I had sex with a boy for the first time a few months ago. I'm 20, he's 26. I'm his fourth girlfriend. Before him I had only one friend, but sex did not happen because he fell in love with another and we broke up. I was disappointed with the boys until he showed up. He admitted to me that he and his ex-girlfriend hadn't tried anything other than him being on top, and so had she. Neither anal nor other poses. She didn't give him whistles or empty his hand. They didn't do it in the car, or in the shower, or anywhere else. He has not done anything different with any of his girlfriends. He hadn't even licked a woman before me, and he liked it. I was surprised. There was no sex with the boy I was, but we hung out a lot, and he licked me there. And I tried to blow his whistle. Maybe we should have had sex, but we were both virgins then, and we wanted to know our bodies first. But then he fell in love with another and so on. I told him all this, and he wants to try everything with me - and poses, and places. He wants to make me French more often because he likes it. And I finished it by hand and he is very happy. And I tried for a whistle and he liked it. It was the first time a girl had done this to him, and it was nice. He praises me, although I have no experience compared to him. I just touch and kiss where I like and see that it gives him pleasure. I know something may not be so perfect, but I just do what I feel is right. I know I can't compete with his years of experience, I don't try. I want to talk openly about sex, what we like, and he told me that for the first time it happens to him to talk to a girl so free about having such honesty. It comes out, that the inexperienced teaches the experienced how to deliver pleasure. Do you think he is honest about his experience with other women, or does he just boost my self-esteem? Is he lying to me because I'm inexperienced, or is he honest? It sounded sincere to me, but it was strange to me how he didn't diversify sex with anyone in any way. That he had had such boring sex for years? Do you think a man would lie about something like that?
1 nokia answered
He may be lying, but I don't think so. If it sounded sincere to you, it probably was. It's weird for me too, because like you I'm sexually liberated in my head, a man has had such a boring life in bed so far, but there are a frightening number of sexually repressed people for whom this has been a reality for years or even a lifetime! Extremely beautiful is what happens between you and his sexual release, getting used to the normality and comfort on the subject. If it really is as he says, know that your relationship and what you do for him is very, very special and deep! Good luck and many happy experiences in the bedroom! USA