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Insecure/complex From Its Height

By hugewankbud June 16, 2020 8 answers Last updated June 16, 2020

It all started in sixth grade. In 10 months I grew about 12 centimeters, which threw me ahead among the highest in the class, but it remained the only moment among the Highs. In 7th grade, I didn't grow up significantly, but it didn't cross my mind once. But from here began the problem, or more precisely, what tormented me from the inside, although not very justified. From the beginning to 8th grade until now (10), I have grown by 3 centimeters, making me 170. I've always played sports and been one of the most athletic. I started taking care of what I was eating, drinking, etc. and head started eating healthy *as far as possible without Gaz. drinks, crisps, etc. from the beginning of the 8th grade. I go to the gym, I study, everything is at the top level, which leads to no problems with the girls and with a lot of attention from them to me. But still, internally, the question of my height consumes me and I have frequent moments where I think only how many people are 180 and up, and do not even appreciate it. My most recent encounter with this was when the banter started, and so on. *intimate games, with a girl who is 3/4 cm taller. I'm trying to introduce myself to her, but it's just very hard for me. It's possible that her height growth is over and mine isn't? The tallest girl is in the class. In general, the height difference is not so frayed, but what happens when you put on heels? I can protect her and take care of her *having the experience of all sports until now, but still nowadays and women's desires, the 11th place on the pedestal is the Height. I will probably look insecure in myself in general after this question, but it is not. I have and mostly exude self-esteem, and I look a few years old. larger and manly *except height. Most accurately: Everyone has respect for me, but I don't. I'd be very grateful if you would somehow give me lunch and manage to get me to reject these gnaws. Greetings!

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athletecockz answered · June 16, 2020
First, you have a chance to grow up a little more, and secondly, it doesn't define you as a person. If a girl doesn't want to be with you just because you're 2 cm less, it's not your girl! Why do you want to be with her? Because she's hot as a person, or because she's tall, how much? I guess you're with her for the character. Well, if she likes you, she should like you the way you are. Height is not something we can choose, so we have nothing left but to accept what nature has given us. Other things you can fix, lose weight, gain weight, change hair color, even eyes can change with lenses, but height-no. So instead of torturing yourself for something that's not up to you, focus on what you can offer a girl like care, attention, a sense of humor, etc. than whether you're 170 or 172 cm.
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bigheadboy_ answered · June 16, 2020
It's full of tall but ugly men and/or stupid men. Even if you're shorter, if you're more masculine and cool, you'il be more attractive than them. Since there's really nothing you can do (other than getting taller shoes that will lift you 1-2 cm), you just have to accept yourself for who you are. And 170cm isn't abnormally low. I have a friend 165cm to 27 and is already with a wife and child, even just under 165. He's small, but he's very cool and open, and he always knows how to get into the conversation in some cool positive way.
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sandyclassey answered · June 16, 2020
Thanks for both quick and very meaningful answers. I'm starting to change my mindset a little bit, no matter how i don't think right now. I keep chasing my goals and not focusing so much on things I can't change. However, success in the future and what a person achieves have no "slight impact" on these "overly desirable" traits. Greetings! By The Author.
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coverm answered · June 16, 2020
Swimming!
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oxxxy__ answered · June 16, 2020
Train sports and make sure you get tight and muscular, so you'il boost your self-esteem and chances. I have a friend who is 167cm and is a 75kg muscular body and he's often taken down by chicks. With your size, you'il get quick results. Levers, squats, buckets, facials. and as you've been told and swimming, but given the listed is just an addition. Levers develop like swimming. There are low girls under your stature, and they're right for you.
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bicycle777 answered · June 17, 2020
Your sport has probably slowed down.
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all_shades_gray answered · June 17, 2020
Start practicing basketball or volleyball - they help the most for height.
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yumyass26 answered · June 17, 2020
To #8: I coached basketball from 3rd to 7th grade. At the end I really saw huge growth for negative weather, but still this was just when I was entering puberty and it was normal to pull suddenly. I have read a lot about these topics, and the only thing they say "experts" is that about 95% depends on the gene, and the sport - 2-3% in the earliest years. And that the pros have become basketball players because of their height, not that with time without a gene, etc. their height has come alone. At the moment I exercise by going to the gym, MMA, eating healthy and doing stretches every day. Greetings! By The Author.