I'm Confused-ameliee_19

   Well, a nice relationship of lies is not a relationship at all. There is no point in tormenting yourself. It is true that it is good to make compromises, but everything must be in moderation. And from the very beginning you only forgive, and he gets on your head. My situation is something like this. I always closed my eyes, pretended to be happy, but in the end I broke my nerves, depersonalized myself and was in the shadows. Don't do this to yourself. As much as you love a person, everything must be in moderation, and he totally overdoes it.

   No sense, darling, look at your life and move on. Otherwise, after 5 years, when you turn around, you will still be in the same place. This man is a liar and will not change - do not hope for it. Put an end to it now and don't look back, don't forgive, it doesn't make sense. Good luck and all the best ...

   Darling, you have to be firm, you can't do whatever you want, you also have feelings. It is very important for him to be interested in how you feel, to strive to be satisfied and happy, and your happiness (if he loves you) will be his.

   don't be jealous. if you love it, share with him what you like and what irritates you. if he understands you well, if he doesn't understand you, do as you feel.

   Number 4 comments were superfluous .. how can you agree like that ... his last relationship was exhausted for him, isn't he already considering it as such ??? he doesn't deserve ... Why do these men always have so many admirers ??? The big users are always at a higher level than the decent guys .... he is a complete jerk .... I had a similar relationship .. after I cut off any connection with him he prayed that we remained friends .. with his greatest attitude .. he had another and I don't even know the whole and the real story and the one is sitting and pretending to me as if I knew and this scoundrel lied to me .. I'm a bit like this one of yours with the key to his house ... these men are not confident in themselves and that's why they always have someone on hand because they don't know which one they will keep for a long time ... bastards!

   I want to add to number 5 that male users put them at a higher level than women - NOT WOMEN and vice versa - female users are at a higher level than men - DO NOT MEN. Congratulations on realizing that not all men are under one denominator. Similarly, women.

   From the author. Thank you to everyone who wrote to me and expressed their opinion. I talked to him and I told him quite seriously what worries me and what hurts me and what I miss. I told him that if he didn't try to change, I would leave.