lose courage if they suffer grahl I think that we are too engrossed in these technologies are useful no doubt nollll

   Number 25 said it all on the subject. As long as we are cowardly and overly cautious, we will stand alone. Point. Happiness is for the brave - a German proverb.

   I'm number 15. I'm interested in something - I want to ask the male audience here if they are gaining the courage to talk to a girl, for example, who is sitting on a bench or cafe, or they would not do it for some reason. I can say for myself that I am a girl and I would be happy if someone happened to talk to me. I would not be angry with the boy just because he spoke to me as I said above, it is obvious if the man is a simpleton or not. I wouldn't want anyone to bother to do it. I'm shy and I wouldn't take the first step of talking to someone even if I like them in some way and call me old-fashioned but I prefer the man to do something and not me. I admire the ladies who have the courage to do it, there is nothing wrong with that. Nowadays, however, I do not know how things go in two extremes in some females. Either they are closed and they see some bad intention in the person who undertakes a conversation with them, or they are too aggressive and attack the object of their interest and they have no stop. Of course, there are women who react completely normally and I really hope there are more such people.

   To 44 - I wouldn't talk to a stranger, even if I was sure I liked what happened to me. I just don't want to take risks and I want to take all the initiative and it is in a position of passivity and caution. Years ago I tried and I didn't like how things were going. I no longer talk to unknown women under any circumstances. Now I communicate only with familiar women with whom I do something together and I pay attention only to those who clearly give me a sign that they are attracted to me and like me, leaving the initiative to a greater extent to them.

   Number 45, that's how the dinosaurs disappeared. Soon we too. As long as men are passive and shy, what about us? !!

   Author, is this a real story? If so, this is a very serious problem in your head. Without a psychologist you won't be able to know. Otherwise, why not talk to women? It is even normal and polite. But it still depends on how you do it. It's one thing to wait in line to start a casual conversation about something like sunny weather or "sorry, I notice you're reading this book, and I was wondering yesterday if I should buy it." Is she good? ” And from there, if she cares about you, you can exchange Facebook or phone. And it's completely different to chase women on the street and make them crazy. Difference from earth to sky. In one case you're a dude, in the other you're a psychopath.

   45 to 46 - I do not know how the dinosaurs disappeared, but my experience of talking to unknown women is negative and therefore I can not recommend such an approach to anyone. If you like a man, try to show him in words and deeds, otherwise expect nothing. You see, a man is accustomed to being open-minded and proactive, but when he approaches a woman and she behaves inappropriately, withdrawn, impudently or something similar, anger arises in him. This anger has two ways out - either it turns into aggression and violence towards the object of negative emotions or this anger turns into cooling, distance and disinterest. If you want men to be proactive, then women must be very careful how they behave so as not to provoke this anger, that is, they must be ladies. If they are not careful, as it is now and looking only at themselves, they cannot expect men to be proactive, on the contrary - men will be distant and unemotional and will not take steps. In the current situation, it is better for women to show interest and take the first steps.

   I understand ... I know there is no hope for me to ever meet in the old-fashioned way. I don't know about other women, I can talk about myself. I'm terribly overwhelmed and I wouldn't talk to the person or stare for more than a few seconds because I'm embarrassed not to think I'm crazy. Some of the gentlemen here said that they do not do it because they should not be rejected, but what can I say. I'm usually not interested because I'm not attractive enough as a child, I had a huge complex about how I look now, the situation is not so bad, although there is much to be desired. I wouldn't talk either or something because I don't want to be looked down upon and then hear giggles or something like that.