I'm a girl of 18, 12th grade. My best friend and I have had arguments only about small things, but we always get along and we don't have scandals. After all, we are a lion (I) and a scorpion (she), so there is opposition to two strong characters. However, we have always been one behind the other, these are 5 years of friendship and countless moments - both good and bad, always shared. I love her like a sister I don't have! Recently, however, she erupted against me for something very stupid, for which I do not feel guilty at all, but she is trying to impute to me. Here's what exactly. She liked a boy and told me about him shortly before the holidays. He told me who he was and I know what kind of product the boy is, some kind of downloader. He looks good and polite, but he makes sweet eyes on absolutely every girl to raise his ego. He had written to me a few months ago. Romantic words compliments. I realized that he wrote to at least 5 others at the same time. We live in a medium-sized city, so most of us know each other. Last week, after the holidays, I decided to warn her. I showed her the chat with him. I said what I think about it and my opinion of it in general, so that it does not sink seriously. Instead of accepting this, she thought I was nervous. She accused me of being tactless in showing her a chat with someone she had feelings for, and that in this way I had killed my complexes on her, compared myself, and tried to make her sad. Bullshit! I told her she didn't know what they were blabbering on about, and I was just being honest, and she told me that if I cared, I would have shown her the chat as soon as she told me, not just now, and I almost did. just to upset her. She removed things from our rank quite ostentatiously and moved to another alone, on purpose. I thought it was a temporary insanity and I apologized, I called her after school, but she didn't pick up and didn't answer, but she looked at my messages in vain. For a whole week, I'll see what happens today. One is empty and restless without her. But where is my fault? And no, before you think she's jealous, she's not. It's just that she's always of the opinion that everyone is against her and gets into dramas, but she was bullied as a child by classmates and that's why. I don't envy either. But I don't realize WHY get angry about such an illogical thing and how can I get it back? This is an 18-year-old girl, I don't know why she makes a scene for me for such nonsense. He could just say, "I wasn't happy he showed me the chat." So to be honest, I'm intolerant, and if I had kept quiet, I would have been a liar.
1 oldpro999 answered
Don't apologize to her. So you kind of admit that you're guilty and she's right, she's not. You did what you could, from now on leave her, if she realizes, she'll look for you. Don't be humiliated to look for her anymore. If she could not understand the service you are doing, it is her problem. Let her sip the boy's potpourri and find out for herself what you mean.