I am a woman of 26, I live in a nice seaside town. I have a serious friend of 3 and a half years, I fell in love with him for the first time, he is the person I would like to spend my life with. We have common plans, we don't fight, we are a little far at the moment (maybe this is the reason for my story) we understand each other more than perfectly sexually, I have a regular sex life, I also don't pretend to be two and a half - I'm open and I want to try everything. For the simple reason that I am a realist - diversity is necessary and it is best when you share it with the man next to you. And there is the problem. That I think he is most aroused to talk on the phone, from 2 weeks only (in my opinion) stupidity enters his head and does not leave me alone, he can spend hours questioning me nonsense. Let me add that I am not one of those who come here to write and polish the cane ... I'm very ashamed to share this, I just wouldn't live and I want to know if they are all such perverts or I'm a bit rigid in this regard ... I just want a little consolation, and this probably not my closest friend I would share it. He has a fetish for humiliations. He fantasizes about humiliating him by calling him while blowing on someone (no, I haven't cheated and I don't want to !!!), some mixed spit vomit and other body fluids in cups, there must always be some fantasy in phone sex, where he either watches me while I have sex with another or while we walk on the beach, how I am with my gender, how my private parts are visible, etc. I thought this was a harmless fantasy, but we haven't seen each other in 2 weeks and I'm starting to get nervous (it's worth mentioning, that we are far away at the moment and we hear each other on the phone) He had asked me what I thought about swing couples and I had told him that possibly it was good for serious couples who were more or less tired and kept the fire going. On the second day he had immediately found a phone "supposedly" to be curious, I scolded him, but this is still in his head. Yes, I don't mind the variety, I even offered a threesome with a girl, as my condition was that we should have sex with her. Otherwise there is no way to force it in my opinion, you need chemistry. Now I sang the same song on the phone again - about the presence of a third person, I don't think that after those years we didn't diversify so much ... it was good brother, we still have so many things we haven't tried, but on him it seems so perverse to him. I want to try to squirt me, even wax play, swapping roles like pretending to be a stranger, his mother deeba I have a whole wardrobe of sex toys, which he rarely uses with me, even anal sex we did only once! Come on, they're not perversions, but I like these things and I want to try it, I'm not going to drink semen cocktails, I'm not going to humiliate him by doing 3ka with another man and he's sitting around looking like a puck, or fucking another man !!! Fuck you! In the end, I got bored 100 times, I asked him if he wanted to have sex with someone else, and that I got bored, he had all my permission - no, he didn't want to. I wondered if I was tired of him and the man just wanted to melt the pepper - I didn't want to, I wasn't tired of him ... he was just aroused by these thoughts. I appreciate that he shares and I know that he will not cheat on me, but more is starting to come to me. With a slight irony, my sexual fantasies now represent some banal muscular handsome man with an idiotic name like Fabio who "possesses" me in a normal way. Am I just doing something wrong in this situation Is he a pervert or am I playing for nonsense ??? Or is it just that sex (which I say was amazing, until those 2 weeks ago, where my head swelled) is already tired of him and I have to look for a Fabio? :)
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You are the most perverted couple that can exist! Honestly, there is no way to help you! :)))) Your husband's board is pounding hard, and you're too perverted for a woman ... I'm almost sure you're some kind of hippie with Metallica and Iron Maiden and the like hard rock and metal gang ...
But where did you get this man ... with my two years now we only diversify the poses ... and from time to time French love. He never spoke dirty to me ... rather a little eroticism .... more romance ... I don't know if something is wrong with him or there are others ... Meaning I'm happy with that ... he if he could carry me constantly so that my feet would not touch the dirty floor. He is very romantic ... and he is not perverted at all. And for a threesome not to be a word .... he could not look at me with another and even a girl .... he wants me to be only his ... He bit me and grabbed my hair, but gently ... He threw I'm on the bed, but he's never been aggressive .... Yours is obviously quite perverted or there are others like him ... Let others share? .. by Ro
1. She doesn't ask you what she is, she shares. And what does music matter ?!
Honey, if He wants You to blow on someone so much while you're talking on the phone, I can sacrifice myself :)
Everyone is aroused by different things, and you just didn't like fantasies, so leave him because if you indulge in his fantasies without wanting him, you will break up again, but you will also feel sick.
Surely many people would condemn me as a pervert. But I try to put things into reality - I like my sexuality, I enjoy it with a permanent partner and I don't think you should be ashamed of your sexual fantasies or fetishes. The paradox is that while I will very likely be denounced as perverted, perverted, etc. I just want to be with one person for the rest of my life and make him happy, to be his support and he is mine, ie to be perverted, but only for one person. Even if I have to have honest sex in the toilet of a restaurant where thousands of people have been screaming (forgive me) before, it sounds much more repulsive and disgusting to me than the things listed above. No, I don't do orgies, sexual perversions with whatever I like - I'm just not one of those women who will start sulking and changing when they see that their husband has porn on the computer and they get angry if their husband offers them something more fun in bed. Not all men may be perverts, but I am convinced that most of the listed things are not something shameful for them to hide and they would try it 9 if they were not afraid that their partner would slap them with something they offer her :)) I really want an opinion, am I changing things - that my boyfriend is honest and I predispose him not to squeeze and not to miss something in sex, or just really every man secretly arouses these things in himself? P. C To listen to Metallica: D That's why "hippie", "Metallica" and "hard rock" sound hellishly funny together, but I can guess what kind of music you like. Not all men may be perverts, but I am convinced that most of the listed things are not something shameful for them to hide and they would try it 9 if they were not afraid that their partner would slap them with something they offer her :)) I really want an opinion, am I changing things - that my boyfriend is honest and I predispose him not to squeeze and not to miss something in sex, or just really every man secretly arouses these things in himself? P. C To listen to Metallica: D That's why "hippie", "Metallica" and "hard rock" sound hellishly funny together, but I can guess what kind of music you like. Not all men may be perverts, but I am convinced that most of the listed things are not something shameful for them to hide and they would try it 9 if they were not afraid that their partner would slap them with something they offer her :)) I really want an opinion, am I reversing things - that my boyfriend is honest and I predispose him not to squeeze and not to miss something in sex, or just really every man secretly arouses these things in himself? P. C To listen to Metallica: D That's why "hippie", "Metallica" and "hard rock" sound hellishly funny together, but I can guess what kind of music you like. that their partner would slap them with something they offer her :)) I really want an opinion, do I change things - that after all my boyfriend is honest and I predispose him not to hold on and not to miss something in sex or just really everyone man secretly in himself aroused by these things? P. C To listen to Metallica: D That's why "hippie", "Metallica" and "hard rock" sound hellishly funny together, but I can guess what kind of music you like. that their partner would slap them with something they offer her :)) I really want an opinion, do I change things - that after all my boyfriend is honest and I predispose him not to hold on and not to miss something in sex or just really everyone man secretly in himself aroused by these things? P. C To listen to Metallica: D That's why "hippie", "Metallica" and "hard rock" sound hellishly funny together, but I can guess what kind of music you like.
I don't think he's perverted, he just obviously watched a movie like this for adults and now he wants to experience himself as a porn actor. Apparently you are sexually diverse enough, so focus on the so-called love plan. Make him a surprise - for example, a candlelight dinner or a meeting in a fancy restaurant to forget his imagination. Or if things don't turn out that way, tell him right in your eyes that you don't like it and you won't enjoy drinking "those" cocktails, and if he really loves you, he won't leave you for such nonsense! :) 32
The outcome of this story is that the connection did not fail. As much as I loved this man, I just couldn't stand it - he put me to sleep mentally ... I was a really unbridled woman who adored and enjoyed sex, he managed to banish all my libido with his stupid fantasies and his constant muffling, questioning and conviction that lives in a porn movie. We parted with good relations and (quite) relief on my part. Paradoxically, I really found my "Fabio" with whom we have not only fantastic sex, but he is also my closest person and friend, I hope things stay that way in the future, because I can not be happy and for the first time I feel happy and my sense of completeness has returned. It's just that the whole story was really coming,
This is perverted!