I am a 17 year old girl. My problem is that I sweeten someone very quickly. All he has to do is pay a little attention to me, tell me 1-2 clichéd phrases and immediately change my attitude towards the boy. I know this may be normal, but in the future I think it will be a bad joke. Instead, I resort to the other extreme. Since I'm not really sure if this is really liking, I'm going too far. And so it's very difficult for me to tell when I really like someone because I like them and when because they pay attention to me. I think it has become too complicated, but I hope you know what I want to explain to you.