Hello! I am 17 and I have a friend with whom I have been for almost 3 years. He is 23. The problem is that after all the daily monotonous and unreasonable arguments, the thrill disappeared. How do I dump it? All our friends are together, we go out every day, we have so many memories together. We parted dozens of times but then we reunited. I don't know what has been happening to me for several months, and there is a boy I was with during the period when my boyfriend and I were separated. And so I went crazy for this boy, even though we didn't have a serious relationship, but I'm too proud to show my "madness" to him (and he's a womanizer). And now when I see this boy, my heart pounding and my stomach shrinks, and he is the only one who has ever impressed me with the behavior of a macho, light "hooligan" but at the same time a mature, self-confident man. You know these types of men who grab you with their charm ... well, he's one of them. So ... I love my boyfriend but he doesn't have those qualities that drive me crazy. For 3 months we have had almost no sex (once a week only) against my will ... I just can't get aroused :( How should I do it? And I don't want to hurt him, because there are rarely people like him ... .
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Hi, I just posted exactly the same story :) I'm in the same situation. In my opinion, in this situation it is best to admit to your partner that things are not going well and that love is no more, but I know from personal experience that it is not so easy. I myself have been trying to share it with him for 2 months, but somehow I am afraid of the consequences and that I will miss him too much :(