Hi, I'm a 19 year old boy. 4 years ago my mother remarried a man who has a son, now he is 15 years old. In the beginning everything went well, my step-brother and I got along, we were all one happy family. However, it so happened that our parents both went to work abroad, my mother in Germany and my father in Spain. You know how it is in Bulgaria. So, my brother and I were left with my grandmother. About a month or two ago, maybe, my brother, we don't understand each other at all, I can't exchange a word with him. He leaves very early in the morning, about 5, and returns at ten-thirty, eleven. It was Saturday and I got up a little early because a friend had asked me to help him with a job and I had to leave early. I saw my brother get into a black BMW that had stopped in front of us, that same evening the same BMW picked him up at eleven.
This was repeated several times, at first I thought he was dating some of his older friends, who eventually had a car and a license. But my opinion changed when I once saw a 30-year-old man open the car door for him. I finally decided to ask him who this man was and why he was seen with him so often, but only screams like "I don't interfere in life", "You're my nobody" followed, and then he concluded your room. Strange, but before we always understood each other, I don't know why he suddenly started to stay away from me. I shared the situation with my mother and father on Skype, but I only bothered them without result, because neither of them will be able to come soon. I began to watch when my brother came out and when he came home, and quite often I began to see that man as well. I tried to talk to him again but to no avail.
Besides, it's very hard for me to come across him because I study and work. Sometimes I don't go home because the university is not two steps away and I had to stay with a friend for one or two nights. I don't know what to do with my brother, and it's out of the question for my grandmother to say, she's just going to be worried anyway, she has nothing else to do. Let me not forget to mention that last week the principal of the school where my brother studied called me and told me that my brother had been running away from school for two weeks. Please give me some advice, I'm worried about it. Even if it turns out he didn't do anything wrong, I personally can't think of a good reason to run away from school.
1 princesslayherdown answered
Look, the responsibility for you is too much. I advise you to get the boy's father home right away. You are only 19 years old and you cannot look after a child. If the child has a mother - call and see her. Safe from irresponsible parents! Make an account of your children. You can't save this child ... and yet ... you could talk to him about school. Who he gets together with - you can't control. You could also seek contact with the man you are dating. Maybe he's a boyfriend - not bad. I hope so, if he has feelings for the boy, it will help you get him on the right track - to go to school at least. If it is a criminal subject, the healthy one has messed it up and is looking for the boy's father.