Hello :) I have written stories on this site quite often, I decided to write again. I have similar recent stories in which I talk about myself and want advice on something. This time I plan to ask something similar, because I wonder if there are others like me. I am 16 years old - a boy. Today I went out with a friend (he is also 16 years old) to take a walk and have fun, as we do, from time to time. We had talked about who exactly I liked, and I sympathized with a girl from another country (I know that nothing will happen, but what prevents me from liking her still, except that it will get worse over time). Our conversation turned to the topic that I sit in us too much (more or less so, I go out, from time to time) and not play sports (I went to dances, but for health reasons I gave up). He told me that I would find no one, and that I would be left alone, because most girls like guys with a slim figure (most girls where I live are bloody, which doesn't give me much hope of training to make someone like me). I came home now and thought about our conversation and why I am, who I like and why I am not liked ... As I said - I am a 16-year-old boy, I am thin, I have shoulder-length hair (which almost everyone my age I know , they don't like (not that I care about their opinion, I like myself more with the debt, maybe even longer)). (Soon I can start going with a bowler hat, I'm also considering taking something like a pirate raincoat, because I like it a lot) I'm excellent and in general, I have some general culture, I go in Russian (I like it I study), I generally like books like "Fantasy" (not that I read a lot, but it's not like I don't read anything). I also go out with friends (not very often, most of the time they go out with a large company, and I don't like that when I'm with 2 or 3 people, it's the most pleasant for me). I don't like the music that most people listen to - and Serbian, I HATE HER! I listen mainly to Celtic, Viking, metal, instrumental ... I'm not a party-goer (I don't like parties), I also don't drink, I just don't like it. Mainly, when I play something on the computer, I play alone, I generally do not play games for more than 1 person. I never had a girlfriend. I haven't liked a girl from my city for a year or so, now I like another one from Ukraine (a Bulgarian woman who lives there with her parents), but apparently she doesn't feel anything for me (no matter how much I feel sympathy for her It does not matter). Needless to say, no girl likes me right now, but I don't care at all (I've never had a boyfriend, I did not go looking for one now). As I started my topic, so I will continue. I haven't trained so far. Honestly, I don't see much point in training unless it's for health. I would start training (not much, but a little to start just for fun, not for the ultimate goal, because I just don't care so much, I'd rather spend time with friends training).
My choice for girls I like is pretty weird. I don't care so much about the lady's body, but rather her brain. Basically, I like girls first on the face (not always, this is like a first impression), then whether she is good, kind, polite (mainly on her upbringing I judge and fall in love). Almost everyone finds it strange, they even made fun of me because I like it in my mind mainly, and not in appearance (in a previous class I liked the most unattractive girl of all) (big, very tall and fat), mainly because she was nice, good, smart). Basically I like the weak, but the body is one, you can change it, the already built character, very difficult. Going back to the conversation with the boy - he told me that girls mainly like boys with a nice body, the opposite too. Personally for me it is not so, I would like some to like me, for myself, not for my body (which I am sure is impossible, at least for these 16 years I have accepted that I will be alone :)), I prefer it to be a bonus for the girl;), because I'm sure this is not the most important thing you can judge by 1 person. I plan (and I'm good at calculating;)) to start training with friends (mainly because I will spend more time with them), but no, so that I can like one of the many types of blood (I apologize if you are offended by this, just most of the girls in town are like that and behave like that). I would like to ask the reading audience, is it normal at my age to have such interests and preferences (about girls and to like them mentally mainly and not in appearance (from so many repetitions you will think I'm lonely, I'm not, I'm fine and I don't need a girlfriend, I'm just curious to know your opinion about it), don't look for someone at all (the girl from Ukraine is different, she has only temporary sympathies, I think I'm talking about a girl from your own city and not falling in love with anyone.) I also want to know what kind of boys/girls you like (mainly to find out if the boy I was out with was right or wrong). Thank you in advance!:
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I also look at the mind and intelligence in a man. He may be an unearthly handsome man, but if he was dumb, I just wouldn't look at him. Maybe it's some kind of sapiosexuality. As for appearance, I like tall men with wider shoulders, but as you say, it doesn't really matter, because just as I've met men with such a figure who haven't attracted me to anything, there have been more short and weak, which grabs me at first sight. I also like long hair or zero - number one. You are 16 years old and life is ahead of you. You will not be left alone, you just did not come across the girl who will love you as you are. Black Sabbath