Hello I want to ask you for advice because I no longer know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, but the other day I saw something that really made me think and bothered me a lot. We were outside (right in front of us) and he told me to go to the car for some discs, and he entered the house. I picked up the discs and was about to get out of the car when I saw that his phone was in the seat. In principle, I never just leave my phone and I was quite curious ... and I started looking at it. Then I got really upset because there was a text message he had written a few minutes ago to a very old boyfriend of his ... not that I'm jealous in general, but the text message was quite nice and he used a name we both call ourselves. . Then I looked at the calls ... he had called her shortly after the text message. After seeing everything, I just went home and said nothing. In the evening he started asking me why I had come home like that and then I couldn't stand it and told him what I had seen. Then we started arguing ... I even told him that I didn't want him anymore, but during the night he told me that everything was intentional to see how I would react. I was quite offended, but we got along. Now my trust is much less, but we are together. I want your opinion ... is there another one and he is lying to me or he really wanted to see my reaction. I can't judge because he didn't behave strangely to suspect that there was another. to see how I would react. I was quite offended, but we got along. Now my trust is much less, but we are together. I want your opinion ... is there another and he is lying to me or he really wanted to see my reaction. I can't judge because he didn't behave strangely to suspect that there was another. to see how I would react. I was quite offended, but we got along. Now my trust is much less, but we are together. I want your opinion ... is there another and he is lying to me or he really wanted to see my reaction. I can't judge because he didn't behave strangely to suspect that there was another.
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I think he's lying to you ... he just figured out the reason to get rid of it somehow, I did it too :)