I used to be one of those people who accused others of hurting and betraying their spouses. This is no longer the case. Here is my story. Even when I saw I., I was impressed by an attractive man and I hoped he would talk to me. It wasn't long before a simple flirtation grew into love. We got along well. The only problem was that he lived in another city. Nevertheless, our meetings were wonderful. We made plans to go there permanently so we could see each other more often. But jealousy began to erode the happiness in my heart. I wondered if he was with someone else, if he wouldn't replace me. I was very jealous of him because the girls like him and seek contact with him, and he is kind and treats everyone very nicely.
At university I met a boy. He was interested in me. We left the whole company for one hut. We haven't even kissed the colleague in question, nor did we have sex, but there was some flirtation ... One night we went out and I stayed to keep my colleague company until he finished his beer. Then he sent me home and again nothing happened. But I. found out about all this and decided that there was something more (mostly at the hut). He felt betrayed and humiliated. Scenes went through his mind about what my colleague and I were doing, and that infuriated him. When he left me, I cried. But he does not believe in tears and promises. He had feelings for me all the time and was sincere. And I acted like a kid. I had the opportunity to rethink everything. I cut off contact with my colleague, set a limit in front of everyone else who wants to be more than a friend to me.
Every day I think about my I. I wonder where he is, what he is doing. I miss him and it hurts. It also hurts because I'm the reason he feels that way. He has a birthday next month. I definitely plan to congratulate him and I hope that then the strong emotions will subside, that we will be able to talk and share everything unsaid. I'm hoping for another chance, which I may not deserve, but which I will not waste. Thanks if you read my story and took the time to leave a comment. I accept all opinions, advice, and reproaches. if you have read my story and if you have taken the trouble to leave a comment. I accept all opinions, advice, and reproaches. if you have read my story and if you have taken the trouble to leave a comment. I accept all opinions, advice, and reproaches.
1 chicoplayboy_ answered
Well, what can I tell you ... It's your fault, and no one else's. What you have done is not exactly infidelity, but your ex-boyfriend no longer thinks so and has every right to doubt what you are saying. I would do the same. You can't have a prodigal who you really like, love and are in love with, and flirt with someone else. Better try to reconcile with him, talk, be honest, spare him nothing and pray he comes back. There is one problem - his faith in you has already irreversibly diminished. Are and success :)