Hi, I'm a 9th grader (I'm 14 and a half because I started school a year earlier). My problem is that whatever boy I liked, he never responded to my feelings. In most cases, it didn't pay attention to me, but none at all! Here - there was one I liked for 4 years, at first we were friends, but then he became a big bastard, started insulting me, finally separated from our company. I was very tormented by the fact that he did not go out with us, because of him I moved to the school where I study now (applying after 7th grade). In the new school he paid no attention to me, and I was dying! I started crying every day, I just suffered a lot ... anyway, I met another boy and somehow forgot him. This other one was as shy as I was. I was barely introduced to him, finally I started writing to him on FB, I always wrote to him first. But I didn't see any interest in him, I gave up. I had liked each other, too, but there was no need to write about him - I didn't dare push myself on such a boy at all, but come on, I didn't like these two as much as the first one, for example. But here's the worst: This year another boy came to my class and I liked him almost immediately, which automatically provided me with suffering for at least the entire 9th grade. I just don't believe that someone like him can catch up with someone like me - I'm neither very beautiful nor the smartest, and I'm very shy and closed. Don't think he's one of those bloated, battered-looking, muscular bodies, blah-blah. He's not like that at all, he's the most normal. In the interest of truth, none of those I liked were like that, they were all the most normal boys, not some who thought they had some tiles and could have any girl. This one doesn't pay me any attention, no matter that we're in the same class. In principle, my class doesn't like me at all, only 1 girl hangs out with me more often, there are 2 other girls who sometimes come to ask me something, but that's it. And the one I like hangs out with the ones who most they hate me. I am very angry, it is possible that he was told nonsense about me. In fact, no one in my class (almost no one) has known me, that's why they hate me so much. At the beginning of the year, they caused me problems, lied to the class and I had to show myself in the worst light in front of him. I'm really angry. On top of everything, I realized that he likes one, but God knows who it is ... I only know, d / d, which class it should be. Now I suffer from it every day, a kind of repeat of that story with the first boy I wrote about. When I see that he is hanging out with someone, he comes to throw himself from somewhere, I am really sick. I just can't take it anymore, I'm even starting to look for the mistake in me, because no one I like can't help but respond to me for no reason. Yes, I'm not the most beautiful, I'm not the smartest, but I'm not that bad. I think my biggest problem is my anxiety. Well, I'm overcoming it, but it's a very rare phenomenon. Yes, there are other guys who like me, but I just don't accept them that way, I want mine and that's it. I know some will say my story is complete nonsense, but come on now, wouldn't I? a little unpleasant if almost everyone around you had shared love and your chosen ones don't pay attention to you? I know that I have to lie down over the lessons, but put yourself in my place :). Thank you for reading my story.
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Darling, you are still a little too desperate! It is true that every girl has her student love, but there are still many years ahead of you during which you will meet many different boys .. Do not despair, there will be many boyfriends that you will even get tired;)