I'm Jealous Of His Sister

   Dear author, I believe you. I know a brother and sister who are exactly as you described. At 35, without boyfriends and both forever. They joke, calling themselves Man and Woman, they both live in the same apartment. Every day they talk for about an hour on the phone with their parents and at least half an hour both. You will hardly be able to change it, it is possible that the two even share their intimate experiences. In your place, I would check how much he communicates with "mom and dad". There are people who are cohesive, disgusting families. And they will not change. Be careful. Oran Gutanovich

   It is not a disease. I would call your jealousy normal if we assume that your friend ignores you because of his sister or is kinder to her than to you, etc. Then you have every reason to feel that way. If he really loves you, it is right in some situations to prefer you, to listen to your opinion, etc. Pay attention to the fact that you have been together for only 9 months. Against the background of the years he "knew" his sister, this is a very short time. Maybe as your relationship progresses, when he's sure you're the woman of his life, things will change. On the other hand, if you just envy the fact that they are close to each other, then I think you're wrong. There is nothing wrong with that, on the contrary, there are rarely families in which the two children get along so well.

   The only way out is to get used to it ...

   This is really a problem. The relationship between your boyfriend and his sister is the result of emotional incest with his mother. In general, as a little boy he was too attached to his mother and less to his father, or the father was missing emotionally at all (he may have been there physically, of course, but he did not interfere at the right moments or interfered in an inadequate way). Since his sister is a continuation of his mother's personality, he subconsciously wants to continue to be his mother's special boy, and the easiest way to play this situation is to be his sister's special husband. Additionally, his mother has consciously or unconsciously bound him emotionally to herself so that he satisfies some of her emotional needs. Since as a little boy his survival depended entirely on his mother, he complied with her wishes and did not allow it at all, that there may be different desires. In fact, he even felt guilty if he thought of doing something that Mom didn't approve of in advance. The solution to the problem can only come if he wants it himself, otherwise there is no way. You hinted at him well, but he felt a strong subconscious guilt at the idea of ​​breaking up with his sister, because to his subconscious it is like breaking up with his mother, on whom his survival depends.

   Hello. I've thought about that too. I'm definitely not jealous, but it's weird because I have a brother too, but we don't have such feelings. I don't walk naked in front of him, you don't write I love you or I miss you ... like you and the thing that comforted me was when I saw him shouting let's go and he slapped her ass. I was stunned ... I even wondered if I didn't like it, I don't think it's a normal relationship between brother and sister. He's naked and walking around the room and yelling at me not to let my sister in ... but she doesn't get dressed or lock up ... it's pretty weird.

   and just to add that it did not reflect at all ... as if it did not touch her and ah ... this led me to another thought that this is not the first time because it did not impress her

   Omg are you a psychopath? She is his sister, for example, go out more often, but you can't stop them from building what they have built. Sisters and brothers are above all, darling. So tomorrow you will quarrel and you will break, but she remains his sister, whatever happens for life will be with him, please do not film yourself, but tighten up.

   My brother and I do not live in our world, but even if there was, of course, my friend and his girlfriend will not have them. There is nothing to be jealous of his sister. THEY ARE ONE BLOOD and there is no way to break contact - THEY ARE A FAMILY. The idea of ​​being jealous of his sister is extremely selfish and stupid, will he have sex with his sister? I do not think. Woman number one is mom, just as man number one is dad. :)

   Phahah, you'll get sick. RUN WITH 200. I have a similar experience and at one time the situation was strange and intolerable. You have nothing to do with it, but if you continue to be in such a relationship, it's no wonder you're slapping. Their relationship will not change, rest assured. Good luck, act once and don't be surprised.

   Disgusting! Because you can't change their relationship, you will continue to suffer. I don't know what advice to give you, except to try to make friends with your sister and live together as one big family.

   My perversions on people go. They may have been intimate. Here I have read topics in which people do not condemn incest, as long as there are no children from it ... All kinds of insanity. And I don't think it's normal to slap her on the ass, but so what. It is not normal for their proximity to be at your expense. I would challenge the nurse - she, like a dumb coquette, would betray herself, and then I would dump the boy.

   I am the author. Today I saw them having sex together. I'm still in shock and I can't believe it. Not true!!! My stomach turned straight and I left his sister without being noticed. I still can't find a place, and everything turns inside out for me. And I have a strange heartbeat. What can I tell him when I return to us? Why do I always come across freaks? Incest, HORROR! Well, such a thing had never happened to me. Crazy people! Not with 200, but with 1000 I will escape ....

   If post number 12 is not really invented, it is incest. Now I will surprise many people, but in our country incest is not forbidden - that is, there is no punishment for it. If the two are adults, they can have as much sex as they want ... it is forbidden to have a marriage, but they can have sex if it is voluntary on both sides and even children can have ...

   I'm not post 12 at all, I don't know which freak wrote it, but there is no such thing, damn it ?! They just have a hell of a strong relationship, I get along with her, we respect her a lot, she didn't do anything to me, I just get annoyed by this closeness, I feel superfluous and insignificant, it's like I see in her an obstacle that if she decides she doesn't like me can separate us. .. There is really no advice to give me, but I shared it to find out if there are others who have been in my situation and what they have done.

   11 is right. Do not rule out the option of being perverts. Especially if you are from the countryside, where it is a national sport to slap relatives with relatives. Hitting your sister on the ass is NOT ok! Ask him directly and watch carefully how he reacts. Personally, such a STRANGE relationship would repel me. I think you should look for another person.

   If you are jealous of his sister, I imagine what it is like if there were other women around him, how you accept a man as your property, I do not understand, it is not normal, think that there is no point in such jealousy, you only harm yourself.