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   Talk to your gynecologist - as you know pregnancy is conducted in gestational weeks, the growth of the fetus, the doctor recognizes in which week you are. If you have had sex with either partner during the month of conception - a DNA test. There is another type of prenatal test, but it is dangerous because of the risk of miscarriage.

   You have such love for the present that you immediately run to the former. I hope he wants to look after another's child and tolerate an unfaithful girlfriend. Go to a gynecologist.

   The gynecologist can tell / plus or minus 5 days / when you got pregnant and you will do your calculations correctly. And the DNA test is risky and expensive. What does it matter? This is a child. Live creature. If you want to get pregnant by the most inappropriate, this is a human being! He comes into the world to be loved and watched. How it will be brought up depends on you. You will be proud of him. And if you want to know who it's from, then you don't love your current boyfriend enough. The features of his face will be expressed around the second or third year and you will understand who he looks like. Don't think about abortion! There is balance in nature. If you kill this child, you will suffer further over the years. I speak from personal experience and I am writing about this now on this site. Love your child! There is no greater feeling to hold him in your arms! M39

   It's good that they are DNA tests, otherwise today's women can't fix who the father is ...

   Surely not knowing the father is considered normal in today's society.

   History .... Told as a banal event .... And how will you live with such a thought? People, how can you put yourself in such situations? Every day to live with such a thought. Whoever wants to be healthy, must not live in a lie.

   This site often resents commentators who criticize the illiteracy of an author. Here is a clear example - lack of basic language literacy, respectively - no emotional, functional and whatever you can think of.

   Easy job: congratulations to both (separately) that they are already fathers. Who is happy and writes a volunteer to help, take it. If you both want to choose the one you like best. If no one wants you will wait for a third.

   Good thing you're only with two! You can play "onche-bonche". I'm with four ...

   3 - I do not agree that it matters who it is. I am a woman, but if I am a man and after years I realize that the child is not mine, I will not want to look at this woman. Because she had the person next to her as fit to raise her child and nothing more. It matters who he is, of course he is.

   It's a little difficult to understand what you're saying, but if you did it with the other one in April and then it came to you, he can't be the father. And you would already be in a very advanced pregnancy. Otherwise, get a little educated that you will become a mother, and your spelling and knowledge of elementary things are under criticism.

   To # 4 and # 5, if you think you once knew who the father was, you're very naive. It was simply unprovable then. So, as long as you dreamed of some past times, neither women were different, nor men, nor would you have been more successful then.

   12, in my grandmother's time, most people certainly knew who the father was. There was no "earning", but they married virgins and were often with a man all their lives. I'm not saying to be virgins now, but not to know who the father is, to go through 100 people to "make a living", to sleep with cousins ​​and stepbrothers / sisters and to have orgies, threesomes and to have a lover and extramarital affairs, to fuck your dog and this is considered normal already comes to me more. Yes, pussy and cock are theirs. For a time I doubt it was on such a scale and it was certainly not considered normal.

   13, debauchery among the common people has always existed. The simpler they are, the more fucking people are.

   14, so they become simpler. By the way, I was looking at a study and it turns out that 100-200 years ago people had a slightly higher IQ than now. This is serious. But don't ask me how they know exactly what the average was 100 years ago. And yes, there has always been debauchery, but now it's much more than before. I don't have a time machine, but I am convinced that 50-100 years ago it was not like now.

   # 13, you obviously haven't been in women's company to sit and talk about what your grandmothers told you. I've heard things like this that current stories are, to put it mildly, unimpressive. But then it was all a shot, not to be heard. Glad you don't have your shutters down now.

   There are calculators on the net, according to the date of the term it is determined when you got pregnant. So you will find out who the father is?

   The gynecologist will tell you the exact date of the size of the fetus. If you doubt when your grandfather was born a DNA test, you don't even have to explain. You take material from the man with you and from the child and carry it, but the tests are still expensive. Otherwise, don't think about it and don't tell the man you're with right now, the child is his and that's it.