I'm Looking For A Man, How Can I Find Him?

   I hope you don't have criteria for the man's pocket, that you were stuck then.

   Wait a minute ... 6 years of medicine 4 years of specialization (at best - we are not talking about surgery), ie 18 10 = 28. You claim that the amount is almost five digits ... Janam, tell her how it works this number without years of experience and a solid clientele, because I also specialize and this film looks a bit like science fiction to me. Even in private clinics they do not let so many experienced 40-50-year-old specialists, what is left of a newly hatched 29-year-old. Not to mention private practice, you don't have the necessary years :) Or you serve ...

   Wow, I just wish we were friends. We have many things in common. I don't know how you drive without a sex friend, you better find at least one. And for the age ... Nowadays it is so. Later, serious relationships take place, and later, families. You haven't stopped. If you wait, it's hard to get something. Rather, it is good to be active.

   Can I be your man if you want me? : D

   I'm a man of 38 Now imagine that you're ugly, that you're unemployed, that you can't afford champagne, beaches and luxury restaurants. If you can get rid of all this to find it, then it will happen to her. A matter of priorities. Until then, whatever priority you put in front of him, he will feel as if you took him for a nursery. Therefore, until then, do not hope for anything more than poor quality fucking from molds, which will blow as soon as you inflate the abdomen. You know ... I would lose everything for my wife. M.V.

   5-digit amount, etc., these are good things, but the circle where you can find a man is only this one. Most women earn less than   1,000. and for that they have more choice. I mean, they are not confused by their husband earning about 1000  , in fact the mass of people in Bulgaria earn so much. If I made that kind of money, family would be my last concern.

   Take down the bar!

   Which do you prefer, sitting alone or looking for it? You women have a very wrong opinion. It will be very nice for me and even nice if a girl goes to take me down. Or show interest. Of course, if you download someone, do it carelessly and delicately.

   We are no longer looking for men because everything is in abundance. Understand this as you wish. Maybe you think too much about the situations around men and so you always find flaws in someone. You have a choice of men and you keep calling yourself not this, not this, not that, and in the end you are alone. However, time passes. Think because it will be harder and harder for you.

   Eh doctor, if personal information could be exchanged ... The same situation at 26m.

   I think you've raised your bar and you're raising the bar too much for the man you want to be with. Which isn't bad, but you can't just look for someone who is financially and professionally like you. Just like a person immersed in his work, I want to tell you that social networks are the best choice. For example, Tinder. That's where I found my dentist. So Spoko, no shame. If you wait for them to discover how unique you are, you will not succeed soon, especially if we are talking about a relationship.

   Hello. I'm looking for a wife. How is it possible for me to meet you? :)

   You are not a "doctor", you are a fictional character! The doctors are literate!

   Author, I'm starting to analyze your story from the beginning. You have been without a friend, without a sexual partner for a year. How is it possible that a beautiful woman at her best age does not need sex. Does that mean you're asexual or frigid or, like some men, drive him to self-care. Anyway. So you're a 28-year-old woman doctor who doesn't want to mention her specialty, but doesn't mind saying she gets a 5-figure salary. This means that you receive from 10,000 to 99,000 levs. Can you at least tell which of these two numbers you are approaching - the smaller one or the bigger one or somewhere in the middle. I understand that with such a large salary you can afford to go to luxury restaurants and go on vacation in a month, in winter mainly on beaches and the sea. Which sea and which beaches, at least that's what you had to mention, and not to make us brainstorm where these breaks must have been. In Bulgaria in the winter you will hardly go to our Black Sea beaches, because they are not very hospitable at that time, unless you use the cold for hardening, as some Russians do. If you go on tropical beaches during your vacations, a young doctor like you may like you and fall in love with each other, and here is how to live happily ever after. But you did not tell us what qualities you are looking for in your future husband. Should he also receive a 5 digit salary. I just envy you that I don't have such a chance in life as you. unless you use the cold to harden, as some Russians do. If you go on tropical beaches during your vacations, a young doctor like you may like you and fall in love with each other, and here is how to live happily ever after. But you did not tell us what qualities you are looking for in your future husband. Should he also receive a 5 digit salary. I just envy you that I don't have such a chance in life as you. unless you use the cold to harden, as some Russians do. If you go on tropical beaches during your vacations, a young doctor like you can like you and fall in love with each other, and here is how to live happily ever after. But you did not tell us what qualities you are looking for in your future husband. Should he also receive a 5 digit salary. I just envy you that I don't have such a chance in life as you.

   This with the 5 digit amount is a clear proof that you are not what you pretend to be. Do you know what 5 digits are and how far it counts? !?

   I'm sorry, I don't believe you. Another provocative topic!

   Hello, Male of 30 (Sofia). I would rather ask you a rhetorical question - how and where are you looking for this man of yours. To find someone literate in restaurants - rather a small chance. I consider myself a decent guy, but I don't have time to waste from squats and sports. Go to the gym - see who you could meet there. Go to some interesting events that would bring together a certain intelligent group of people and see if you will meet anyone. As much as women want you to be "chased" and courted by us men, sometimes the situation requires you to take action. And don't forget that men generally don't understand hints. Or more precisely from your hints. It must be too clear a sign, unambiguous, to provoke someone who is the object of your desires to act. Facebook - stupid, dating sites - mostly married and dissatisfied with their wives men other unfortunates. My opinion - make a correct assessment of what type of man you are looking for, ask yourself what type of men would do in everyday life and then act :)

   And I think the story is made up, but I don't understand why he still got so many comments?

   From the author of the topic: I am sorry that I did not read the text before I posted it on the site for the missing letter "T"! Yes, a dentist. I am medicine! And I work for almost 5 figures. I'm sorry that some people are annoyed by this. So the topic was: Should I look for the man next to me ... or just wait for fate, luck or whatever it is to find me?

   You will have money and not be able to find a man at least for sex ... come on, not us ... and you are not a doctor at all, as someone said above ... a fictional topic of a sick brain ...

   When you're not looking for him. If it is written, you will meet it. If not, you will be alone. This is the reality. Besides - when you go out with a few girlfriends, you are a crowd of genres that would scare every man and no one will come close to meet - a guarantee. You'll have to go to the bars alone, but what kind of men are there ... another question.

   If you look for them in the "elite restaurants" except for an elite orgy to shine on you once, you will not find what you are looking for. Sea, Balkans, stable finances; are you looking for a bank employee. When you start receiving such abnormal rewards, you go to a surgeon who pokes your nose into space and one does not dare to ask you what time it is, let alone something more. You go to the beach because of the sand and the water of the sea. Don't be capricious that sand has stuck to your ass. For these years, you have stood up with character, with whims. Your lifestyle makes you look at a stable man with a stable vision and a bank account. Well, believe me, such a man would pay 10 times for an elite companion than it would be elite to mess with you. You watch a lot of movies about the rich in the states. Here is the hole Bulgaria. Looking for a hard worker is not a bully.

   The situation was similar for me, after a relationship between the ages of 19 and 26, I was looking for a suitable life partner. I was registered on a dating site and I saw a lot of men and I didn't like them. There was a moment when I thought that something was wrong with me, somehow everyone can't be bad and not good for me. For a short time I even lowered the criteria, it doesn't make a big mistake! You can compromise with something, but be with someone who doesn't suit your intellectual level or physical level. you imagine it is not possible. Keep looking, it doesn't work right now because you're waiting for someone special. Now that I am enjoying my life and the man next to me, I do not regret the time I was waiting for him. I, those who attack a doctor, may have been studying dentistry for 5 years until studying for a master's degree, if the author has inherited an office or has received help to open one,

   You are not looking for a man, but a prince. Your standards are obviously super high, and it's evident from how you write. After practicing an intelligent profession, you have to be intelligent enough and answer for yourself what you can't do ... Men with the status and money you are looking for do not need a doctor, nor do they care how much you take. They are looking for boyfriends for fun. That's how you women chose it. You have broken a traditional marriage so that you can pursue "relationships." But a normal marriage, as before, is difficult nowadays, especially when you are looking for rich successful men who have no problem finding young and stupid ... By the way, I have an affinity for doctors, and you are the first to say, especially at this age, that you make that kind of money, unless it's an annual salary ... I guess a liaison at a private clinic,

   You have a lot of free time, girl - so the doctor drops out.

   I am homeless, I would gladly like you to take me to the feeder, I will fulfill all your desires (sexual, and not only).

   From everything you have described, it turns out that you are very correct. I wonder and wonder how you coped with the difficult things in life, such as education, proving and reaching this level, and you can't find a man. I'm very interested in how modern and independent women like you stand and waste time on sites like this. Interesting !?

   If the story is true I have a question for the author. If you make good money, I guess you have your own home, not an apartment. You have one, and should there be a man? You make a big salary and does he have to make that much? You go on vacation every month, should he afford it too? Most men are afraid of such a raised bar that they are not sure if they will be able to present it to you. Now, I'm not saying to find someone with a minimum wage (or no job) who lives with their mother / grandmother. But, if a man is independent, responsible, lives alone in a dormitory, but is supported in some way, for example, he takes 2-3 thousand, will it be bad? I think you should lower the bar and before the other sisters attack me, I shouldn't talk like that, think about how many rich men take women, who don't work to look after their children, or come from a poor family, etc. you to repel men. Not all men look at looks and money, and women!

   I met my husband on a dating site 10 years ago. He lived abroad - I caught the plane and stayed for 2 weeks. We realized that we are for each other and at least for now we are right - we already have 2 children. He then came home, and we got married. At that time, there were decent people with sincere intentions on these sites. But being married is not for you - you will have to maintain a home - this includes washing, cooking, cleaning, and when the children are born - not to tell you. Either you are pursuing a career or you are abandoning it. But for a doctor I do not know how it will happen. If your children will be looked after by a babysitter - what are they for? She should teach them songs, poems, games, tasks, reading, writing, etc. Your friends are gone, evenings out, travel. Ever since we had the kids and one night we haven't been out alone. Always with them. Think carefully about whether you can get rid of all of the above. And if you only want a sex partner - it's easy. Internet. You understand and see each other.

   With pipes and five digits you will tie ..

   Find a colleague, at least you will be on the same level. If Bulgaria is close to you, you can search the world.

   Interesting how you earn 5 figures, you study medicine for 6 years, then specialization ... lol. My uncle is a prominent surgeon and he fails to bring in that money, why are you lying? Separately, I have friends who have studied and specialized and bam 1500: /

   And I'm looking for a wife. summary: I am very mysterious and kind.

   In those years with this profession and a five-figure salary - it is almost impossible, unless you are a prodigy and you have not become a student at 14 for example. By the way, Instagram is no less a gossip.

   A doctor with a five-figure salary of 28? That in the general case of 28 at most you have completed the specialization. And only if you drive one of the shorter ones. But the shorter specializations do not bring a lot of money afterwards ... However, if you are really a doctor, which I sincerely doubt, with these Saturday-Sunday shreds at "luxury" pubs with champagne, I do not envy your patients ...

   A doctor with a five-figure salary of 28, who does not work in shifts and has free weekends ??? Are you serious???

   Unfortunately, you have a lot to offer, and most men find it difficult to cover one of these things first, and secondly, they respect your achievements. Even if you find a man at your level or higher, the competition is great for him and he will probably not be satisfied with one. We women are looking for someone at a higher level than us, while for men the opposite is true, the only thing a woman would put up with if she is superior to them is appearance. And no matter how much they roar about what we women offer, by offering it they cover themselves. But there are still men on the spot who deserve it. To some extent it is a chance to meet them, as you can help yourself with an active social life. And don't put too much emphasis on how much you earn and what you've accomplished.

   Gross or net? Because if it's gross, you're pretty bad. I'm a programmer and I pass you by. Now seriously: You should have missed this with the money, because no normal man is interested in a woman's income, even successful women are very repulsive (if your income is as much as you say, which I doubt very much). But even so, you're obviously looking for someone with an income above yours and money, and luxury is the number one factor for you (since you put so much emphasis on that in your speech). Such men in BG are really few and far between. Either we are talking about successful business owners, or the best programmers, or senior managers of large companies. All of them, respectively, are surrounded by beautiful women who literally spread their legs. You don't stand a chance there. So, get down to earth. You are 28 years old. Grab a doctor on your rug and have fun, while you are young. That when you pass 30, the chances tend to zero - there every 20-year-old muffin is a better party than you, if it is with a salary of 600 leva.

   I'm glad that many commentators don't believe your story, because this story is a big fabrication. See how you contradict yourself: "I am a doctor by profession, I WILL NOT MENTION A SPECIALTY. You say in advance that you will not mention a specialty, but now you are talking about the missing letter" T ". When you are caught close you start using other lies. How long will you continue to lie? You went on vacation during the month, WINTER mostly on beaches and the sea. I ask you, in the winter what beaches do you go to, will you answer me or will you lie. , why don't you tell her straight in the teachings that she lies. This author can't live if she doesn't lie. Hers is a pathology. This is not her only story when she is looking for a man. Read the story: "Where to meet an intelligent man" here in " Everything that comes out of it is an absolute lie. And most importantly, she never tells herself her true age. Here he presents himself at the age of 28. in other stories from adolescence to usually 30 years and very rarely over 30 years. And she turned 62 in November. I know other things about her, but I will say them at the right time. I just want you to know that I know her from this site and other sites for 8, 9 years. We have exchanged many comments over the years. Moderators, once you publish such incredible false stories of this author, and my comment is sincere and deserves to be published as well. but I will say them at the right time. I just want you to know that I know her from this site and from other sites for 8, 9 years. We have exchanged many comments over the years. Moderators, once you publish such incredible false stories of this author, and my comment is sincere and deserves to be published as well. but I will say them at the appropriate time. I just want you to know that I know her from this site and other sites for 8, 9 years. We have exchanged many comments over the years. Moderators, once you publish such incredible false stories of this author, and my comment is sincere and deserves to be published as well.

   I am also a 28-year-old doctor, I specialize and my salary is purely BGN 1,100. I don't know if you have a specialty, but in most places your specialty raises your salary by no more than BGN 100. This topic seems very false to me ... You are rather an unemployed, not very attractive middle-aged man living with his mother.

   I am also a 28-year-old man, that is, we are the same age and I am looking for the same as you, namely a boyfriend. Instead of whining that we can't find a partner, why not do it on this site? What's wrong? I am from Ruse. If you are interested, I will give you my contact details. Why not meet on this site? Where else will you look for it? You know, I'm one of the candidates to be your boyfriend. I line up in line and wait my turn patiently.

   Oh, but you didn't stop making it up! You are not a doctor by profession. You don't even know that there is no such profession. This is a degree. You're not even a doctor. Because if you were, you wouldn't write such nonsense about a five-figure salary, and happy alcoholic weekends. First, a 28-year-old doctor has not yet completed his specialization. Or, if he has just finished it, he starts working with a salary of about BGN 950, and possibly a specialty allowance of BGN 120. And since he is young and has no seniority allowances, by deducting taxes, he receives a salary as much as the nurses even less, because in most cases they are very experienced, and have many allowances. Second-beginner doctors are the last hole in the kaval. They work the most thankless work, night shifts, all weekends are given to them, and they necessarily work on all important holidays. Like, this, that you were on duty at the weekend does not release you from being at work during the week. But since you don't have enough money, especially if you are staying at home, you have to be on night duty at a medical center for small sums, and during the day you are back at work at your permanent place. We are not talking about the quantities of medical literature that you must have read in the meantime! And the little time you have left, you use to lie down on the bed and sleep until the third alarm! I especially laughed when I read how you go on vacation during the month and go on excursions. You need to know that in reality, not in your fantasies, the first few years it is very difficult to go on vacation. And then, when the old lions do not come out. f. your colleagues with a lot of experience and money. And you're content with a few days almost out of season in the summer, or in the winter, but not before Christmas, but, say, in February, or when no one else wants to. Not to mention that you have to keep your reading leave before the specialty exam or colloquium. And in this carousel you have almost no time for personal life, or for torments why I don't have a husband, etc. Hmm ...

   Yes, you have to look for a man. If you expect someone to look for you, even if you are beautiful, it will not happen. In such a relationship, they must both take a step forward.

   Years ago, there were rumors that invasive cardiologists earned about  50,000 a month. I was inclined to believe until I accidentally saw a slip from the salary of a friend like that -  4,400 gross, and that was exactly from this hospital, which was rumored to have such salaries. Not to mention that he is one of the more experienced doctors in this specialty. And this is not a low salary for the Bulgarian reality, but it is far from those fantastic sums that are mentioned. By the way, there was an advertisement recently - a habilitated person is wanted for director and head of a surgical clinic, the announced salary seems to have been around  5,000. So much for doctors' salaries. And that the author's question and description are fake is more than obvious.

   N. 45 did you read my comment n. 43. Or are you naive and believe in fictional stories. How will you feel when you see her grandmother at the age of 62, will you still want to be boyfriends? Ho, ho, ho. N. 46 thank you for the nice honest comment. Her story is an absolute fake and she is a master of stupid lies, but many people here are attached to her lies, especially women, which is a shame and a disgrace. To the author. Author, I'm waiting to hear which beaches you go to in the winter, please answer me.

   And I saw the story as a fabrication. Not for anything else, but even pretty women are constantly offered. What's left for a cool girl (though not in the eyes of all men) to suffer from a lack of attention. And with this social life ... when looking for a man :-) At such an age and a decent vision, ie at the peak of its development and beauty, plus the fact that the target group of men is huge / 30-33 for example / the offers are pouring everywhere - in the restaurant, in the disco, in the gym, at work, on the street, in the store, everywhere literally. The point is to make contact and then sift. In such a social life, asking where to look for a man is ridiculous. And yes, decent men also go to restaurants. Women with this status are constantly offered meetings, outings, etc., etc., etc. I understand that there is some ugliness,

   Author, other times when you post topics, you lie less. And there are as many men as you want. The only question is that they want you too. What doesn't work for you, you know best why.

   First of all, I wish the author success in finding a colleague. As for being a dentist, the salary is quite achievable. I have a look at the field and in private hospitals the average salaries are 3000 - 6000 BGN. no matter how unbelievable, neurosurgeons, angiologists, oncosurgeons, etc. calmly exceed 50k per month.