Hello. I want to complain to you about myself. I am a terrible interlocutor. When I'm out with friends, very often, while they're telling me something, I just relate, stop listening to them, stare at something. My thoughts fly in another direction. Different thoughts keep running through my brain, and it's as if ordinary conversations just can't keep my mind focused. I get lost quickly when I get bored. I'm generally distracted, I often forget things, hours. As if a thought can't stay in my brain for long. What do you think is the reason for this? I want to deal with this problem.
1 bella_and_collin answered
I felt something like this, as if you are not living in the moment, but you are constantly somewhere else in your head. In principle, I am one of the best listeners I know, and lately I have been so carried away that I heard the voices of the people around me like the buzzing of a mosquito, I fantasized about some things. My thoughts were constantly intrusive, no matter what. Then I started grounding, try it, there are mindfulness techniques.