I'm Tired Of Being Alone

   I'm a boy of 15 and I'm the same as you, but I'm not worried, I only have one friend and I don't need more. But sometimes you have to find the right person. If you want, you can write to me.

   You started getting into that kind of despair very early. Be careful. It's normal to feel that way, but at your age, I must have played FIFA and I didn't pay attention to my problems and whether I have any. Be careful who you hang out with and who you keep in touch with. Don't get to know people with whom your relationship is alcohol or cigarettes or other bad things. Be careful. Find yourself, invent a hobby, distract yourself a little from these thoughts and despair, etc. You can't think about it all the time. :)

   90% of girls your age feel lonely and are ready to throw themselves on the neck of the first one who listens to them and behaves well with them. And this is a mistake. You want to share I don't know what's bothering you, but it's not the look. Just relax and start talking to the person next to you, to your so-called friends. I believe they will listen to you. They don't care about you, that's right, everyone is mainly interested in themselves, especially at your age. I will post another comment to explain why it is a mistake to start a relationship with a little-known person when you feel lonely.

   We both felt lonely. We hung out on the Internet looking for communication. I was 26, I didn't have time or money to go out and I had no one to go with. I was driving last year as a student in another city I had a confused idea of ​​life. She was 14 years old, she had a boyfriend, but she also hung out there. He was from another city. I started with the usual words who you are, how old you are, what you study. A week later, I started sending her romantic videos. She fell in love and offered to get closer and she hadn't seen me. He dumped his real friend. I liked to write to each other and I accepted it only for a while. And as I get tired of it, I stopped going online. I hadn't known, though. Two months later, she saw that I was online. And he started writing to me hard. Come on, we renewed. He introduced me to his mother. She was not satisfied, of course. Then we broke up. And we met again after a while. We broke up again and I thought that we are done, but after a year we got together, she did not stop sticking in my hands. We are getting married now. After a year, he is still studying. But what happened to her? My view was that a girl should love you unconditionally, whatever you float, she should continue to love you. She had to be good, to listen to you. Be energetic. The younger the girl the better. The younger ones find it easier to adjust to you. Their emotions are stronger. As you think, so it happened. She adjusted so much to me that now I can't judge which thinking is hers and which is mine. And I noticed that she was so in love. That I became like a drug to her. She needs this drug, me. And the higher the doses the happier she is. I'm like air to her. If he walks away, he fights fiercely for me. To be with me she is ready for anything. Even if he gives up his parents. Whatever I say, she listens to me. I understand that, and I try to be very careful with her. But the difference in age is that I almost raised her. It makes me see her more as a child. It used to weigh on me both as a child and as a woman. But over time, I got used to it. Sometimes I talk to her like a father. However, she also responds like a child. I used to wonder what kind of family we would have. Especially if a daughter is born. Now I just stopped wondering. Author, you feel lonely, you are looking for someone to listen to you, to understand you, to support you. This is more likely to be someone older. And there's a good chance you'll find yourself in my girl's position. It used to weigh on me both as a child and as a woman. But over time, I got used to it. Sometimes I talk to her like a father. However, she also responds like a child. I used to wonder what kind of family we would have. Especially if a daughter is born. Now I just stopped wondering. Author, you feel lonely, you are looking for someone to listen to you, to understand you, to support you. This is more likely to be someone older. And there's a good chance you'll find yourself in my girl's position. It used to weigh on me both as a child and as a woman. But over time, I got used to it. Sometimes I talk to her like a father. However, she also responds like a child. I used to wonder what kind of family we would have. Especially if a daughter is born. Now I just stopped wondering. Author, you feel lonely, you are looking for someone to listen to you, to understand you, to support you. This is more likely to be someone older. And there's a good chance you'll find yourself in my girl's position.

   Find your best boy friend. Boyfriend we don't need to believe I'm 20 and after a relationship at 16 I never want to be serious with a girl again.

   Don't try to please everyone. And don't be friendly with everyone. This repulses them. Set boundaries in your relationships with people. Have more confidence.

   * You do not realize what the role of the "boyfriend" is, because you are still small and unoriented. If you think that the "boyfriend" is to entertain you like a clown or to spend your free time, you are wrong. * Your task at the moment is to learn your lessons and be more sociable in order to have friends for the summer vacation. -Maryan

   Hello. I'm 16. Don't try to please everyone and please them. Try to improve and build on yourself. Everything else is just getting better. Make up, straighten your hair or just look beautiful. Give everything for the people who deserve it and don't let anyone do whatever they want with you. You will find a boyfriend, don't worry, but it will happen when you least expect it.

   Hello! It's exactly the same for me, with the only difference that I'm 18 and that I'm a boy .. I don't know why I've always wondered .. I look at them and I wonder why the hell don't stay with one girl .. There should always be 2 or more or they catch one and then after a month with a new one, this is an even bigger blunder for me, maybe because of my "stupid" thinking and I'm like you ...

   By 11 your thinking is correct. There is a serious full-fledged relationship only when 2 are committed to each other. But most people, the young more. They are not oriented. They usually start a relationship because they are single. They allow themselves an intimate relationship even before they are sure that it is the person. They confuse passion with true love. Sex for them is more important than a serious relationship. Yes, but sex is the ultimate experience for just a moment, and it even gets boring. While true love is the ultimate experience for a long time. Some people, especially the younger ones. They feel lonely and go with someone who treats them well. They fall in love with him. But that passion passes. And they understand that they seem to have made a mistake, and they have already met someone else to fall in love with. That's why they either start moving with it or change them often. It is not true that the latter is more stupid. Because when you are with more than one, you lie to them at the same time, otherwise you lie to only one. And some will say what I care about But they forget that they may be on the other side. To sigh at someone who lies to them and then get disappointed. And they are angry. Both are wrong. Love is built, it is quite different from liking attraction. To achieve this you only need to interact with one person constantly. When there are shortcomings, they should be discussed and smoothed out, mutual compromises should be made. There is no way to meet the ideal, because there is no such thing. But the characters can be reconciled by talking about them. To achieve this, one must be aware of oneself. Most people are not. To know what he will not accept in any case. And when the other person does something that cannot be accepted, explain to him that he is mistaken. And not just to be discarded. When there is a trial. The partner's mistake must be objective and not presumptive. One must have principles to follow and keep the partner to follow them. But most people don't. It is difficult to find the right person. For this you will stand alone for a long time. And it's not that you're not human, it's just that the others aren't oriented. The right person, as I said, is created through conversation. Think about what principles you have. Which things do you care about. Look at which girl matches one of them. And start communicating with him. Think about what principles you have. Which things do you care about. Look at which girl matches one of them. And start communicating with him. Think about what principles you have. Which things do you care about. Look at which girl matches one of them. And start communicating with him.

   Thanks for the tips and comments. And by number 8, I'm watching my lessons, and I can't figure out where I wrote (or meant) that I want a boyfriend to entertain me or be my clown? From the author

   Author, I don't know, but you certainly don't need a boyfriend-parent like number 5 to control you and make you adjust to him as if you don't have your own thinking. Work on yourself, try to build yourself as a person, not as a shadow. Find your path and follow it as if this is the meaning of your whole existence. When a person creates steps and does not look at society, when he wears the clothes he likes, learns the subjects that are interesting to him and indulges in his hobbies, he usually meets other people who have similar views. The more you try to fit in with others, the less they get to know you and even if they like you, they don't like you, but what you show. You haven't found a suitable environment, you haven't come across people with whom you have common interests and fit in as characters, you haven't fallen in love with a person, who wants the same from love as you. Most of us have been looking for these people for years, a large part of us find them, as long as they have watched and given a chance to everyone. Try to be liberal, accept everyone as they are, but neither want them to change, nor do you change yourself because of them. At one point, I decided that I would be alone until I just found myself in the right environment. I didn't ask anyone to come with me to the store, I said I was going and asked if anyone wanted to come or get something from him. That is, I did not expect anyone to accompany me, someone to agree with me or anything. I lived, I was kind to people, I didn't indulge in everything, but I offered help and a shoulder. Well, I met people who used me and didn't like me, but I also met a lot of people who actually became very close to me. Don't be desperate, it is felt and repulsive, be yourself.

   When I read your story, I said to myself - oh my God, am I in the mirror? : D: D: D I mean, I'm the same, even my 2 real girlfriends are in other cities. And I don't want to be alone, now I even like a boy and I'm afraid it won't work out because he doesn't pay much attention to me, but anyway ... good luck one day and your luck will smile on you! :)