Hello, I have the following problem - I am a 32-year-old woman, and so far I have never had an orgasm during sex. I reach myself by stimulating with the mobile shower, sometimes even in my sleep, but even though I have had about 10 sexual partners, it just doesn't work. I've tried almost everything, but it still doesn't work. At the moment I have a serious relationship, but sometimes I don't even have sex, because then if I get very aroused I start to have a headache. I have never used sex toys and we are considering buying a vibrator. Do you think it will have an effect, or do I have a mental problem that prevents me from experiencing an orgasm when penetrating ...
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Penetration orgasm and I'm not (I'm 31), but with oral and fingers almost always. I can finish with a soul in a minute, and with a man a little more, but that's not so important to me. I like sex without finishing. I've tried to stimulate myself vaginally, but it doesn't work. The clitoral orgasm completely satisfies me. I just warn men that I like cunnilingus and fortunately I haven't met anyone who doesn't want to do it.
Well, out of those 10, one didn't have a big duck, if they were 10-12 cm hard work. I'm 15 cm and my girlfriend ends 1-2 times a night, even if I had girlfriends who didn't finish at all, I don't explain why my current one ends, and some exes don't, is it narrower, to their psyche Well, I can't explain it
A licking and hand stimulation while in you? Or should he touch you? !!
Hello, I am like you and the vibrator works perfectly for me :)
Hello! Since the female vagina is many times poorer in nerve endings than the clitoris, which is full of them, it is perfectly normal to experience an orgasm only with clitoral stimulation. In fact, 70% of women worldwide experience only a clitoral orgasm, and this does not mean that their body is not functioning properly. If you still want to diversify your sex life, ask your partner to stimulate your clitoris, then upgrade the action - let him stimulate you as he penetrates you with a vibrator or his penis. Start slowly and gradually, touch with your lips and fingers, let the excitement become almost unbearable. Take your time and let the vaginal orgasm not be an end in itself. Let go of the feeling and your own intuition. Let the goal be closeness, trust, attention to each other. When you stop worrying about the end result, you will be overwhelmed by a wave of unexpected pleasure. Success!
During sex you can also stimulate your erogenous zones. Share honestly with your partner. Eliminating all irritants, phones .... relax, give yourself time and things will happen.
Wow, there's nothing big problem. It's from the number.
Most women cannot ejaculate vaginally. I am one of them too. We found a way with my husband as while having sex, I rub my clitoris with my hand and that's it :).
From the author It's not up to size, I've been with a lot of talented men, but I don't like it because I'm shallow and tight and I'm in pain. And yes, it is a big problem, because except with a shower or by squeezing something between my legs / eg a pillow /, there is no other way I can reach. I don't like cunnilingus ...