I never imagined such a thing would happen to me. At the moment I have no one to share with and the only option is to hide under this anonymity .... But if I don't share it, I really won't last. Here is my story: I can't deny that most of my friends are jealous of the family I have. My parents are very cool ... but unfortunately they are very different, my mother got pregnant before she got married and that was the main reason she married my father. In my opinion, she did not have such an intention ... but circumstances forced her. Of course she was in love, but it wasn't a long relationship and she didn't know the person next to her well enough. Unfortunately, for the next 18 years, she began to get to know the person she had connected her life with ... and was left a little disappointed.
My mother is a very open, intelligent, ambitious, sociable person, a dreamer, a romantic, a lover of small sweets and temptations, a lover of art, spiritual and social life, contacts, experiences ... My father is closed and is very modest about his life. He brings a lot of kindness and warmth, but the notions of having a good time are not associated with bars and theaters ... but with his other personal entertainments. And my mother suffers from all this. He rarely understands her sensitivity because he is very pragmatist.
I see that he is just as sick when he doesn't know what to say to my mother when she cries (and mostly because of him, but in principle, it rarely happens). My father takes very good care of us, he suffers from the frequent lack of a deliciously prepared dinner, the absence of my mother when he is at a restaurant with friends, we have never been deprived of the sea or vacation, from material gains... I realize that they are very different, but I also realize that they both do their best to live in harmony... But the strangest thing is when in the evening after I go to bed they start drooling like children and talking to each other, like me and my boyfriend... This fact calms me down a bit because it shows that they still have feelings for each other ..... But today what I saw! I accidentally watched my mother's mobile phone and there is an SMS from her colleague. One read "and I" (probably the answer to the SMS "I love you") after a few text messages are a picture with a heart, then "I love you and I kiss you" then "I saw the bridge from the movie. the stars together and drink cocktails together ", then" I kiss you and I wish you "............ I'm going to die! !!! What to do????? This colleague of hers has a wife and a child just like her !!!! The only reassuring thing is that the last text message was from April... But I remember that an hour ago I wanted a text message and she deleted some things before giving it to me !! and just grinned stupidly! I really don't want to and I can't imagine anything I can't believe it !!!
She goes dancing with her colleagues, she may have caused something from there, but I really can't figure it out, tell me what to do, please !! it's really a hell of a thing for me and I never imagined ee possible Despite all the misunderstandings I can't imagine how my mother ... I can't even say it. I feel hellishly helpless. I shared with one person the only hope I have left that it's all over. I also checked my mother's e-mail (with whom I have a connection from home). at least flirting). The last email is from May 1...
1 yourfellowangel answered
You couldn't blame any of your parents. It doesn't always happen the way it brings us. Accept what is happening around you as a fact over which you have no power. You could only understand it when you have gained enough life experience. In order not to hurt yourself yet, stop digging into your mother's things. Everyone needs personal space. I don't believe that you are happy for someone to delve into your intimate things. Leave things as they are! Watch your life and learn from the mistakes of your parents. There is a very good saying - nothing happens by force!