Is It Normal For My Husband To Prefer To Fapping In The Bathroom Than To F*ck Me?

tell him you want to do everything he wants in bed, but absolutely everything and do it. If that doesn't happen then he's homo

You need a marriage counselor. From the described situation, it seems that he has a problem. but even so, it would be right to decide together. Think about whether you oppress him in any way, whether he has problems at work, whether he has an inferiority complex and most of all what prompted him to make this move ... Good luck!!!

I can speak on my behalf I had not exactly such a problem but I bought a book on how to become a good mistress I did not think I could do the things that were written there, believe me, it helped me is nothing special but when my husband said that after 10 years the marriage is better from the beginning in principle we talk a lot about our problems and it helps try there is nothing wrong to challenge him to try if you love him it is necessary to believe the pleasure after this day is indescribable :))) success

Since you love him, it's right to talk to him about it, it's clear why he prefers to do "fappings". Just because you hate yourself ... At least that's what he thinks .... use new things, buy new underwear ... let him do whatever he wants!

You sit together at the table, talk, discuss your intimate relationship, who wants what, what they offer, and, if necessary, rape each other.

where you f*ck with others will not prevent you from loving him again

Tell him you want to give it to him from behind!

Don't worry, that's what we all do. If you're smart, don't bother him. Put on a satellite so he can watch adult movies and it doesn't bother him. So there will be everyone virtually, and it will only be yours for real.

Certainly wants to try something new but does not dare to share it with you and for that in the bathroom only with fantasies I would do anything for my wife

What was this man like! Great filth. I think you're tired of him. If you have the opportunity, sleep with other men. Doesn't he cheat on you this way...

Try another man. Your life passes without pleasures. Whoever you are with - one day you get bored, and you will not be forever young and beautiful. Men do not deserve fidelity because they do not. A side connection will give you a new look at yourself and you will smile at everything.

If you have tried to masturbate try each other. Grab him by the cock and make him a check and let him mess with your way with your fingers. Try it

Maybe there is another problem outside of s*x - he suspects that you have cooled down to him or he is involved and is tormented to act. Before aggressively offering non-standard s*x, try a predisposition to a general life plan. Be kind, radiant, go to an unfamiliar place and predispose him to speak. Not just for love and trouble. Behave as you did before marriage. I believe that this way you will gradually harmonize.

He is gay!

Obviously, he is homosexual.

Indeed! He is not straight.

Are you sure you're giving him what he wants? Can he ask you for s*x at any time or does he have / now, not now, etc?

Drop it HEY!

Probably... your bf is homo.

He's not gay, you just don't give him what he needs. Leave what your ex-boyfriends told you. If so, you would be married to one of them. Glad he still doesn't go to prostitutes every day. Take serious measures with your hygiene and start going to the gym regularly. Start emptying it more often with your mouth only, then gradually try to bring back the conversations about s*x and its fantasies. Ask yourself to f*ck you from behind. The "face" who has been so insistently writing for more than a year, "He's gay! ..... He's gay!" has serious and deep personal problems ...

I am a man of 37. The problem with your husband is common and I had such a period with my penis. The problem is that you need change, especially on your part. It turns out that men are constantly looking for a change and the new, different, and unknown intrigue and excite us. I would recommend you to do a few things. First change your style of dress, style and how you are there but not a familiar woman who loves but does not him ......... try to predispose him and do not show him jealousy but give him freedom. Try to understand what fantasies there are, this is very important for both men and women. When a woman or a man masturbates in the presence of a partner, it means that they fantasize about something that they are ashamed to share with the person next to them no matter how much I hope that what I wrote here is useful to you, but it is sincere and from experience.

№21, I believe you are completely honest and speak on behalf of an experienced person. But tell me, if she's tired of him, isn't his own hand? And isn't it selfish to ask us, women, to constantly change? However, one cannot change one's character. And if we constantly try to look good, keep fit, go to a beautician, hairdresser, etc. regularly. what can we do to be different?

Well, you men have a lot of pretensions. Egati and special. Let's not do anything because the prince didn't like it, let's change constantly because the prince wanted it that way. And don't you want us to sit on the front stand if you want to have s*x ?! Push your chicks while watching po*n and don't complain that women are cheating on you. Don't you realize that your neglect makes us complex? Most women try to maintain themselves constantly, and since you don't appreciate that, f*ck your mother.

That's right 23;)

I think so too 23

Ma'am, you're not bored ... and you're tired of continuing with the "We live to learn" process. 1st read the book on "how to become a good mistress" 2nd-while, reading the book use the technique with p*rn

Well, there are such moments, but something is lame in you or in you or in him. Human beings, even if you have been for a long time and especially your partner is inclined to speak / you can understand what he lacks. Be glad that he has not replaced you with another now is the time to realize his ideas about s*x you need a little to be happy. Do not be selfish to each other. Everyone to give something of themselves and and it will happen. But in fact the decision is yours and the results too. Success ..

It is normal for a man to get tired of sex, even with a perfect wife. Rejoice that he makes checks, and does not obviously go abroad!

Well, he's cheating on you. While masturbating in the bathroom, he thinks of someone else. Personal experience.

let him masturbate but you can show him naked he can get mad at him and even f*ck you without stopping

I do not know what others say but sometimes it is normal for a man to want to be alone, I suggest you tell each other the fantasies were they perverted or will have an effect :) believe me my girlfriend gave me this number and now I can't wait to go home work and cuddle with her in bed ...

BRAVO THANK YOU 31. : D: D: D

My husband has been complacent for years, I'm sure of that, but I've never caught him. We were at sea with our two children in the same room and therefore no s*x for a whole week. We both couldn't stand it and we rented two in double rooms and here we are in bed. On the second day at noon, we f*cked, and in the evening he took his laptop and said he had some work to do on the computer. At two in the morning I woke up from a puff in my face and rocked on the bed. He was beating himself so fiercely that I woke up. I was so outraged, I told him to sit alone in bed and just get better. He ate neither onions nor smelled onions. He fell asleep as a baby, and I smoked a pack of cigarettes on the balcony and poured pure gin. I fell asleep only at dawn and in the morning we had to return home because our vacation was over and I was driving because the gentleman did not have a driver's license and could not drive a car. I hated him a lot, now I don't let him touch me. what is the problem I do not know, maybe complexes?

First, when you want to have s*x with your husband, you book your vacation so that the children are in a separate room. Right now there are plenty of opportunities for a cheap holiday, but also with children in a separate room.

It is insulting and disgusting to find your husband masturbating, but when he does, so do you, and at any convenient moment, wherever you are, cum a hundred times a day. Make him understand this, and make him sick. And it's best to do it together. The pleasure is really great.

35, at least for me there is nothing more arousing than a masturbating woman, so what the hell are you talking about I can not understand? !! I would even say that in this case, as with the author, a very good strategy for solving the problem is to make her husband catch her "unwillingly" while she masturbates, there is no way she can't come to get involved ... Not out of anger and envy, but out of excitement. And I will not comment on number 33, so many complexes in one place ... And the strangest thing is that she allegedly knew that she had been masturbating for years, and now, finally receiving the proof, suddenly the big scandal ... I fully support number 34 , keeping your husband dry, you don't give him any other chance than to masturbate anyway, and why not do it soon with someone else ... There are so many lost women, it's not real ...

Otherwise number 33, at the time there were no hotels (very many) and my parents and I went on vacation at a station - all in one room. Well, now I remember that on the volume they wanted to "nankat", and we had to go out to play. We did all sorts of nonsense with the other children (we sprayed ourselves with water, we smashed a fountain, we made a theater, we robbed gardens), because all the "old" slept at lunch, and we were proud to be big enough for an afternoon nap. Being married does not mean owning your husband and vice versa. I like to masturbate, he doesn't - at least not alone, because his ex-wife was like number 33 and he feels guilty ... I even stage p*rn nights with him, which I choose according to his taste and we have a very good time. Every day we have either s*x or something with a "happy end". I feel sorry for the women who keep their husbands dry and jealous of their right hand.

35, if he could have s*x with you, it's insulting yes, otherwise .... even if he doesn't arouse you, which is a little strange, why shouldn't he have the right to give himself pleasure .....

About 36, as I am a woman and for me she is a VERY arousingly beautiful masturbating woman. But even though I wrap it up with my husband, without worries and restraints, why should he be complacent without me - and I want to be a part of it. That a man doesn't like to watch his wife masturbate in front of him.

This connection has been EXHAUSTED FOR A LONG TIME !!! I was like that too and I was with my girlfriend unfortunately but I put an end to everything! He just doesn't want you to try this anymore !!!

39, something I can not understand you. Once you masturbate together and you feel good, what's the problem with him masturbating alone? Since you like watching women masturbate, you probably watch that kind of p*rn from time to time, and even more likely then you masturbate too. Since you do, why can't he? Are you jealous of his hand?

41 - Yes, I watch and do it, but I watch women, not men with big dicks and how they masturbate, and I don't do it every day. And with him it is daily. This annoys me - EVERY DAY! Do you think this is normal? At least to watch them incognito, and he seems to deliberately leave it on display, and he doesn't want me to show him how you become incognito on the net.

I don't think that the man has anything to hide, his body is his and he doesn't do anything forbidden or illegal, but number 40 may be right ...

It's not normal. Talk to him. What did you do as you would play the man and the hand intimately at your expense? If he has fun alone and you are satisfied - OK. Otherwise, you have a problem. And if you have fantasies with others in your head, you are definitely not satisfied. I personally would not tolerate this. Or he is a man, as a man, and I will not wonder whether to wear it alone or with someone else. Or away from me. After all, s*x is important.

From 39, we have already talked. Half of the blame for the problem turned out to be our son (I asked him and he confirmed embarrassed). As for my husband - he said that he really likes s*x with me, blowjobs, masturbating with me and imagining me, imagining how nice it was before we did threes and fours. I wonder how it can end when I slapped x *** on the other, ie. it was so exciting for him - to end when his own wife blows another's whistle? He imagined me !!!! He knows I'm masturbating too - I've told him before, and he said he really likes me doing it, and it turns him on. He says I'm a big slut - in the good sense of the word. I don't know what stuck in my head. Last night we did it all night until light - po*n, masturbating, cumming a LOT, socks, boots, sexy transparent tank tops, etc. Today I'm just blooming and I'm mad at myself for bothering me so much lately. We have sex, as few families do. We have been together for 18 years and we are discovering more and more new fruits of sex. I want to tell others with thoughts like mine until yesterday - to sit down and talk openly with your partner about where the problem is. There is always a solution. I am calm now. It's good that my husband wants me so much.

After reading you, I began to think that you would ban masturbation by law. So much so that the man did it, but you don't? It was insulting to catch him, but I'm not insulted, I'm even pleased. I caught him like he caught me and always followed by sex. I don't see anything wrong with that. Think about whether you do not have complexes or are jealous of men at their hands.

To 42/46: I don't know if you're the author (probably not), but when I read comment 46 and I found it funny ... How little women needed :-) Until a few days ago, the whole world was your fault, and it was full of doubt and malice (read comment 35 again). And after one night of hard f*cking everything was fine :-)

There is nothing wrong with satisfying one's sexual fantasies. For example, your husband most likely has a fetish on his hands. You can try to satisfy him with your hand. In the meantime, I don't think there should be a problem with fulfilling your sexual fantasies with other men once you fulfill his.

The solution is very simple, ask him what p*rn he likes to watch and do it in the same scenarios the effect is guaranteed

Ima 3 veroyatnosti: 1)Debela si; 2)Mŭzhŭt ti ima spetsifichni seksualni fantazii, koito nyamat nishto obshto sŭs seksa, koĭto praktikuvate, no te mu nosyat po-golyama naslada, a ti ne gi spodelyash. Zatova toĭ si fantazira i gali zmiyata; 3)Pritesnyava se ot seksa s teb. Ima problemi s erektsiyata, svŭrshva bŭrzo ili neshto ot sorta. Tova go kara da izbyagva seksa, no razbira se ne mozhe bez da se samozadovolyava pone; Tova, koeto ti mozhesh i tryabva da napravish opredeleno ne e da pishesh po razni saĭtcheta, a da napravish po edno kafe, da go pokanish na masata i da mu kazhesh naĭ-privetlivo i usmikhnato kakŭv e tvoya problem i kak se otrazyava toĭ na teb, kak bi zhelala da bŭdat neshtata, a kak ne sa. Khvashtash go za rŭkata, gledkash go v ochite i pitash "Zashto". Показване на още 736/5000 There are 3 probabilities: 1) You are fat; 2) Your husband has specific sexual fantasies that have nothing to do with the s*x you have, but they bring him more pleasure, and you do not share them. That is why he fantasizes and caresses the snake; 3) She's worried about having s*x with you. There are erection problems, it ends quickly or something. This makes him avoid s*x, but of course he can't do it without masturbating at least; What you can and should definitely do is not write on different sites, but make a coffee, invite him to the table and tell him in the most friendly and smiling way what your problem is and how it affects you. , how she would like things to be, and how they are not. You take his hand, look him in the eye and ask "Why".