I'm Confused. What To Think, What To Feel ?!

The Story

Hello. I will try to write as briefly as possible what worries me. I have been writing to a boy for several months. We saw each other once, after which he started answering me very slowly from 2 to 5 o'clock, which annoyed me (and continues) ... the interesting thing is that after the meeting he wrote me the 1st and I ate. I decide that I fell for him and it can happen. However, his own "writing tone" (if I may say so) seemed sarcastic, at times boastful, but strange to me. I decided to just stop writing to him. A month passed and he wrote to me again - Hey, How are you? As if nothing had happened. I didn't answer him. After a while he wrote to me again, nothing happened again. I answered him, we wrote to each other and again I felt that he was cool and ironic. We stopped writing. time, he wrote to me, I did not answer him. More time passed and I just decided to write to him ... we peed again and finally he withdrew without even reading the message. A week or two passed I don't know and I posted a photo, which he decided to comment on by writing to me in person. He kept writing to me, but he answered again at 5, 8, 10 o'clock LITERALLY. The tip was when he answered me in 2 days, then don't be shy and I told him that he was just killing any desire to communicate with him, that there was no point in losing the whole "thrill" of the conversation. He replied that he was just very busy and I had no problems, I said ok and stopped writing again ... He decided to go on, asking me if I was angry, and I decided it was time to write what I was really thinking. I asked the question what is the point of writing to him, and I will wait 5 days for an answer that he can't have lunch with me, that he is so busy and that if he has the desire, he will find a way. I told him that with these slow answers he made me think either that he had a girlfriend or that he really didn't want to write to me. He answered me quite positively that it was right to think these things and that he liked the way I argued. His explanation was that you didn't look at your phone that much and that he preferred live communication, and that he wanted to write to me otherwise he wouldn't have bothered at all. After this conversation, it seems to me much softer than before, so to speak. He asked me when we would see each other, telling him that I would be serious and maybe next week. However, a feeling is pressing on me ... it always responds in 3-4 hours, there is no day, no night ... I really want something to happen, but at the same time I am afraid of making a mistake and then being disappointed and being you wasted your time just because it seemed appropriate to me and I ignored the things I didn't like. I really don't know how to feel and how to act. Ohhh it didn't get short at all. hahaha

Last Updated
September 22, 2020
Author:
single__mom