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2 eclair123 answered
I think it's a lot for both women and men. As for the cigarettes - my husband really stopped them, not wanting to stop them - it was on my initiative. It's about a man who smoked for 25 years in a box, a box and something a day. In Tokuda they do some procedures for quitting smoking - they prick certain points on the eardrum with electricity, a different number of stings. He had 2 procedures and of course he made an effort, especially the first 2-3 days, but he stopped, without nerves, without gaining weight. He told me that he was still annoyed and snorted when he saw someone, but he tried - when he lit a cigarette and he was sick. He has not smoked for 5 months now - he is calm and has not gained weight. The therapy cost BGN 500, and for this money he was entitled to 4 procedures within 6 months. He didn't need a third and a fourth (After the second procedure, his ears were red). And for beer - try to think of something about the moments when she is used to drinking beer. Unless you drink it like water - anytime, anywhere. My husband drank wine and concentrates every day. 200 - 250 g of concentrate and then wine or beer. It was enough for him to get up in the evening - when he came back tired from work and didn't need it anymore. It took me a year to overcome it. From the beginning I grumbled, but he was not left without brandy and wine. Honestly, I applied a few female numbers;) - as there is no money - he can't buy. I always found a place to put his money, it's not very difficult. So from the beginning he diluted, and then he stopped. Only on occasion - together. We also started eating healthier. I hope you come up with an option. If not - look for something else - there are many people. For people like us it is more complicated - two children, now two grandchildren. And yet there may be such problems, we just have to fight. Success!
3 zeroconflict916 answered
2-3 liters a day ??? Man, this is living alcoholism, there's nothing to reassure you - your girlfriend is an alcoholic. Think about how to cure it and give the maximum of yourself and if you fail to leave it within a year, because then it will not change for life. Good luck!!!
4 hornynaughtyebony answered
If there is no will, dump it. Your children will be mentally retarded because of her and alcohol. You don't need a drunk at home.
5 mcflurry18 answered
There is certainly something to worry about. It replaces cigarettes with alcohol. Apparently she replaced them with food earlier, but she has gained weight and is now drinking to replace her habit. But also say that in 1 ml of alcohol there are 7 calories !! Maybe it will reduce the amount a bit.
6 buckreams answered
I also drank so much every day and although I didn't feel like an alcoholic, I can tell you that there are definitely harmful health effects from so much beer. For example, gradually developing stomach acids, which they torment all day, every day (and are extremely unpleasant), not to mention a headache every night (well, at least for me - and keep in mind that I am a man 1. 8 m tall and weighing 90 kg, so I'm not a light category). Personal experience. For another thing - thank God it has not happened to me, but there is nothing to pull the devil's tail unnecessarily. Because there are other negative effects. I have read, for example, that beer bothers the liver too much and can be a terrible horror if it is overdosed so often and with so much. And the beer makes you fat. Tell your girlfriend
7 julietkalen answered
Batka, you rightly scold yourself, talk to her seriously, see what are the reasons for this drinking, if you can with something and help, but if you just drink ... from experience I tell you, run while it's time!
8 samuel_and_evhan answered
Здрасти, аз съм на 23 години също. Роднините ми също са алкохолици, но според мен това си е въпрос на личен избор, както и да е, ще ти разкажа моята история. Между 16 и 18 години пиех по доста повече от 2 литра бира, и то всеки ден, беше ми много весело изкарвах си чудесно това бяха много хубави години в общи линии. Като станах на 18 си изкарах шофьорска книжка и понеже обожавам да карам трябваше да избирам... и направих своя избор, карах постоянно. След това като станах на 20 имах малко по-тежък период и пак почнах да пия, имало е дни в които съм пила по 400-500мл. концентрат, но и това отмина, сега също пия, но доста рядко и по доста по-малки количества. Та мисълта ми е, за да помогнеш на твоята приятелка е добре да говорите много сериозно ( и задължително говорете преди да е почнала да пие, имам предвид наистина да не е пила нищо докато говорите). Мисля, че е добре, ако тя осъзнава, че има проблем с алкохола да ходи на психолог. Друг мой съвет е да си намери странично занимание, ако не работи да почне работа например, ако пък не да се занимава с някакъв спорт или нещо което наистина харесва. Може да правите нещо заедно, така тя ще се чувства сигурна и подкрепена, което е много важно, да усети, че има някой до нея и с нея в това не лесно начинание. Можеш да й дадеш за пример родителите й и да я питаш дали след 10 години и тя иска да е като тях. И така... Надявам се да съм била полезна, не мога да ти дам повече съвети, защо не я познавам, а и теб също и, ако пиша още не знам до колко ще съм полезна, а и не знам тя как би реагирала на някой неща, защо все пак всичко си е индивидуално. Лек ден и успех!
9 sashasteele answered
Quite normal.
10 empathgoddess answered
there are definitely many
11 horsedick8899 answered
it is a lot, it is not good to consume alcohol so often.
12 hitxa_mara answered
Hello, author. My advice is to look for your luck elsewhere. This drinking is not normal even for a man, in my opinion these things do not change. You managed to quit smoking and now you think that you will cope with alcoholism, but I very much doubt, even if you succeed, what is the guarantee that in time it will not reach the bottle again, and how you can build a family and you have children with such a woman I do not know. Make a decision while it's time, says a married woman of 25 with a child of 1, I got married at the age of your girlfriend. When I was 20 and I, like you, was very much in love with a man, his vice was gambling, he constantly bet on Eurofootball and casinos. Many times we talked it stopped for a while and then again. Until I finally realized that I had no future with this man and abandoned him, thanks to that I met the man of my life.
13 jordynwynd answered
It depends on what the beer is. He can't drink 2-3 beer, that's not high in my opinion. Years ago on the news they gave 1 beer = 1 peach. 2 liters is really enough, but if you gradually reduce them to 1 liter is not much, and the summer?
14 drblondebear answered
Author, from personal experience I tell you that she is either already addicted to alcohol or very soon. I was like that for years in a row and just with beer. I did not drink any other alcohol except a little wine. In 5 years I gained 30 kg, which I still can't lose. It is very possible that the amount is more than 2 liters, just to hide, at least I did. All my relatives talked to me, I promised not to drink anymore, but all until the evening of the same day. At this stage I abstain, I know the problem ... But it is very difficult!
15 collegemuscle91 answered
Thank you all for your time. Most people, when I look at it, support the statement that the work is serious, which increasingly puts things on the edge. It's been 2 weeks since I wrote my post, of which 1 week guests came to us, we went to visit and we were both on vacation. Avoiding alcohol was almost impossible, but I think he was a little startled after our last conversation. For me, things are already either he will take matters into his own hands and stop the daily alcohol, or he will look for someone else to tolerate it. Not that I'm a flower, of course, flaws are easy for me. The thing is that my vices do not affect my health and our relationship. Thanks again to everyone for the candid answers and advice. I wish everyone to be with the person who deserves them!
16 asianhoelingerie answered
I had a stupid period of a year and a half with more free time and I started drinking 1-2 two liters a day. It makes you lazy in life, and has little negative effect on sex (in men). I began to feel my liver thicken. And to feel it where it is is not the normal state of a person. This started to scare me a lot and I stopped. Author, success. Don't let her drink every day, no matter how little. If she doesn't, goodbye
17 wafik33 answered
2 liters of beer is not so much, do not listen to the liglevtsy who wrote above. He can give up if he replaces drinking with something else. Although I think if you ask yourself if you want to break up, then you have another problem not related to alcohol. When you hold on to someone, you don't think as if you're wondering if you should buy a new washing machine.
18 martinakay answered
It's a lot. That means she's drunk every day! That's how you become an alcoholic. Look, she gave up cigarettes, but knowing that no one gives up anything, we just replace one pleasure with another. Dropping her for that seems very immature to me. If you love her, you really have to fight together. It is not known tomorrow what vice you will be addicted to!
19 virgo_ria0831 answered
What happened to your girlfriend? Are you still together?
20 ladysweet_x answered
2000 ml / day beer x 5 alc. degrees = 10000 alc. units 10000 alc. units: 40 alc. degrees of brandy = 250 ml. / day brandy That is: 2 liters of beer per day = 250 ml. brandy a day This is a serious alcohol consumption a day! Your friend is an alcoholic.
21 crystalcherry1 answered
We broke up in July 2014. The relationship was doomed, and I'm glad I ended it. I don't think there is any improvement to this day.
22 peaches_and_pals answered
Let the girl drink beer and smoke. In principle, anything is harmful if overdone. But overdoing it is a strictly individual thing. Hardly 2 liters of beer a day are more harmful than 2 liters of water. And it gets thicker not from beer, but from the appetizer to it. If you are bothered by drinking beer and smoking - change your boyfriend.
23 jung_bulle answered
367so I have been drinking 2 liters of Ariana beer every night for 34 years and I am completely thinking but warm, ie not cold, this is what a grandmother said many years ago, that it is good for the kidneys and thank God I'm ok and I'm not getting drunk this is the measure of two liters
24 horrrnieeman323 answered
You're wrong ... I drink 1/2 liter a day sometimes and 3 ..: D Today I put 5 liters and everything is correct .. I looked at the topics to be aware of how much life I have left ... But looking at you: D I think you need help all ...
25 moniquelove69 answered
I don't want to incite to alcoholism or anything, but ... I also drink a lot of beer, just like water. And when there is an afternoon match of Levski and if we drink 4 liters of beer by midnight, maybe more. something terrible is happening. To knock on wood, I have no problems. Maybe with this I comment on other vices, subconsciously. God forbid a woman like the one you are writing about send me. AHAHA.
26 lrgmember answered
Well, now she will go to someone who is looking for one, many men are looking for such a woman not to grind on their heads every night that they drink 2 liters. Otherwise, you're a little tired without cigarettes now and without beer. Aren't these data from the World Health Organization averaged? If she is an Asian woman, 45 kg is one thing, if not, it is another. And how many accidents and traffic accidents happen every day, let's not drive cars, which is dangerous. According to the World Health Organization, staying at home is dangerous every time we go out, a car can hit us or lightning can strike us ....
27 daddiesgirl88 answered
"And aren't these data from the World Health Organization averaged? Some kind of soft ... don't push yourself to think so! It's not for you!
28 anime__dream answered
And you don't eat dinner every night, you can overeat, you can start overeating every night, you can develop the disease!
29 michelle3636 answered
36 - Logical thinking is not your strong point, is it? If you play a groundhog, you have a chance to die. Then you die, don't you? It's more likely that you're not going to die ... See? And I can sound like a little ass who is considered very smart!
30 richardharding answered
37 everything can be dangerous, it can be useful. It depends on how it is used. And the car can crash, with a kitchen knife a person can cut himself, the fire can cause a fire, etc., but this does not mean that these things are harmful. However, beer is sold freely in grocery stores and I think it is quite far from your Russian roulette.
31 grcsarl answered
Up to 38 Super! Did you take a little more effort to read all the comments and catch the thread of the conversation? Because it looks like you're just answering a random comment without realizing it's safe.
32 latexboy18 answered
39 yes I have read the topic several times as well as many articles on the internet. There is no clear definition of alcoholism, the limits are relative to both habits and amounts of alcohol. As long as the habits (drinking regime) do not create a problem in the specific case, and given the lack of tendency to increase the amount, the question is whether it is harmful to the body, rather than to consider whether it is addictive or not. Virtually every alcoholic has started with one drink, and in theory, any person who has drunk alcohol can become one.
33 canadiancreme answered
2 liters of beer a day for a lot for anyone.;)
34 bigorgasm4me answered
There is no person for whom 2 liters of beer a day is not much. ;)
35 baby_aitana answered
Of course there are many. For this reason, I drink them in the evening after 22:00;)
36 monika_redd answered
For one day - no. Every day - YES!
37 tobibi98 answered
I drink 2 liters of beer a day. If I'm at work - 2 to 3 liters of water. I weigh 60 kg and I am constantly on the move. Everyone has a vice, but he becomes one when he doesn't think about anything else. I don't think it's a problem. The weight is not from the beer - I rarely eat jam, I don't fry and I look at the label. Eat your quota - blame the beer. Greetings! PP: I have an acquaintance who has been drinking strong beer for 4-5 years - then I drank only water and milk. Other girls only envy her health - 48 kg.
38 havoknhazel answered
It's been a long time since I wrote this topic, and I haven't changed my worldview much. For all who commented and expressed an opinion: I just want to clarify that the specific case is not the reason (or at least not the only one) why I broke up with the girl. I see that I have not described anywhere factors that had their influence for the time: 1. It worked only night shifts (01:00 - 08:00), as two liters were sometimes replaced by 1.5 liters of wine in a plastic bottle, and drank in the morning "after work". 2. The reason for these shifts was her regular training at the Technical University, which ended the same year, after which she planned to start regular shifts and get into rhythm. To this day, the same shifts still work ... 3. She is a pathological liar, something I can't stand. Petty lies are not a big factor, but for her it was a primary reaction, when the truth was uncomfortable for her. Most importantly - he lied to me, and he wanted us to be partners and create a lasting relationship and family. 4. Her negative attitude, which prevailed in her mood - she lined up all her friends behind their backs; he liked to order people he didn't know well (even if he was joking); he often saw the bad in everything above all else ... and so on. etc. 5. She easily succumbs to vices - in special cases I allowed myself to offer drugs (related to the past and both of us) to be crazy in the evening, asking me several times to find her on weekdays with a pretext, that the night shifts have crushed her and she has work during the day. I pleased her two or three times, after which it became clear that she could not control herself (as with alcohol). Whether two liters every day are useful - they are not. But they are not completely harmful ... Separately, much depends on the human body, for some people the negative impact may not be felt at all. When we talk about the woman who is about to start a family (she is not 45-50 years old) and has no normal control - I think I made the right decision. Thanks to everyone who commented, and I hope that the debate on this case has helped at least one person.
1 aprilhawk19 answered
According to the World Health Organization, the useful amount of abs. alcohol is 140 ml for women and 210 ml for men per week. In addition, max. 4 days a week, ie there should be at least 3 days a week absolutely clean without a drop of alcohol even beer. In her case, this means about 3 liters per week, at least 3 days without a gram of beer. This is the useful and permissible amount, from then on it is already harmful and there is a risk of alcoholism, especially if it is hereditary. You will not be able to refuse it by force. Rather, you both need to delve into the psyche and find out what the real subconscious reason is to drink. What need is satisfied by alcohol, what problem does it cover up, what does alcohol give it, etc. If you get to the root of the cause, then it will be very easy to give up. There is also literature on the subject. You can also use professional services, but in Bulgaria I am not convinced that there are good specialists who can really help. Even if there are two or three.