Do not blindly believe a man, no matter how many nice words he speaks to you. I thought everything was going well. We have a good time together, we love each other. We have been together for 3 years. I believed and worshiped him ... until a moment when I accidentally read his mail. My life turned upside down in a split second. I don't remember how long I stood numb and looked at the letters, which must have been hundreds, sometimes several a day from the same woman. I don't wish it on anyone. I realized that he had been cheating on me since the beginning of our relationship. What was not written. He called a "sunshine" as he told me and wrote gentle words .... It took me hours to realize what was happening. I just wasn't on my own. I cried nicely for a few hours. Then I stuffed myself with a few valerians and saw him in the evening. He behaved as usual - he repeated how much he loved me, hugged me. He seemed sincere. That, of course. It was very difficult for me to keep my composure and I started playing the game. I decided not to tell him right away what I knew, but to study things. On the other, with the help of a friend, we went into the mail and I started reading. For several days in a row from morning to night I read, cried, took valerian and so ... I continued. I wanted to know enough to hate him, but alas, I only tortured myself ..... so in the end I couldn't stand it and one day I wrote him an e-mail that I knew everything and this was the end. I turned off my phone. I was with some colleagues. I don't know who he asked and how he found out where I was, but he called them - he wanted to see me. I refused - there was nothing more to talk about. He insisted. Finally I accepted. We went to a park and then it was as if everything that had accumulated in me came out. I told him everything I thought, I told him it was the end and I just lost a lot of time in my life with someone who didn't deserve to be with me. He cried. It was the first time I'd seen him so upset. He told me that even if there was a shoot, it was just sex, nothing more. He only loved me. He wanted us to be together. All these letters were just flirtations. It was nothing serious, he had no feelings for them. He roared like a child. He didn't want to lose me. And so I was adamant. I'm home. I was somehow relieved that all this burden I was carrying came out. He texted me to see me again, to talk. We saw each other a few days later. We talked for a long time. Said you tried to fix that he wants and loves only me. I loved him very much !!! I realized that a separation would cost me an awful lot. I'm with him now, but I don't trust him at all anymore. Whatever he says, I always doubt it. I watch his every glance. I'm going crazy. However, I began to feel that my feelings were fading, I didn't love him that much anymore, my love turned into indifference. Soon he accidentally winked strangely at a colleague. Something stabbed me in the heart. I pressed him. This time he didn't want to lie to me - he just told me that he cheated on me, but it was just sex !!! He loved me !!!! Well, that was it. Now I'm obsessed with giving it back to him. I want him to feel the same way I suffered for so long. I don't want to be with him. I'm just waiting for the Man to show up for me. I pressed him. This time he didn't want to lie to me - he just told me that he cheated on me, but it was just sex !!! He loved me !!!! Well, that was it. Now I'm obsessed with giving it back to him. I want him to feel the same way I suffered for so long. I don't want to be with him. I'm just waiting for the Man to show up for me. I pressed him. This time he didn't want to lie to me - he just told me that he had cheated on me, but it was just sex !!! He loved me !!!! Well, that was it. Now I'm obsessed with giving it back to him. I want him to feel the same way I suffered for so long. I don't want to be with him. I'm just waiting for the Man to show up for me.
1 itschriscrocker answered
I'm not sure if you'll feel better if you give it back to him. I'm not sure if the Future Man would like you when he finds out you've been with someone just to get revenge on someone else. And, God forbid, he turns out to be this Someone. If you are still determined to make your current one feel bad, leave him first and then embark on adventures, not the other way around. Men are selfish animals and it hurts a lot more if we miss a woman and then find out that she is dating others and feeling good. In the other case, she will always say to herself - she cheated on me just to rub my nose ...