Good evening all! I apologize in advance for the stupid question, but I would like advice. I have been living (I have been living for 2 months) with a boy at the head of the family. The point is that so far I have not lived with a man / boy, but only with ours and I have never cooked before, but I still learned, as well as many other household things. (until now I could only wipe windows, clean, wash, etc.) This morning before he left for work he ordered me to clean the bathroom and because I could not do it because I had a commitment (he knew for this), when he came home he immediately shouted at me that I had not cleaned, and I told him that after I took the laundry from the stretcher and folded it I would do it. And lately he's just insulting me for being lazy, etc. On top of that, he kicked me out of his apartment. I was just amazed and asked him if this was his love. !! For as long as I can remember, my father always helped my mother God forgive her, what prevented him from doing the same? !! That's why we're a couple, that's why we're a team ... Despite everything, I packed my laundry, folded my clothes and just as I was going to clean the bathroom, he shouted at me once again and kicked me out. But because I have dignity, I packed my bags and moved out. Before that, I cried and kissed him and told him that if one day I am not in this world, I want him to know that there is a person who loves him more than himself. PS My question is did I do the right thing? I folded my clothes and just as I was going to clean the bathroom, he shouted at me once more and kicked me out. But because I have dignity, I packed my bags and moved out. Before that, I cried and kissed him and told him that if one day I am not in this world, I want him to know that there is a person who loves him more than himself. PS My question is did I do the right thing? I folded my clothes and just as I was going to clean the bathroom, he shouted at me once more and kicked me out. But because I have dignity, I packed my bags and moved out. Before that, I cried and kissed him and told him that if one day I am not in this world, I want him to know that there is a person who loves him more than himself. PS My question is did I do the right thing?
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Well, I had a friend who loved me more than herself, so she didn't wait for me to tell her when to clean, cook, wash, but she knew when to do it herself. I also helped, of course, even our only quarrels were who would let the vacuum cleaner go, who would wash the dishes ... So of course it's best, but if a person has a desire, there is no excuse
He's an amazing snail and he doesn't deserve you. You didn't do the right thing. He had to be slapped
Don't expose yourself ... Who is he to behave like that with you? How can you think that he loves you or that you love him ... Grow up, find someone else who will not treat you like garbage. You women amaze me. Just to tell you that he burst out laughing behind your back - I'm talking about the last nonsense you told him. Honestly, no one deserves such treatment, I hope you realize and find someone else. I wish you good luck and common sense.
Yes. And don't go back to him !!!
Another fake topic, he yelled at you for not cleaning and he knew you were busy. Complete nonsense, don't bother to comment at all.
We are probably about the same age. I live with my boyfriend, I don't even know when, it's been a year, I think we're even going to a second. In the beginning I could only cook certain things, it was always clean, but I did not handle all the preparations properly. It's normal, everyone goes this way. My friend never told me to clean a room and never shouted at me about household chores. Once I burned a pot, he told me we wouldn't throw it and he didn't complain. I cried, I felt like a complete failure, but he didn't say a bad word, he even asked for more. If he doesn't like something, he fixes it himself. Basically, I clean, cook and wash, which doesn't affect me at all, because he treats me normally and I don't feel like a slave. If he yells at me for every little thing, if he orders me non-stop, if he treats me like I owe him, without telling me I will leave. That's right, you are young and attitude is extremely important in a relationship. I wouldn't leave because the man wants a clean bathroom, but I would leave if he treats me badly.
Yes. He knows how to call himself to clean his bathroom. And ours help each other. It's ugly what he did. He obviously can't appreciate you, and if that's the case, he doesn't deserve you.
What did you like about this one? Horror!
You did the right thing. In our country the organization is as follows. On Saturday or Sunday, according to our commitments, we drink our coffee in bed, get lazy until about 10 o'clock and give a signal: "Come on, dude, let's clean. What are you taking?" He says: I'll go with a vacuum cleaner, you clean the bathroom, I'll run the washing machine, and you wipe the dust. Said, done. Then we go to the market. We stuff the products in the trunk, he puts them in the fridge, and I fix my clothes, because after we're done with this whole thing, we go to the movies. And our whole afternoon is free for fun. When we get back, I make dinner while he rests. But after dinner, he clears the table while I make the bed. As you say: team! Except she can't cook my husband. He, the rains, to cut a tomato, will not put salt on it, her oil - a complete tragedy. But in other household activities I can totally rely on him. When he sees that I am too tired, he himself tells me: to see you in bed, I will put away the laundry and wash the dishes!
You did the right thing. And don't go back to him!
He does not want a wife, but a stepmother. Why didn't he clean up?
If I have 100 million and a hundred I give them for a girl like you;).
No, you were wrong! He needs a maid, not love. Forget about him! M. 48
I am amazed by your masochism. How can you love a guy who looks at you like a maid and behaves like that? I don't know how old you are, but such love is incomprehensible to me even in the absence of life experience.
I think that a man who loves you will be satisfied with what you offer him, even if Mr. Edda doesn't burden you.