Hello, how can I start, I have everything that a 22-year-old boy could want, realization, friends, a villa, a sports car, I have everything material, but I have known a girl for at least 7-8 years. 5 years ago a friend of mine was very much in love with her, me too, but I gave in and in the end she asked to be with me, but I refused ... then we went out, etc. and our paths parted a few months ago we ran into each other quite by accident. She was a grown girl, but with a 3-year relationship behind her back with a very decent boy. They invited me to their villa on New Year's Eve and I went, but in the end I fell in love with her again, or maybe I haven't forgotten her ... We started dating again but things got complicated, I couldn't ask for anything from her because I was going to ruin her life, she can't control herself because after all, her feelings are alive, too. And in the end I had to give up, otherwise I had to separate her from her boyfriend. The point is that she asked me to see her and go out, etc. and I as the last drummer and promised not to leave her. I wonder what I am for her and for her, is there something missing in the relationship My question to you is how to proceed with her, I can't go through her, but it's hard for me to leave, I wonder if I can hope that one day she will leave him and come back to me. People here are right that money can't buy you happiness. But I don't know what to do, I can't find another one, I constantly compare, I constantly feel flawed and that I will miss my chance and so on. Give me advice if I can, whether to fight for her or leave her forever,
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Hello. I am 26 - more than a year ago I hesitated between 2 boys / men aged 32 and 30 /. The younger one had a girlfriend, and the older one had just broken up with her. Well I chose the older one. We were all colleagues. I left, my friend turned to the younger friend. After a while, the younger one also left. And guess what. My boyfriend and her friend got together. Because of her, she dumped me 6 weeks before the wedding (like the previous 3), and now they are both preparing for a wedding. And I - it turned out that the younger one wanted me. The conclusion is that if your destiny sends it again (as the younger one sends it to me), do not hesitate, but act. I'm not talking about names, because I know they will be deleted, but her little princess, who tries with whom she doesn't write here. Things are not going well between them either. FIGHT - YOU ARE WRITTEN TO BE TOGETHER, DON'T LET HER LEAVE AGAIN.