Hello ... I want to ask you for your opinion, because honestly I don't know what to think. This is what happened - I have a girlfriend who has been dating a boy for 1-2 months. However, according to my observations, he will not go down with a girl and try to make something happen. He falls for the nepukist. If a girl likes him, show it to him. And so it happened. In the beginning, this friend of mine tried in every way to reach him, she went where he went. He called her from time to time and she crossed half of Sofia because she knew there was no way he would come to her or call her again if she didn't. And all the same - he finally achieved his goal.
They are now officially together. I'm happy for her. And not that it comes into my work very much, but it's still my friend and I don't want to be used. When we go out somewhere in pairs or a lot of people, whenever she always pays 90 percent of the time. This is from the very beginning when they were not walking yet. And it's not about a coffee or a car, but about things for 10-15-20 euros. And let's have 1-2 times if he didn't have money to buy it. For example, he told her once - give me 20 euros that I need to buy something. And I shout once. But since then I notice it every time. The other day we were in a cafe and she goes to the bar (without him) and says 1 beer, 1 coffee and water for example.
As we enter and go, he buys and brings them to him. She paid him a tattoo in the range of 80-90 euros. I don't know. I have a feeling he's using her, but I don't want to tell her and argue. And I'm not sure. If they've been dating for a few months or a year like me and my boyfriend, fine. In the beginning, however, this was not the case. Every time we went somewhere, as soon as I started withdrawing my money, he took it back. Every time I offered it to him and every time he paid. And now he pays most, but it doesn't really matter anymore. He even told me recently - well, I don't know if we will be able to go to ......
And when I asked him why - well, because they will give me my salary later. I said I would pay no problem, but he was still not comfortable. Abe, I don't know at all. What do you think?
1 bongo8732 answered
Definitely use it, I had a friend to whom I constantly paid the bills and because he knew that I had money, he constantly asked me for a loan of euros 10-20, he promised to return them, while 1 of his friends told me that he had used me and he had no intention of returning my money, and then I quarreled with him, and he admitted that he had used me. And now I have a new friend with whom I love a lot and he never allows me to pay the bill. It happened that there was no money sometimes and I offered to pay, but he did not want to pay, I do not know how he is somehow uncomfortable. So tell your girlfriend to beware of him and use her. I know it will make her sick, but it's better to get rid of her in time, because then it will be hard for her.