I would define myself as a completely normal 19-year-old girl liked by men. I had sex for the first time at the age of 17. My current boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. I would define my previous two sexual relationships as completely normal within the ordinary and conventional. My question to you is about my current relationship. It's about the following, my current boyfriend is a completely normal, polite and attentive correct person with me, but in sex he sometimes shows a rougher and wild temper. roughly with his hands on his ass or allows himself to hold my hair by pulling my head back while we make love, constantly talking dirty words to me. I was shocked at first because it hadn't happened to me in the previous two relationships, we even talked after sex about his behavior during sex, he tells me he does it instinctively out of passion. At first I felt humiliated sometimes during sex, sometimes even a little sore, but worse or more worrying for me is that lately I have the feeling that I started to like this attitude of his during sex. I wonder if this is normal or if I have a problem.
1 john_p_420 answered
It's normal. You're not the only one. But if you want, talk to him again. Compare whether you will not be more comfortable if he is unhappy with you. Accordingly, ask for this.