Hi! I'm 18, a girl, and I have a boyfriend who's a few years older than me, we're in a long-distance relationship, and on November 4th we're going to do three months. The boy is more than wonderful and is all I've ever wanted - kind, caring, funny, he's lovely. The problem is that a few days ago we decided with a close friend to grab a drink and sit somewhere, We took 1 beer, but we both started to get dizzy quickly and quite quickly caught us, then this girl's boyfriend and another boy came, she had called them on the phone so that if we got too drunk we could get home. They were carrying vodka, where we drank vodka and we got completely drunk, we started to stape, beat each other up, I ended up being so drunk that I couldn't move, I just lay on a bench and listened to my friend and boyfriend fight, bottles were thrown, things broke, and I finally realized they got into a fight because she didn't stop drinking. It's just us and the other boy. He started checking us well, did we need anything and I was very cold and he gave me his jacket and hugged me. I was super inadequate, and I hugged him too. Then I got a little closer and managed to get up, but then I made the biggest mistake, I'm a virgin, and I wouldn't cheat when I slept with someone, but with the boy in question we started making out, kissing, he started touching me down, unzipping my zipper, even drunk, I knew I wouldn't do anything, but I don't even know why I did this. Pressing and kissing lasted 2-3 minutes, then I realized where things were going, I realized what I was doing and I just stopped. The boy himself got very angry, but I told him he couldn't get up and I had a friend and he yelled at me when I had a boyfriend what I was doing with him, and I was more aware of it at the time and told him that I didn't know literally what world I was in, but I already realized and I'm sorry and I don't think it's ok, my close friend also defended me in front of him. Then the two of them sent me almost to us because I didn't want him to know where I lived and I came home. I don't know what I did, but I feel terrible, my friend knows I got drunk, but not the other thing that happened. When I got home, he kept texting me if I was okay, how I was, is everything okay, and what I'm doing during that time... And the boy in question, who I was making out with, I didn't even feel anything about him when we kissed, on top of that he's 30 and 12 years old, and I don't like him or anything. I'm just a little beginner in kissing, and I guess that's how I wanted to not embarrass myself in front of my boyfriend, because when we saw each other, I didn't even kiss with a tongue because I was worried, and with that boy, I was most comfortable kissing, I don't even know what I did with my tongue, but I guess he liked it. I really don't know why I did it, even the boy sent me an invitation on Facebook, I don't want anything to do with him, what it was that night, that's all. It only reassures me that my friend, when he's off, may have done such a thing sometime, but on the other hand, it's not for reassurance at all. How would you define what I did? Is she slapping? Do you think she's cheating? Is k**ve on what I did?
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shady9889 answered · June 18, 2020
You'd better not drink anymore that you don't have a good drunk.
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victoriasexy61 answered · June 18, 2020
The guilty conscience is masked, but it can't be erased! You were dead drunk, and you remember what you were doing with the tongue? Why your weaknesses in the character are telling others, it's comforting that you could??? and he do it!? Be glad you still have a conscience, albeit guilty!
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sexandbussiness answered · June 18, 2020
It's not cool what you did, but if you've stopped, you have a conscience and you're a nice guy.
Don't mess with older men than you anymore. These people know very well how to handle your psyche, because they have already been your age and know very well how to exploit your fears and, in particular, the weaknesses you have precisely because of those fears. Even if you were free, I recommend you stay away from adults.
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cantycammie answered · June 18, 2020
Sleep and breathe peacefully, it's not that you kissed someone, it's not stupid that you got drunk at 18, now if you're not doing crazy things, then when?! You're a virgin at 18, I didn't know girls like that, and I wasn't a virgin myself at 18:) You're just being modest and quiet, nothing bad happened, you don't really have a relationship with your boyfriend, you just like each other so much, so you haven't even cheated, head :)
G.33d.
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aleja_grantx answered · June 18, 2020
Congratulations, you've learned a very valuable lesson. People in general should not get drunk to forget, but for women this should be a golden rule, especially if they have bad drunkenness. I'm not a wild party girl, but I've been to parties, i've been drinking, and there have been guys who, without saying a word, have sat next to me and spat a hand over my shoulder. It's not a pleasant feeling, especially if you're aware of what's happening. After holding a friend's hair in one garden, seconds after she got into a fight with her boyfriend and cried for another, I realized I never wanted to get there. No one should get there. If she wasn't a virgin, things could have gone further, because alcohol is squeezing inhibitions and in industrial quantities makes us completely inadequate. What you did is very stupid, but you're young, you're drunk, and you're not the only one with a memory like that. It's stupid because you put all that alcohol in your system yourself. Your mistake is more about you ever making it to such a state. I want to tell you that in this situation this 30-year-old man was adequate and he fully deliberately started with kissing and groping. His guilt is great, too, but his guilt doesn't bring yours down. I think what happened is infidelity, but it's also an attempt to abuse an inadequate person. Of these two, believe me, the second one is much worse, and you're so lucky you weren't alone and that guy stopped. I hope you realize that the ending could have been so disgusting that no soap made you feel clean again. I'm so sorry to be so sharp with you, I'm very sorry that my words are probably going to hurt you, but you have to protect yourself, you have to realize that it's of utmost importance at all times to be adequate and not to let anyone take advantage of you. As for kissing, you're not the first, and you won't be the last. This is a typical case of alcohol that led to infidelity and is something common. I advise you to share the truth with your friend. It's going to be hard, and I can't guarantee that he's going to stay with you, but you have to take responsibility for what happened.
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elizabetbets answered · June 18, 2020
It's just that these distance connections aren't connections. Don't you get it? Everyone got drunk and pushed at 18. I thought it was your choice, and you liked it. What's the big deal?
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bwitchedb13 answered · June 19, 2020
The boy, 30. Usually guys like you call them old people. Are you making up something? I was interested, however, for the "caring" from a distance. How exactly does he take care of you, with letters?
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itsnikkime answered · June 19, 2020
Don't make a movie! It's okay. You're forgiven... Lol. It's like nothing happened, just let it be a lesson in how bad it is to get drunk. That's what happened to me in my 20s. with vermouth and champagne... Horror. Since then, I've never let myself get so enchanted. It's not a drink, but I was interested in what it's like to be fascinated by alco... well, I didn't like it. I'm 55 now, and we never got into it with alcohol. So think you've tried it, and it sucks. It's okay with your boyfriend... do not bother. Come on, the smart one from here on out. Greetings!
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misscandy7 answered · June 19, 2020
Don't get into soap operas now, you too! Nothing happened, but don't drink that much anymore! The snout in this case is not pressing with someone named X, but that you're drunk - i don't accept that!
And what kind of relationship is from a distance, I don't know either, but that's a different subject.
P.S. - And remember, the smart one from here on out!
"M.32 years. <
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anythingrp answered · June 20, 2020
Girl, if you were 'dead drunk' you wouldn't remember anything
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i4815 answered · June 20, 2020
Uh, what's this? Alcohol and drunkenness have become your daily excuse. Nothing stopped you from telling him no or just leaving, you wanted to you, and that's it. They were getting drunk, just knowing where things were going, so don't you just stop drinking, huh?
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zoeymonroe_18 answered · June 20, 2020
Degas is your time for mistakes and parties.
Not at 30-40 as it is en masse at the moment
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bigtittybxtch answered · June 21, 2020
If you keep drinking to "mindless," get used to your stories starting with, "I'm ashamed of what I did. "
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evelyne23 answered · June 21, 2020
well, that's the earring on your ear. Don't get drunk like that anymore so you don't do anything stupid. It's a little bit of a worry, but be careful from here on out.
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futurefatty answered · June 22, 2020
If you don't know your measure, don't drink. Besides, enough with these excuses - I didn't understand what was going on, you understood very well, it was just that at one point you got caught in the back of the head. The guy told you that very well - if you have a boyfriend, what are you doing with him there?