I'm Married, But I'm Not Happy!

   For me, things are the same, if it calms you down at least a little - you're not the only one ..... but why is that ... well, I think we just came across this type of men who think that after they have already put their signature there is no need for any attention and tenderness and care and things of this kind that a woman needs .... well in a word drummers ... the topic is very broad and we can talk a lot about her .... and as for the other for myself at least I think he will be careful because he is not my husband, but if he is to me if he will not be like mine .... ask yourself some questions and think smart .... Is it worth losing something to indulge in the same thing .... you know I'm talking to you, and I'm in the same situation - I can't decide what exactly I should do ....

   You don't have a hundred lives to waste this one. When he doesn't notice you, choose the one who does.

   Mostly you make the decision, but if I were you I would divorce, because when two people don't love each other, they can become so unpleasant for each other that they hate each other. But there is another side: if this man you are married to now is your love and you just have to open his eyes to see what kind of woman he has next to him ... you just have to find the right way to do it. True love comes once in a lifetime and you have to ask yourself if you have already found it or not yet. Ask yourself what you want and draw your own conclusions about everything, then you will find the solution, but know that there are no ideal people. :)

   Hello! You don't mention if you have a child or not ?! Although a child is not always an obstacle to the breakup of a marriage. But my advice is if you don't feel happy, leave it. Although only you know. Happiness is the most important thing in life, so live :)

   It is good for a person to unload from time to time. how to show it. In my opinion, do not hurry, it is easiest to destroy what is created and then it is very difficult to build. But of course everyone knows themselves.

   I don't know you, but I will tell you one thing: THINK WELL !!! If you're not happy with it, split up. Man is in this world to be HAPPY. But if your self-esteem is too high and you only think that all men will be at your feet, then you are very wrong. Being beautiful is not a guarantee that you will be happy. There are many beautiful women who do not have good marriages and many men who are happy with not so attractive women. So judge not only your husband, but yourself! Accept the interest of other men as a flattery rather than a guarantee of personal happiness.

   I DON'T KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN. I DON'T KNOW WHETHER THE OTHER MAN DESERVES YOU TO LEAVE EVERYTHING BEHIND YOU. IF YOU STILL HAVE ANY FEELINGS FROM YOUR HUSBAND, TRY TO SHOW HIM IN SOME WAY THAT YOU ARE A MUCH DESIRED WIFE AND HE IS LUCKY THAT HE IS WITH YOU. GOOD LUCK!!! BUT THINK VERY WELL AND IF YOU HAVE A CHILD, WRITE TO ME.

   This is also the case with me. My husband is colder, he claims that he loves me, we have been married for 11 years, I want to note that we are 31 years old. we have 2 children, and it's as if that's where his attention to me ends. Once we are married, we have children, we no longer need romance. And I'm not ugly, nor do I seem to be 31, my eldest daughter next to me is like a sister, but it seems that my husband no longer sees in me a man to court. I'm a romantic, and I miss that in a relationship, and I might be doing something stupid soon. This leads to infidelity, and then the men wonder why it happened. Well, come on, think for yourself.

   Talk to him and tell him the problem.

   He did a lot for you and he's probably tired. If he is unsure of losing you, try to give him courage. If then he realizes that he does not want - great. If you break up - super is not the right word, but maybe it's for the good of both. There is a reason he is not gentle with you and does not enjoy you. He has hardly reached a point where he does not want to experience such things with a woman. Try to understand what it is and maybe it will help you take action.

   Do not spoil your marriage, especially if you have a child, he will suffer a lot, but if you do not live your life, he is in front of you.

   Everyone deserves to be happy, if you stay with him you will hardly ever feel happy. Never sacrifice yourself.

   Everyone deserves to be happy. Good for you! I am also unhappy because my husband is fiercely jealous. But I don't know what to do.

   Nothing new under the sky-second man always looking to do with you what the law is long forgotten !!! Do not write WHETHER already had sexual intercourse, BECAUSE THEN THE SECOND-just be unique, and the law inconspicuous!?!

   Look now I say I'm a man who tries to pay attention to his partner, but it also happens to me not to be told not to do anything, not to deal with her sometimes, all this is temporary if you know how to hang out with him. Unfortunately, I can't give you an exact theorem on what to do because I don't know him and I don't know you, but one thing I'll tell you for sure, don't deal with others, because most men can smell when a woman is weak and what she needs as much as to be attractive and good for you believe me 80% it is not for nothing. 1st that he deals with a married woman (if you told him so !!!)

   The decision of who to stay with should be your own, not people's. If you are not happy with your husband, you have every right to find happiness elsewhere.

   Don't you know the man? I don't know, there are just a lot of such observations. when you got married you probably took what the right boy was and you knew that he loved you and when he was not so loving you knew what this is about if it is so if you are sure of your husband and you feel feelings for each other why do you behave like that unless you loved him. if you are so overwhelmed by your behavior, I don't know, talk to him, or if you don't talk, suggest that he relax to feel comfortable and the sparks will snore, it's easier to talk than to do, but I just don't know how most of you they got married at all. If not, then the man may be disgusted with you to have a relationship or something like that, but when I said you know your husband, you will understand whether infidelity or not people have this sixth sense. We should not infuse you with the idea that he is cheating on you because it may not be so, there may be some problems. But really why we always stumble on someone else's in most cases the situation becomes worse and the person was not worth it in how many cases lovers really have real feelings and happen to get married and so on we are used to giving up when things are fixable there is some difficulty oops.

   Watch and think all men in the beginning we behave well there is a high probability after you are happy to put you in place and your place is with the children and your husband

   If he sees a bitch, he'll be scared.

   19 And what are you?

   Hello, I am in the same situation, I have even moved in with the child who is 4 years old with my parents. Not to repeat the words of the author, one to one with my situation. In three words, I AM NOT HAPPY. I'm not attracted to my partner in any way. We come home from work, watch TV and go to bed, and back to work. We don't even have time to have dinner together. He takes very little care of the little one and all this alienates me. I don't think I'm the only one to blame, but I feel in the "I'm looking after my child, the man is working" situation, but nothing else for a long time. We haven't divorced yet because my husband can't accept the situation, not that I can, just because the child would come back so he doesn't go through all this. But when I remember how I feel, I don't feel back ...

   My girlfriend and I lived together for six years, but when there is no passion between the partners and it is done only for convenience, there is no point in such a relationship continuing, we lost our time. Now everyone is with a person who attracts him, but our young heads did not want to ever hear, number 22 divorce, you have nothing to think about him, your child will suffer twice as much if you stay together.

   That's right. Divorce. As you do not love each other and accordingly you will be some negative people and this negativity will affect the child.

   You will never be happy with this person. Don't think about it, go ahead and live your life. There is one life!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

   Don't think that you will be happy again with the "new" ... It's a momentary thrill - think about sex, etc ... It's a big step and I think you have to diversify the way you do it, to be more tender with him ... If you have a child it is even uglier to separate ....

   But we haven't had sexual intercourse yet! Why is that? !! - And how do you expect us to be able to answer such a question :))

   Because with the new one you spend 2-3 hours a week and he tries to take you down. You spend 165 hours a week with your husband, of which 1/3 you sleep, and the other one third includes everything else - from cleaning the toilet to sex after the children fall asleep. The conclusion is self-evident - leave your husband and become his mistress (your husband, de). The same goes for all women who want someone to take their stars off all the time.

   Another tearful drama about the misunderstood woman and the cherished new lover. It's easy to take a man's wife, but try to give it back to him. Divorce and the new one will disappear like a gonzo blizzard. Instead of fixing things with your husband, you look for a calf under the ox. Good luck.

   He knows that you can't do without His Money;) Many of you talk that they want love and attention BUT MONEY FIRST;) from personal experience. There is no complete happiness UNDERSTAND only when a person draws reasonable frameworks for himself !!

   Aloou, the story is from 11 years ago, who do you advise ?!