You don't have to worry about such things at all. The games are made to be fun. You have invited your relatives, all people who know you and will not make fun of you for anything. After all, you are not children. If you really do not want to have surprises in the program, then talk to the host. Do it the same way you said it here. You are the bride, you pay and you have the right to vote. Explain directly to her that you are very anxious and do not want surprises because you are afraid that you will say or do something stupid because of all the emotion. I have attended weddings where there is an unexpected game with the godparents or the newlyweds, they are worried, blush and it is a lot of fun because the host is prepared for it. Nobody makes fun of them, rather the whole atmosphere becomes more broken. You don't have to be rude, you can make it difficult for her to work,
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Once you have hired her, she has no right to worry about your desires. You tell her straight without hesitation so that there are no misunderstandings. Don't worry about her, as a professional she has a large enough set of games and will make a program according to the client, she will make you dance without talking, for example.