I have been in a relationship for 3 years, I am 22 years old, and he is 2 years older. Whatever happened, we finally made it. I'm a chatterbox, and he's silent - I can accept that somehow, but maybe it's not just that, because he doesn't even express his opinion. When I ask him what he thinks - I do nonsense, harass him and 'I'm not good with my mind'. An example of our phone conversation: Me: how are you, baby - is there a lot of work? He: not now. You, baby? Me: my normal, I had lunch a while ago. He: what does he eat? Me: chicken with cabbage ... I want to talk about our relationship, our communication is lame - we never talk about anything serious. Whatever is up to me, I do it. He: are you starting again? I'm tired of you already. Me: I'm just telling you ... He: bye, I'm busy. Being together is the same - only then he is busy with the phone, TV, smoking .. Kind of, I bring in shm voltage. But our conversations are always like that. And to answer a question, my opinion changes 180 degrees. Sometimes we 'talk' more, that is, I talk, and he listens to me a little. And after less than 5 minutes I tease him already.
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Very abruptly from lunch to your relationship, that's what I think about this conversation. I'm a woman and I wouldn't do that, first it's not for the phone, tell him something unloading and fun and he won't cut you off. When you see each other, don't tell him we need to talk, and you go straight to the problem, but not as soon as he gets home. Let him eat, feel comfortable and little by little you go to the problem with a friendly tone, without shouting and screaming. If he doesn't want you to discuss things like developing your relationship, then he doesn't think he'll go any further with you.