I'm Obsessed With My Ex, I Can't Leave Him!

   What if he doesn't want to and he doesn't want to - there's no way. You can forcibly kidnap him. But you better not watch such movies. Calm down, give yourself time. Life is not just commitment. Learn to live alone. That is, independently. And this with songs, writing and gifts repulses him even more. If someone is chasing me like that, I will run away to a rock monastery!

   Horror, wake up a little. She was going to kill them both, I don't know what you are. Get her down on the ground a little. You are not a lion, but a little deluded kitten that has just fallen into a pit. Take your life in your hands, the man has asked you to forget it several times. So forget it and don't do nonsense.

   This is not love! Seek help from a psychologist. woman

   Beauty does not happen by force - the old and wise people said it. In the past, my current wife acted like you. I forgave her. Big mistake. For a while, things were fine. We got married. An even bigger mistake. We already have children. New error. After so many mistakes, I wish I hadn't made the first one. Your ex acts quite openly, honestly and correctly! It's time for you to start doing the same, not just with him!

   Girl, your behavior is toxic. You are truly selfish. You ignored him, that even his birthday - seriously ?? He used to have to get rid of you. What does it mean that she won't let him have another girlfriend, who are you? Do you write to him constantly? Glad the boy didn't turn to the police. Take yourself in hand, burn your mind. Expensive gifts will not return it. It's just that the man is fed up with you, you're tired of him. This is the truth. Let him breathe and start a new life. You don't deserve it. There is nothing to ask for advice to get it back, because he does not want you !!!

   A psychologist? Love is madness, you know? In any case, shaking it is not the smartest thing.

   I don't know what you're going through (after all, you've been emotionally dependent on him for 10 years), but you have no right to suffocate him or decide for him whether he will continue with you or someone else. You don't write that he did, then what? The man wants a break. Respect his decision. And think about whether the mistake is not in you. You've taken it for granted for a year, but it seems like he's proven to you that it's not something you can leave when you're bored. Will you miss the most important personal holidays for him? And if he is so important to you that you would even commit suicide, what circumstances are more important than your loved one? And something even more - it's a pity - you think that some gifts (don't forget to mention how expensive they are) can redeem your mistakes and replace the warm attitude and attention on your part. Look, I don't want to offend you, but you think terribly selfish. Think about it, and if you actually come to the conclusion that the problem is mostly with you, try to fix it. You have lost a person, a human being, with feelings, not an object that you must possess at all costs. We are just strangers, we have no details about what is happening, so I do not want to judge your behavior anymore, you are hardly the only culprit ..

   Honey, I'm a Leo, too, and I couldn't forget mine until a long time ago, and like you, I told myself that she wouldn't be with anyone else, I got into all kinds of hysteria and tormented myself. I understand how you feel. The big difference is that there was absolutely nothing between me and mine, except harassment on his part and silence on mine. Like you, I pleased him with everything, I was ready for anything for him, and I dare say that I loved him. It took 9 years. Of course, they will attack you for everything your ex-boyfriend said about you is true, which I don't agree with. And you are a man, it is not said that 365 days a year he should be your number one priority! From personal experience I tell you - the last three years were the hardest for me, as last summer I ruined myself and I was not on my own. Believe me, I say it from the heart - forget it! I have told myself countless times that I will never love another, that I will not forget it. Several months have passed and everything related to it is over! Give yourself time, limit your contacts with him, do not look for him for any reason! I know it's not easy, but away from the eyes, away from the heart! Don't buy him presents, don't go to his quarters, don't tell him "I love you!" You block and delete a number, Facebook, etc. If necessary, remember his words that hurt you, every time you want to look for him. I am writing to you as a person who has been through the same thing, and I really want you to help yourself! Don't destroy yourself for him! You will forget it, you just need time. Don't play your songs, you'll just remember him. And I have a song that only reminds me of mine, and by some irony of fate is my favorite and has a special place in my heart. But this about the song, the man is forgotten. Don't try to get it back, nothing will be the same. That piece of happiness will be missing before things slowly begin to fall apart before he shows his true face to you. For ten years he didn't find time to tell you what in his character he didn't like, and you finally spat it in your face? !! No, just not ... I sincerely hope you get better!

   Sad and familiar to many women. We've all had such a painful drama with a bad ending. On the Internet advice on how to get it back, we can hardly give - we do not know you, and it seems that you have tried everything that a woman in love is capable of. I can only tell you how I passed and experienced my teenage first big crazy love. After 7 years, when we had reached the point where you are, when he pushed me away with insults and rejected me dozens of times, I became a jerk. I felt worthless. I had no motivation, I was fading, everything was meaningless. So I spent 2 years in suffering and I was not doing well at work or with social contacts. I was irritated and erupted from the slightest thing. Then I decided that if I stayed in the same city with him, going to the same places where we were, he would collapse completely. And I went abroad. It wasn't about money or university, or meeting new people or improving my language. And to escape from him, his shadow and our past. So many things have happened to me. I can't prove I forgot. Better yet, I overcame it. I outlived the agony and did not let it ruin me. And a few years later, he contacted me himself to see how I drove it. But I did not give up. There is also the fact that the more you annoy a man, the more he runs away. My advice is First look at yourself. And would you be happy if he came back to you out of regret, due to the fact that there was no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. I think this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity! nor to meet new people or to improve my language. And to escape from him, his shadow and our past. So many things have happened to me. I can't prove I forgot. Better yet, I overcame it. I outlived the agony and did not let it ruin me. And a few years later, he contacted me himself to see how I drove it. But I did not give up. There is also the fact that the more you annoy a man, the more he runs away. My advice is First look at yourself. And would you be happy if he came back to you out of regret, due to the fact that there is no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. I think this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity! nor to meet new people or to improve my language. And to escape from him, his shadow and our past. So many things have happened to me. I can't prove I forgot. Better yet, I overcame it. I outlived the agony and did not let it ruin me. And a few years later, he contacted me himself to see how I drove it. But I did not give up. There is also the fact that the more you annoy a man, the more he runs away. My advice is First look at yourself. And would you be happy if he came back to you out of pity, due to the fact that there is no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. I think this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity! And to escape from him, his shadow and our past. So many things have happened to me. I can't prove I forgot. Better yet, I overcame it. I outlived the agony and did not let it ruin me. And a few years later, he contacted me himself to see how I drove it. But I did not give up. There is also the fact that the more you annoy a man, the more he runs away. My advice is First look at yourself. And would you be happy if he came back to you out of pity, due to the fact that there is no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. I think this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity! And to escape from him, his shadow and our past. So many things have happened to me. I can't prove I forgot. Better yet, I overcame it. I outlived the agony and did not let it ruin me. And a few years later, he contacted me himself to see how I drove it. But I did not give up. There is also the fact that the more you annoy a man, the more he runs away. My advice is First look at yourself. And would you be happy if he came back to you out of pity, due to the fact that there is no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. In my opinion, this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity! I outlived the agony and did not let it ruin me. And a few years later, he contacted me himself to see how I drove it. But I did not give up. There is also the fact that the more you annoy a man, the more he runs away. My advice is First look at yourself. And would you be happy if he came back to you out of pity, due to the fact that there is no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. I think this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity! I outlived the agony and did not let it ruin me. And a few years later, he contacted me himself to see how I drove it. But I did not give up. There is also the fact that the more you annoy a man, the more he runs away. My advice is First look at yourself. And would you be happy if he came back to you out of pity, due to the fact that there is no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. In my opinion, this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity! And would you be happy if he came back to you out of pity, due to the fact that there is no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. In my opinion, this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity! And would you be happy if he came back to you out of pity, due to the fact that there is no other on the horizon, for taking his soul out to get together? It does not happen by force. One always loves more and always in the end someone is hurt. In my opinion, this connection is exhausted, but I see that you want to fight. Good luck, but don't belittle yourself for a man, but move forward with dignity!

   As a representative of the zodiac sign Leo, I would tell you try not to be emotional, it's very difficult, I know. Ignore him, don't look for him, stop any contact, don't write to him, disappear. It may take time for him to look for you, who knows. Yes, our character is not easy, but we know that what we give no other woman can give, you know what I mean. It's not a loss, you're just emotional. At 31 I am still learning not to be and it is very difficult, from time to time I succeed and believe me, then things turn around. You've done enough, step back and wait. We are not selfish. If you find it difficult to cope with emotions, in your free time do sports, clean your home, go out, read, do things to keep your brain busy. Let him wonder what's going on with you. I was ignored for a whole year, I wrote or I wrote - the only reason was, that I just didn't know what was going on, nobody explained anything to me. I stopped, stopped and posted on Facebook, I evaporated. And now there is some progress. Make him wonder what's going on with you. I dealt with emotions as I started playing sports, studying exercises, fitness programs, some other recipes, I work. I have a magic box recently and I'm getting prettier. I go out with friends or even alone. I skate, bike. I have hobbies and I delve into them. Lots of ideas, engage your brain. It's very difficult, I know. Try. And good luck! The LIONESS I go out with friends or even alone. I skate, bike. I have hobbies and I delve into them. Lots of ideas, engage your brain. It's very difficult, I know. Try. And good luck! The LIONESS I go out with friends or even alone. I skate, bike. I have hobbies and I delve into them. Lots of ideas, engage your brain. It's very difficult, I know. Try. And good luck! The LIONESS

   Give the man air, let him miss you a little. And calm down. After all, he is a separate person, you can't force him to be with you. If he is with you, let it be because he has chosen so. Only then will you both be happy. G29, also Leo;)

   Number 5 - Are you saying that your children are the biggest mistake of your life?

   The author: Well, last year I started my own small business with the help of ours, it was my childhood dream. But you know that in the beginning it is always difficult. The job had taken over me. I don't study otherwise, and my friend studied and worked extra. I called him for his birthday and told him that I would not be able to celebrate with him, he got angry and gave me an ultimatum, if I am not with him on the mansion, I will forget about him, because it is not until the holiday, but until the gesture. I was free at Christmas, so we had time. I didn't ignore it on purpose! I haven't dated other people, friends, family at all. I just worked, I was with him for a few breaks, but he considered it a neglect. He told me that despite studying and working, he finds time and everything is a priority. That's it. I've never been rude to him. I have not forgotten the holidays. I just came home late and dropped them. But I have good news. I persuaded him to go out on Saturday and talk in private. As I wrote the story, I filmed a little, I wouldn't hurt him. But I would not give up, I will slow down, but I will get it back or I will try in any way, all my life if necessary.

   And I would advise the author to go to a psychologist. To say that she will kill the man, that she will not allow him to be with another ... is not love. A obsession.

   Don't think that you are very strong and a hero with this behavior. Talk to a psychologist and learn to accept that there is another point of view in the world besides yours. Let this man breathe. And I had such a problem with a person who stuck to me and I had no air. I don't want to hear it, I can even see it. And I'm uncompromising because I want freedom.

   You are a psycho and accept when he tells you that you are an emotionally stressful egoist, that he tells you the truth, this is not your zodiac sign. Just swallow and move on, otherwise you will remain a nasty egoist chasing people to satisfy your ego. Alooo he is not your property, he belongs to the one he wishes to surrender to. If you don't understand it, then you are not for it.

   Forced beauty does not understand! If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, there's no way you can make him be together again. Understand he's not good at getting him back. With this insane behavior, you run the risk of soon filing a harassment complaint against you and issuing a restraining order not to approach him at a certain distance. I fully support the above comments, start going to a psychologist and rethink your behavior a bit, because if you continue in this spirit, I don't know which normal man will tolerate you! If I were in his place, I would completely ignore the fact that you are a woman and put you in place with a nice fight stickers like you only understand that!

   After 5 years, 3 months and 22 days of relationship, and I am 22 (currently), my girlfriend and I broke up exactly one year ago. I have not stopped loving her, my life is hell, but I am patient and I try not to expose myself to her, I do not want another. I can suggest you do the same, but looking at what you write, your friend was right that you are an emotionally stressful egoist. Keep your dignity and move on, it is not said at all that while we are alive we should be happy, used to this thought and it can be easier for you, at least it helps me!