I'm sure there is a similar (if not the same) topic here, but I really want to share with you my short story and see your opinions.
In short: I'm 17, I've slept with 3 men so far (yes, unfortunately, they were still over 25) and I haven't had a serious relationship.
I am currently dating a boy who is a person I care about so much for the first time in my life. Everything comes from the fact that he is my age, he treats me great (gentleman in the full sense of the word) so far so good, but he is a virgin. We've talked about this once before, his words were that he wants to be with a person for the first time, who means a lot to him, he knows about my previous relationships. He doesn't have much experience with girls in general, my problem is that I really want to be with him in the full sense of the word. This includes intimate, he knows it, but I don't know how to "speed up" the action this with us, moreover, that my head is spinning thoughts of the kind that if I am his first he will become even more attached to me, I just know that he will never do something first
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funcast420 answered · July 06, 2020
Everyone is super confused! And you are no exception!
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kimberlyprice_aab answered · July 06, 2020
Ugh hello ... here is my first comment and probably the last so don't answer me if you have something to ask me exactly.
So, your topic intrigued me and I decided to write an answer. And I'm 17 and I'm a boy. Congratulations on sleeping with 3 ma, but I think you should give him some time. When he asks for it, then it will happen. No need to rush him. Since I see that the topic is a long time ago it may have already happened I do not know. But since I'm a boy and we think more or less the same, I'm telling you that there's a time when he's just going to be terribly hungry and get the job done. Success! ;)
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jennifercb answered · July 06, 2020
Hi, I'm 17 and I think you should talk to him about it again, but if you decided to act meekly, you don't know how he would react to that !!!!!!! GOOD LUCK