Hello! I think that everyone should decide for themselves what to do with their lives and make responsible decisions. Lately I have a lot of torment on an issue that I plan to share with you and hear other opinions ... because I am very confused ... About a year ago I had a big disappointment in love. I found it very difficult to overcome, sometimes I even feel sick when I remember ... It's just very difficult for me to say "fuck it" and move on, and I always go back in time. Unfortunately, it's like that ... This moment affected me a lot mentally, it gave me a lot to understand. Since then I haven't fallen in love, as they say - I haven't felt the feeling that tickles you under the spoon :) It's hard for me to believe someone again, to trust him ... At the moment there is a boy next to me with whom it's nice to communicate and has many qualities, which I appreciate, but the problem is that I have no feelings for him. We are good friends with him, I know that he has feelings for me / he told me in a discreet way / ... In fact, I need to have someone by my side, but I am afraid to take this step with him because if nothing happens which is very likely I'm afraid I'll lose our friendship. Have you ever gone out with someone and subsequently felt feelings for them? Thank you in advance for your help ... Have you ever gone out with someone and subsequently felt feelings for them? Thank you in advance for your help ... Have you ever gone out with someone and then felt feelings for them? Thank you in advance for your help ...
1 eveline_ann answered
What you have experienced before should not determine your life in the future. In my opinion, you should relax with this boy and try to forget the pain of disappointment. And as for whether something will happen between you or not, it depends only on whether you will have the courage to try. I am currently with a boy I loved over time and I do not regret being with him.