Lately, I've been wondering if there are people who wouldn't kiss, wouldn't push, wouldn't do any intimate things with someone they're not in a relationship with Of course, I neither judge nor qualify in any way the two types of people - those who would do and those who would not. It is a matter of personality and choice. It's as if after what I see happening around me, these people are quite a few. In this line of thought, I would like to hear what you think about the topic, are intimate things for you as a consequence of feelings and a relationship with a person, or are they just the result of emotion, thrill or urge?
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Sometimes side caresses, even sex, happen when your partner is missing you for a long time, but this automatically brings your feelings back and helps you to appreciate not only your partner but also to create self-control over yourself .... So sometimes it is useful
I don't think you have to have feelings to sleep with someone, for me it's more of a necessity g23
a man of 25 I prefer to be in a relationship in an intimate relationship. that's how I feel it
Intimacy does not necessarily have anything to do with sex. It is a matter of personal feeling. Why did you decide that something that is intimate for you should be intimate for all people?
Gestures and caresses are physically the same, the emotion we put into them is different. Sometimes they are intimate with a lot of love and tenderness to the partner we are in love with. Other times they can be the fruit of instinct, lust and any primary emotion generated by the moment or person. It can happen to anyone to smoke in a given situation and if at that moment they are given the opportunity to unload through sex with a stranger. After all, man is a predator and the animal instinct is deeply ingrained in his subconscious. It is not necessary to have feelings to exchange intimacy or quality sex, this is our nature.
From the author: H4, I am a man and by intimate I meant sexual contacts / touches, etc. Of course, a conversation can also be intimate, this is already a matter of interpretation.
I was with a man I don't feel anything for and to tell you was stupid. Yes, I liked him, but that's it. And apparently the man liked me and then sent me a few text messages to see me again, but hardly. I just found that sex without feelings is a pretty dumb thing. Yes, ok it's fun, but it has nothing to do with doing it with a loved one. But I was just curious what it's like to be with someone for one night ... well, nothing special for me! But I would not repeat. Not because of morality, but simply because it didn't turn out as much fun as I thought. Otherwise, I'm quite relaxed and that's not a problem for me.
Relationship - no, but feelings - required. Just something has to draw me to the person in question, emotion, intimacy, otherwise I won't even want a kiss.
I don't need a relationship or feelings, it's best to just have an experienced and open partner and it becomes anointing, literally. I don't know who needed to complicate things, and it's getting easier, the important thing is that both people are ok. with what they do.
A month ago, I would have replied that I do not imagine intimacy with a man I have no feelings for. It turned out that I didn't know myself well enough. There seems to be such a thing as purely sexual attraction between two people. And then the sex is amazing.