Is A Relationship Without Sex Possible? Asexual? My Friend Doesn't Want Me

   You are still very young both, I would give the man a chance. Sex is important, but it's not everything. You can cuddle, kiss, and still feel good. And you can change it. At least try. ;)

   Of course it can survive. Sex and everything else on a physical level are a wind job. You can have sex with anyone, but not everyone will love and will love you. Think about what is more important to you ...

   Asexuality is not treated or changed. You can't "fix" it - in either sense. Here you have to judge whether this connection suits you. The decision is yours alone. No one would blame you for whatever you decide. It's not a shame to need sex - it's a normal human need. There is nothing wrong with deciding to live in abstinence. You have to decide what you want and what you need.

   Maybe if you're both like that. How do you want to be able to? I am amazed by some comments just here. Sex three times a year, provided you have a relationship, is downright tragic. And selfish on his part. He has to make an effort or goodbye.

   Honestly, I'm not very familiar with asexuality, I know there is such a phenomenon, but I'm not familiar with it and it's somehow inexplicable to me. Being asexual is the first option, which is very likely, did he actually share that he was? It would be good to discuss this issue and clarify exactly how he feels about you. The second option, viewed through my point of view. I'm also a 21-year-old boy like your friend. My sexual urge appears absolutely every day and hence my desire to be satisfied - either masturbating or with a partner, which is the better option. I shared this because it seems strange to me that your friend, who is also 21 years old, gets the urge for sex and shows interest in you only 3 times a year. Judging by myself and the frequency with which I have to satisfy the urge, I'm sure your friend is either masturbating alone, either there is another, or he is hiding something - I will stop here, because my guess would sound rude and like a slap in the face. You definitely need to talk to him and find out why he is so rarely interested in you, there is certainly something you need to know. When he is completely honest with you, you will be able to really decide whether to continue this person's life.

   What relationship without sex? Sex is the connection, the other is the glaze.

   I have sex once a week, usually in the winter, when I'm hotter. Summer is not looking for me at all. I understand your friend. All my friends cheated on me because they were lower beings. How come I didn't meet one with a biological clock like mine .... It can be lived without sex. Even the connection is much stronger and the trust greater. But I don't think you're ready for that. Your hormones are still raging. Either take an example from him and do meaningful things in life or go knock your head on the treadmills.

   Give it to me. I would love such a boy terribly!

   Maybe if you are like that. In time you will start to miss it if you have been with others before and you love sex. And this is only 1 year and you are young. How will you have children if you decide to be with this person in the future? And are you ready to spend your life just holding hands, cuddling and cuddling like in kindergarten? If from now on I don't think about it in the future..or you will have to cheat on him, which is much worse, or live as roommates and you only drive it on the cheeks. Blame me, but it's true and it's the truth. I understand that at 50-60 you have this type of relationship but at 20-20 and something..a complete waste of time no matter how good it is, etc. this thing I guarantee that you will start to miss it after 2-3-4 years simply because normal people have this inherent in nature. Look, if you don't like sex too much, ok, be together there is no problem.

   not everyone fits in with each other and the fact that you did not succeed with 1 does not mean that it will be the same with everyone else. Then I slept with a few more and the conclusion is the same to this day. I am already seriously engaged with a girl with which we have a great relationship, sex is 6 chemistry, attraction abe fit perfectly. So the conclusion is that this is not your dude, nor is it his babe. I hope it is not my other assumption that the young man turns out to be an unconscious bi or gay: level of 21 years can not fight and I'm sure that if you separate and he will realize it. attracting abe fit perfectly. So the conclusion is that this is not your dude, nor is it his babe. I hope it is not my other assumption that the young man turns out to be an unconscious bi or gay: level of 21 years can not fight and I'm sure that if you separate and he will realize it. attracting abe fit perfectly. So the conclusion is that this is not your dude, nor is it his babe. I hope it is not my other assumption that the young man turns out to be an unconscious bi or gay: level of 21 years can not fight and I'm sure that if you separate and he will realize it.

   Sex less than 3 times a day at this age can be called a problem, and 3 times for the whole year - so the problem is hundreds of times bigger! Sex is the basis of a relationship, otherwise you are just friends. The option for children, family, for something more real is also dropped. There is hardly anything worse for a woman than not wanting her husband sexually. Your friend has big personal problems to be asexual / antisocial. He is simply not part of society, as if he does not live actively and truly. As much as he loves you, it's better with someone who loves you a little less, but with whom you can live like people. Lack of sex at a young age is like a lost profit.

   I guess it sucks like that. I myself satisfied such a babe. She said that the man did not look for her for sex at all. And in rare cases, it was difficult to lift and quickly fell. No sex happened. But she was over 37 at the time. At first she was upset that she was cheating, but she said she couldn't take it anymore.

   To n 5 A few months ago, I would jump at you with the words "what is this love without sex ?!" , I would literally snort and go looking for the burning passion and the stormy sex ... Hmm ... and I would be left only with the search ... Because I am in almost the same situation as the author - everything is like notes, home, children, professions, friends ... but without sex! I intensified my search for the full relationship, the shared thrill and the cool sex in one ... I literally wanted to fall in love, to leave at my funny age, to experience great love ... It's good that I didn't go crazy to the point of being I dumped the family .. A younger one appeared than me, only sex was in his head, but I realized that I wouldn't just have a naked fuck and I totally refused to do anything ... Not everything is sex in this life, yes ... obviously I will drive it without! Everyone can give you a naked cock and punch you hard until you turn your eyes for fun, but not everyone would create a family, home, children and stay with you for better or worse! I decided for myself ... Author, you will make your decision ... My liberated fucking candidate was sure of one thing - he wanted to fuck without committing ... Well, his way! I wanted something completely different and so ... Good luck to the author that the dilemma is complicated!

   If he is asexual, then he would not mind you satisfying your sexual needs with someone else. Right? Try it, if he jumps, as if stung by the proposal, then there is something else. If he agrees, all that remains is to find a "bull", in the west it is very fashionable. The man is having gay sex, and the woman is being stretched by a black hero.

   People who can't love without regular sex will never understand those who can.

   Well, once he's willing to do it for you and it's important to you, it's up to you to get him aroused and use it whenever you want. Obviously, you have the spiritual, emotional and romantic attraction. What he can offer you, he has offered you. You have to take the sex yourself. Once you get aroused and things happen, then act from time to time when you feel the need. He doesn't turn away from sex, he just doesn't remember to do it.