I don't think you expect the same thing you see in others. If you don't feel love, you won't get love
Hey, don't you have lessons to learn? :)
Quote: "And I wait, and wait, but nothing happens. "
You women never learned that with this notorious "wait" you are left with only the wait or at most to get knocked by a number of men and jump from one to the other. A serious and responsible man is not with waiting, but with actions on your part!
What if a guy likes you, but like you, he decides to wait? Take the initiative into your own hands and act, because the wait leads to exactly what you're complaining about doesn't work. If you have sympathy for someone, you just go to them and share it appropriately without getting into pre-emptive panics that might make you feel easy. If you're just waiting, they have one option: Nothing's going to happen between you. 100% nothing! If you admit it, something's going to happen between you two or not. And so at least you have a great deal of success, because women are more likely to tie friendship and bonding with men than men with women. This is due precisely to your waiting for the man to try to woo you, to make you feel special, to lift you low self-esteem, to carry you on your hands, and finally to consider him boring and uninteresting, just because he does everything to please you, and you cannot appreciate that. I'm not saying that's who you are, author, but that's exactly what it is.
It's a mystery, it's really. Who would miss the chance to tolerate (not to mention the likes) of a self-indulgent wanna-be Lara Croft, who is thought to be self-sufficient while living under the roof of mom and dad?
It's just incomprehensible to think that someone wouldn't jump to the opportunity to listen to the claims about a minor's term, type and content, all before she spouts the unmentioned claims about the partner.
Maybe someone would have believed the writing of the nonsense if they were a little faithful. "I have a perfect look" - you don't.
"I've always been vain and take a lot of care to look like this" - if you have to take so much care, it's pretty obvious that I'm far from the ideal.
What are you:
"In general, I'm a non-cracker"
"I have no true love for others but myself"
"I'm not particularly sensitive"
An unpleasant person, selfish. How fascinating.
The coolest thing, however, is: "I've always done it alone in life."
You did not pay a home loan; you have not raised children alone; you didn't follow in another city, working and paying for your seed on your own. We both know someone raised you - or maybe she hatched and spoke on her own? Just because you bought a lollipop without asking mom doesn't make you enough.
Normally, I would tell you to rethink values, understand what qualities you would like in someone else (not who would be worthy of such your perfect appearance) and actively seek such an individual (not "and wait, and wait"). It is by trying to realize what we really want, because there is a difference between what we want and what we think we want. Only experience shows that.
Would... but you said more or less what you want:
"I don't want some super serious relationship, I prefer the fleeting sooner, I want to have sex."
It's called a gigolo. You're welcome.
(I hope the self-sufficient pocket money from your father will be enough)
Read your subject again, try to figure out what kind of merchandise you are, and you'il understand why you're alone. It's obvious.
I wouldn't want to have a man like you next to me. But honestly. You sound terribly repulsive and cocky. There is nothing wrong with self-esteem and confidence, as well as knowing who your strengths and therefore weaknesses are, but you have categorically crossed all human limits of behavior. Don't expect to meet anyone at all, especially since you confidently claim to be self-sufficient. Everyone is, to some extent, self-sufficient, but in life it is not enough. Well, it's obviously an exception for you. One extreme is people who desperately need someone by their side and without such a person are ready to lose themselves, the other extreme is people just like you - who are their own universe and so. Okay, have sex, have fleeting tie-ins, but your life emotionally will remain hollow.
Another future sociopath! ' ''There's nothing to repel others-I've got a perfect look (I've always been vain and take a lot of care to look like this), I'm intelligent and I have my own opinion, I'm funny, I'm quite radiant and I'm very sociable, I've had a lot of sporting success''
Well, life doesn't work the way you think. You guys have the reasoning of a 7-year-old - if I study and do what they tell me I will have a nice and happy life! You don't have any opinion of your own- another puppet they'il throw when you grow up.
1, please spare yourself your drama. It's a love poured in to Homo sapiens that just... I call her a little...
And for moma, 16, and calling yourself self-sufficient, something your vocabulary limps, even though you're being intelligent. Do you have your own place, do you support yourself? Come on, you're ing up some drama. True nowadays at 16 not to spin 2, 3 boyfriends is not very normal. The truth is that 99% of people are self-absorbed and in no way distinguish between them except that instead of trying to achieve your goals through another, you are more focused on yourself. In some ways, it may be healthier, because it's really better to expect from yourself than from someone else. But you also have to understand that humans are social animals and design first and foremost outside, not inward. So if you don't play the social game, they'il look at you in the wrong way, and they'il explain to you snares like 1... You're as self-absorbed as everyone else, just what you're focusing on is different and you have to find the positive side of it...
N. 5. to supplement - at 16 wanted to have sex? !? !? !
There's no girl at 16 who wants to have sex, some people like. Rather, they are pleased that this is liked by the partner. And that's why I guess the story was written by a man! Maybe from a woman, but at least 26.
The author-
I'm not going to try to explain it to you, because it's obvious that you have the wrong mindset and you won't understand, i'm just going to waste my precious time. But before you criticize, you "intellectuals", you can at least learn the meaning of the word self-sufficient and not confuse it with self-sufficient. In general, in none of the comments did I see anything meaningful and constructive. You are all like a flock of sheep- you have no opinion and a way of thinking and you are just looking at what the driver will say to lead on it. I'm telling you honestly, I haven't laughed like that in a long time. Not to mention that no one, except number 4, expressed an opinion on my subject and didn't get its meaning, and you're talking to me some nonsense. What am I asking, what do you answer? I'm not going to bother, it's clear that nothing's going to come out of this topic, I can't get your mind in your head, but I can stop wasting my time with you. I wish you a good day and successfully deal with your complexes!
Love is something that is tested with the soul, the author, which is felt most strongly in the eye. If your parents didn't look with love In your eyes, but looked at you with the look of you - "how wonderful our garge is," you're going to have to work to get the most precious feeling in this world.
Come on, read the topic again and then your comment, author, and tell me, do you really understand how repulsive your personality really is?
I am, the same way. I'm self-sufficient, but I need regular sex and contact sometimes. And in some cases, connections are also formed. Some durable, others not so much. But a relationship as such is not my priority, and I can't be with anyone just so I'm not alone. I guess that's what you are. Maybe you should just find your other self, in a male version. Be like you. I'm sure you'il fall in love then. somewhat within yourself, but you will experience it. Or maybe he's completely different from you. But it's a little frivolous to be 16, and to say how you wait, like you're 40.
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I don't think God's going to give you that kind of desire. rather is the devil
If you do something first, think about whether it's a sin, because it's easy to get into sin, but it's hard to get out of it.
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