Hello everyone :), you must have read similar topics, I could not find and now I want to ask you if you can give your advice. It was my first time two or three days ago, and since yesterday, when I go on a small bowel movement, I feel pain while urinating and shortly after. Cystitis can be caused by many things: colds, retention of urine in the bladder for a very long time - as I do, bacteria and others. My question is the following - is it possible to be from the 1st time, because the window was open, I may have caught a cold, if I tell my mother, she will take me to the doctor - no problem, but if she offers to go to the gynecologist and look at me below and see that I'm no longer a virgin, I don't know how she will react .. as a child I also had, I'll tell her that I must have caught a cold and that I don't go to the toilet right away, but I squeeze and I don't think that he would take me to a gynecologist right away, but what was the chance he wouldn't find out about sex? :)
1 missusabianka answered
Most likely from your first time - it is no accident they say cystitis and infection on the first wedding night. These are anal bacteria that can get close to the urethra during intercourse - it's not so much a matter of hygiene as it is of immunity. Go to a doctor to prescribe you an antibiotic, without it generally not working. You don't have to tell him for the first time - cystitis is quite common at this time of year, but more in sexually active women, it is not excluded in sexually inactive women with weak immunity - calm down here. Go to your GP - a urine sample is taken. You can also go to a gynecologist, but he will also take a urine sample and nothing more - HE WILL NOT LOOK DOWN YOU and you do not need to tell him about intercourse. Otherwise - not from the window. This with its current and excesses is bg. myth and legend -) A person gets sick from bacteria, fungi or viruses. The cold simply weakens the immune system, but being in an open window is not in itself a cause of illness. What happened - happened. IMPORTANT - USE CONDOMS! ... your cystitis will heal quickly. Drink a lot of fluids - bearberry tea and mineral water, if you are in Hissar. Calm and smart! Try not to get pregnant - the rest is easy.