Hello, everyone. I'll is brief with my story. I live in one of the big cities in the country. My problem is that our apartment is staked because of a loan, and now the bank wants to take it away because my father didn't pay the installments for a few months. In addition, we recently found out that my father, after scrapping his car, did not stop it from moving (since 2014) and now with interest have accumulated about 3-400 euros. Also from B and K called, That they give it to a court for unpaid water -4 700 euro. They want to take the apartment everywhere, and I'm under a lot of stress. He gets drunk at night, smokes a lot, plays a national lottery but bills don't pay!!! I, my mother and brother are under a lot of stress and we don't know what to do. If I stay here in England, I either have to dig my grave or go to a place and. The other option is abroad, but the language I do not know. I neglected to say that my father had pushed both my mother and brother with loans, and before they withdrew they told them, That he would pay them their payments, and he lied to them, and now they pay and cheat!!! I'm considering the worst. Thanks.
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redheadedcougar1966 answered · June 11, 2020
Get a job, stop borrowing, pray
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bbcamp3 answered · June 11, 2020
Well, that's right, it sounds hopeless. As someone who was in your position, I will tell you one thing - now you may feel terrible, but in time you will realize that this was actually a trial and that life does not end so easily.
Make a calculation - how much is the total amount due on the mortgage loan. Is it the sole home of the owners (I guess it's your mother and father)? If it's just a home, it's probably not for sale. Is it your father's only loan, or is your mother a guarantor?. These details are important.
Other loans are also problematic - they may require the preservation of your mother and father's wages.
How old are you and your brother?
There are many, but many things you haven't written, so it's hard to help you.
plumbing obligations for what period are accumulated? There is also something to drop out, but you need to act quickly.
Whatever happens, remember, you're not responsible for your parents' rhetoric.