I have had a girlfriend for 5 years and I get along very well with her. The problem, however, is that for about 3 years our sex life has become rarer and rarer. During this period I talked to her twice that I need more frequent sexual intercourse and after each conversation there was a period of improvement of our sexual relations, but alas for a short time. We have been living together for about a year. The idea was mine in order to spend more time together and eventually start making love more often, but the result is just the opposite.
The reason she points out that she doesn't want us to make love more often is that she doesn't need such frequent contacts (at this stage we do it once, twice a month). It just kills me and I don't know what to do. What worries me is that if I talk to her about it again, things may get better many times over, but then it will probably be as it is now. This has already happened twice. Regarding the quality of our sexual contacts - she has never complained about me, but on the contrary (almost every time she reaches an orgasm which I am 100% convinced is not simulated) Every night I go to bed with her hoping that there will be the mood for sex, but it still does not come and does not come.
I don't know what to do anymore ...
1 hotcurves4000 answered
There are such women, mine is the same type you just want and you do it, her wish will only come as long as it is good for you. Sex miles to the hole change positions and you will understand it, I am 59 years old.