Stop humiliating yourself, he is a simpleton, I swear .. and the others see him, you just look for him and run on him .. don't bother anymore, really only you are mocked and humiliated !! Stop !!
As long as you humiliate yourself that way! I'm sorry to have such a tone for you, but I was just angry at you first, for allowing him and giving him every opportunity to make fun of you in this way, and second, that instead of trying to accept that he is not it falls on you, you keep wrapping your finger that he should be with you.
No, you don't have to. People sometimes disagree. If you haven't learned it yet, you will still face it. There is shared love, there is beautiful love, but it is not present here at all.
At first, stop writing to him, stop talking to him, just turn off all communication with this boy. Then try to assume that he doesn't like you. Yes, it will be naughty for you, because you fall for it, but in time you will meet another and you will see how stupid it is to humiliate yourself in this way.
Another issue is that he acts very, very badly towards you. When he doesn't like you, he can just tell it to you in plain text and stop paying attention to you, but no, he has to make fun of your feelings ... Well, he has a lot of immature behavior and you can be sure that, what he does to you, one day some other girl he will fall for will do it to him and he will understand what happened to you. Everything returns to this world.
If by chance, he assumes that he starts to like you or pay attention to you, to write to you, to tease you - do not pay any attention to him in any case. It is almost certain that it will be another mockery of you and then you will suffer again.
Forget about him, it's for your own good.
I don't want to offend you, but HOW CAN YOU WANT SOMEONE WHO MOCKES YOU ???
I just don't understand it. And my first love was unrequited, but I wasn't as deluded as you. Do you think that after so much ridicule he will suddenly fall in love with you?
I really don't want to offend you, but I don't understand you at all.
You better stop dealing with this "boy" (if he was aware he would tell you he didn't like you that much).
I am a 16 year old boy, I felt the same pain .. I had clung to a classmate, we were only healthy for about 4 months and what are you doing, then I offered her to be something more than friends and she agreed .. In time I started to I realize that she is with me only because I am (so to speak) one of the biggest "sticks" in school. not long after with a lot of pain and I said that I no longer wanted to be with her because apparently she did not feel anything special towards me. from it moment for two 3 months I distanced myself from my friends, stuck to the computer, generally failed. I still liked her and thought that this pain would not go away until the new school year came.
I saw another girl who was more "relaxed" (meaning that she does not look at life like the other who did not intend to have sex 23 years ago, not that I have just seen that for and tightened the reins).
Now I have been with my new girlfriend for almost 7 months and I do not intend to part with her because I see that both I have a good time with her and she is happy with me.
So the half I expect you to take from my story is that just because you fell in love with a boy doesn't mean you won't meet someone else you'll fall in love with.
I switch my comment with good luck wishes !! I hope you find a boy who appreciates you, or get together with this one (although I don't see the point, you'll only hurt yourself).
My first love was the same, I liked him, he didn't make fun of me, and I ran like a puppy on him. I'm sorry to tell you, but he'll never like you, I'm sorry, but you better know. At most, make him fall for you to kiss and then fuck you. So did those unfortunates with me .. Then after a while we talked to him, I mean after a year and he said to himself that he used me, but I no longer felt anything, even now we are friends. Believe me, I was terribly in love, and now, a year later, I don't care about him and I pass him as a road sign, even he greets me ... Fuck him and find someone who deserves it. It's hard, but I know you're strong and you will succeed. I'm with you, even though we don't know each other. I just know what it is and it's not cool at all. Heads up, life goes on! ♥
I understand you, but this boy is not interested in you and this is obviously not a real love affair, you will meet the right one, and as for him ... he is another idiot who made fun of a girl, I would show indifference in your place. Show that you don't care even if it's not like that .. don't write to him and after a while it will happen and he will feel that you have stopped your interest in him and there is a possibility that you will look for him, but don't be humiliated to you pay him minimal attention
From the author: This is my email .......... who wants to write :) Very, very, but thank you very much for the advice, because I was about to send him a message explaining my feelings. !! I know it would be a huge mistake on my part and I will not do it! I think just because he hears what I'm going to tell him he might like me! How stupid isn't it? You must be wondering what is this fool who has 100 people and they say one thing she does another !? No, I will not send it, because I am not a mockery to anyone, and the worst, as you say, is that I am mocking myself! But I want him to feel sorry for me one day and look for me so I can tell him "get well: D"
Don't be pathetic. Get grown up and find someone who truly loves and respects you. And with this, stop all contact because he's just kidding with you.
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