Hello! I am a 26 year old woman and mother of 2 small children. I have been living with a man I haven't married for 3 years - he doesn't want to. We have talked about marriage many times, more precisely I have talked, but every time he procrastinates and I see that he is not talked about much. Anyway, that's not the problem. The problem is that I feel unhappy with this man, I see that he doesn't love me even though he says the opposite, and only when I ask him. We hardly talk, we don't discuss anything, we don't have sex regularly, and we don't even sleep together ... I'm in one room with the poop, he is in the other with the baby. I feel unnecessary and swollen from everything and I want to change something in my life. I even thought of leaving him, but I don't know if that's the solution. What to do How do I get out of the trap of loneliness?
1 LovelyMaddi answered
Honey, why is there a man who doesn't love you and who tells you I love you only when you ask him, he doesn't come from inside. Don't bother, it doesn't make sense, what keeps you with him? The children? He will stay again father of your children, with the one difference that you can really meet the love of your life, a man who loves you with all his heart. How can a young family not sleep together, will not talk to each other, will not tell you I love you? This is not life, but torture, I do not want to urge you to leave him, but my opinion is that you should not be with a person who feels that he does not love you. improvement, it is best to separate, especially since you are not married and it will be much easier for you.