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2 jannisniewoehner_official answered
From the author. You're basically right, I've talked to her, but nothing happens. She tells me that things are like that right now and she can't do anything. At such a moment, she was not interested in anything and she could not help me. It's just that things don't go well with her in two words either. I have the feeling that she is with me at the moment, not because she wants to be with me, but because she is just used to me.
3 isabella_morena answered
From №1 to the author: When did you talk to her about this? If it was a month ago, two conversations again now during the holidays, just see that she has changed her mind. And if things don't work out for her, you'll probably have to take care of yourself. If you really don't have friends to rely on, the only way out is to be alone. Stay with yourself and consider the situation. If there is any way to help your parents keep in touch, then they could get you back on your feet. Success!
4 sideshow_bob_1904 answered
How smart do you hunt with these girls? It is clear that she is still "playing". Especially since she became a student. New acquaintances, parties ... and of course there are colleagues to attract her attention. A serious relationship with a woman under 23-4 years is not worth it (there are always exceptions). Once you have a stable job and income - get out of it. Start a new life. Things are getting better. ;)
5 sl1pg8r answered
To №7: And why go out when he loves her. He built this relationship for 4 years and now in one fell swoop to destroy everything ... how does this happen?
6 dave_filoni answered
From the author. It is not so easy to end after more than 4 years. and a half. I know my girl, she's not a bitch, she's stable, but I understand and I was like that at her age. I didn't feel dizzy and I wanted to go out. Is it worth separating, hurting, and reuniting over time? I keep thinking that things can be fixed in some way.
7 Catheriane answered
Well, things can be fixed - maybe :) but it will never be the same. Once you've talked to her and nothing has changed, then she has no desire to do anything to make you feel better. Why not just start making new contacts? Meet more people, go on a trip somewhere ... you have the right to seek happiness with or without it :) Good luck and head up, the situation is not as black as it seems! Greetings, Lily
8 mrmiss_world answered
Hello. Although it sounds a little weird, things with your girlfriend aren't that bad. This happens to almost every couple - she is a student. as a new environment told you a new company, but it all has an end. there will come a time when she will feel how important you are to her and that these years are not small. Give her a little more time and if you talk, listen to her completely without saying anything without asking her anything. everything will be fine at least I wish it from the bottom of my heart ....
9 enjoy2you59 answered
Hi nz whether it's too late to write on this topic or not but still ... I think it's best to move to live with your girlfriend. If she does not want ok then it is a sign from God that she is not for you !! I am also a student, my colleagues go out to have fun but I have a friend and I comply with him !! not that sometimes I don't like it, on the contrary, but I can't do everything at once. My parents broke up 3 years ago, right at my prom ... it was very nasty I fell into a hole .. I still have a hard time but we must find the strength to look for the right path. After all you are not young at 26, take your life you control it in your own hands and not this and that !!! be strong!!!! don't give up and don't bow your head !!!!
10 funtime17 answered
What was the reason for breaking up with your girlfriend? Did she go to study? And can one question: why don't you want her to study?
1 little_bunny_75 answered
I understand you, things are really quite complicated. Problems with your boyfriend, rumors of divorce from your parents, without friends. Yes, a familiar feeling. However, everyone has a moment in which he feels powerless and has lost all hope. Right now you need a little moral support, someone to lend you a hand. Reading the story, the only person who has to take this position is the woman next to you. As incredible as it sounds to you, she knows you best, you've been together for four years (your parents also know you very well, but in this situation they are unbearable). And now you need to talk to your boyfriend for a while. Explain to her that things are not as they used to be, that she has changed her attitude towards you. In general, say everything that is in your heart, pour your soul in front of it, so you will feel an inner harmony that will calm you down. And if she is an understanding person, you will get into a situation and Christmas and New Year can become the best celebrations ever. Try, you do not lose anything, on the contrary you will clarify things with your loved ones. SFA