My brother is like you. He made a super lucrative business, he was terribly charismatic from an early age, and when he took money he started taking care of his body, so he is an extremely handsome man. He's funny, he's funny, he's always been the soul of the company. But he can't find a serious relationship and just grumbles. I explain to him where he is wrong, he does nothing. His mistake is to brag about his success in the first place. Everything in his vision shows that he has money. Even when he is on a sports team for miles, it seems to be expensive. I have people around me who also buy expensive clothes, but there is no sign that they are wearing them - they look completely ordinary, normal clothes. The second mistake he makes is talking about his success. There is no way to gather him with new people and he does not tell where he started and where he came from. Speak in numbers - he will tell you how much his turnover was in the first month, how much he has reached now, how many levs he buys tomatoes for and how much the cotton he uses costs. In a sense, it barely connects 5 sentences without specifying any amount. The third mistake he makes is that he doesn't want to share the money with his partner. He wants to go to a 5 * hotel, he does not agree to go to a 1 * bungalow, but he is not ready to pay for the stay for both of them. He wants them to fly to Paris, but she has to pay for her ticket. She wants to eat salmon at home, but if she wants to eat too, she has to buy one. He used to share a lot with friends when he didn't have much, and many of those friends weren't there when he was late. He once lived with a friend in a dormitory. His friend did not work, theirs supported him, but they are from the countryside and did not manage to keep his wallet very well. My brother worked and gave his full salary to cover his expenses and food. When he ran out of money, his friend went to the village. And my brother, still a working man, did not have this option. And he was starving. There have been many such cases in which it has been used purely and simply, and it has taken him a long time to realize that this is so. But once he understood, he became a scoundrel. To somewhere. For me and my mother, for example, she gives kindly and dearly, buys us very expensive things - requested or simply mentioned in a conversation. But that only does it for us. And he has nothing to invest in us - we will be by his side, regardless of whether he gave us a bouquet for his birthday or decided to send us to Thailand. In general, what my brother looks like in women's eyes at first glance: interesting, resourceful, funny, beautiful and successful. 10 points so far! They go out on a first date: he's still handsome, successful and resourceful, but he starts to get bored and his humor is lost (because each sentence contains some amounts) The chick decides that she can overcome this part - it really looks like low self-esteem. So she tells herself that in time the person will relax and stop talking about money only, as she saw in the beginning that she can. When the chick is considered his half, he realizes that this does not change the financial difference between them. He is reluctant to go and live with them, and if she goes to them, she has to pay the bills. It would not be a problem if he lives in a normal home, where the bills are not over BGN 400 every month. Ladies often pay less or less for accommodation, and bills vary, while rents are generally the same. If they are with a man with their finances, they will share the rent and pay less. That is, going out with my brother is more expensive. Understand, that he would not go to her favorite three-star hotel in Velingrad because he did not have a jacuzzi in the VIP apartment (for which she has no money anyway, even if she has a jacuzzi). If she wants to go with a man with her leisure options, they will go to this hotel she likes and stay in a regular room for two or at most in a studio. My brother is more expensive for her again. And when they sit down to dinner at my brother's and he buys a salmon for himself, and he roasts a chicken steak on it, it starts to show that he doesn't accept her as his wife. The women I have met are not mercantile. They have their own job, support themselves, are smart, often beautiful and have a sense of humor. But with this behavior he repulses them. It's one thing for a boyfriend not to buy you a brand new car, even though he has money. If a woman wants this from the man next to her, she is probably mercantile. But it's a different matter if your boyfriend doesn't pay for your dinner, even though he took you to a restaurant where you can only afford water, and he knows it. This is pure ridicule. But to refuse to go to a place that the girl can afford. When you want and live in luxury, you have to be ready to share it with your partner. And yes, it's a bit like endurance. If, for example, she does not pay rent, you help her financially. If you buy beef at home and she buys chicken, you still help her financially. If you go on vacation at your expense - yes, you help her financially. But in the end - she can not afford to do otherwise. It can take you to Ahtopol, eat in the hotel / bungalow, not the coastal restaurants and travel by train and bus. These are her options. If you want to go to California, you pay for both of you. I would very much like to help him find a wife for a serious relationship, but in reality, in order for both of them to be happy, the chick must not have "own goals", but must have already achieved them. But I don't know any. Women close to his financial situation are either already married or do not intend to marry at all.
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Oh, another perfect one ... Poor thing ... I will directly copy my comment from another topic. And so perfect and with none to become ... Hahahaha It speaks for itself how perfect you are. ;) Here is the description of another perfect. ;) "... They don't approve of my comments on other topics, but I've been trying for some time to give an example with an acquaintance of mine. His teeth are disgustingly crooked, but what's worse is that they are also brown due to lack of hygiene. And no only there ... which is enough to end it all. But! His whole face is pure and just hellishly ugly. Besides, he has a disgustingly shapeless and drooping body / and is 28 / covered with some huge and embossed brown formations against the background of against the background of all this, his unique character shines: a slimy annoyance to atheism, which for months harasses you mentally no matter how much you cut it. And the moment you pull one for him and he finally realizes that it won't happen, just stand and watch the vicious vicious killing of complexes - no mention of the pitiful ugly begging for attention. A girl with perfect proportions of face and body cut it off and he decided to fake that "a facial deformed thing with mental disorders had stuck to him and he had cut it off? !!! To cover his disgusting appearance and his disgusting personality, he still he brazenly declares that he is too lazy to support himself in any way, and that he will continue to annoy himself because he was selfish? !! Well, it is full of such individuals who hang out on the net all day and spit on the ugly , the old people, the whores, the gold diggers and the crazy women in general are to blame;) ... Who are you misleading?!;) Let's hope that this time someone doesn't hit the complexes and they approve it. " in which you pull one for him and he finally realizes that it won't happen, just stand and watch the vicious vicious killing of complexes - no mention of the pitiful ugly begging for attention. A girl with perfect proportions of face and body cut it off and he decided to fake that "a facial deformed thing with mental disorders had stuck to him and he had cut it off? !!! To cover his disgusting appearance and his disgusting personality, he still he brazenly declares that he is too lazy to support himself in any way, and that he will continue to annoy himself because he was selfish? !! Well, it is full of such individuals who hang out on the net all day and spit on the ugly , the old people, the whores, the gold diggers and the crazy women in general are to blame;) ... Who are you misleading?!;) Let's hope that this time someone doesn't hit the complexes and they approve it. " in which you pull one for him and he finally realizes that it won't happen, just stand and watch the vicious vicious killing of complexes - no mention of the pitiful ugly begging for attention. A girl with perfect proportions of face and body cut it off and he decided to fake that "a facial deformed thing with mental disorders had stuck to him and he had cut it off? !!! To cover his disgusting appearance and his disgusting personality, he still he brazenly declares that he is too lazy to support himself in any way, and that he will continue to annoy himself because he was selfish? !! Well, it is full of such individuals who hang out on the net all day and spit on the ugly , the old people, the whores, the gold diggers and the crazy women in general are to blame;) ... Who are you misleading?!;) Let's hope that this time someone doesn't hit the complexes and they approve it. " just stand and watch the vicious killing of complexes - no mention of the pitiful ugly begging for attention. A girl with perfect proportions of face and body cut it off and he decided to fake that "a facial deformed thing with mental disorders had stuck to him and he had cut it off? !!! To cover his disgusting appearance and his disgusting personality, he still he brazenly declares that he is too lazy to support himself in any way, and that he will continue to annoy himself because he was selfish? !! Well, it is full of such individuals who hang out on the net all day and spit on the ugly , the old people, the whores, the gold diggers and the crazy women in general are to blame;) ... Who are you misleading?!;) Let's hope that this time someone doesn't hit the complexes and they approve it. " just stand and watch the vicious killing of complexes - no mention of the pitiful ugly begging for attention. A girl with perfect proportions of face and body cut it off and he decided to fake that "a facial deformed thing with mental disorders had stuck to him and he had cut it off? !!! To cover his disgusting appearance and his disgusting personality, he still he brazenly declares that he is too lazy to support himself in any way, and that he will continue to annoy himself because he was selfish? !! Well, it is full of such individuals who hang out on the net all day and spit on the ugly , the old people, the whores, the gold diggers and the crazy women in general are to blame;) ... Who are you misleading?!;) Let's hope that this time someone doesn't hit the complexes and they approve it. " that he was too lazy to support himself in any way, and that he would continue to annoy himself because he was selfish? !! Well, it's full of such individuals who hang out somewhere on the net all day and spit on the ugly, the old, the whores, the gold diggers and the crazy women in general;) ... Who are you misleading? !! ;) Let's hope this time don't hit someone in the complexes and they approve it. " that he was too lazy to support himself in any way, and that he would continue to annoy himself because he was selfish? !! Well, it's full of such individuals who hang out somewhere on the net all day and spit on the ugly, the old, the whores, the gold diggers and the crazy women in general;) ... Who are you misleading? !! ;) Let's hope this time don't hit someone in the complexes and they approve it. "