Hello ! I am a 15-year-old girl and from September 15 I will be in 9th grade. The problem is that they will move me to another class with another specialty, because my current one is not good. I have friends in this class (about 7-8 people) but there are also those who don't like me very much ... Even when they found out that I would move, they said super negative things about me ... And I don't want to be rejected and humiliated when I entered this class because there is also the boy I like. I'm very worried about this if someone starts feeding me for no reason, and I'm more shy and I can't defend myself and I'll be laughed at in front of others. I'm very scared, please tell me how to improve my mood and not care what they say, because I have the feeling that I will go crazy ...
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Don't show them that you are afraid, worried. Show that these negative things that have been said about you are not true - prove it with your behavior. Don't do everyone a favor at your new school and try to get close to someone right away, in the first week.
Do not worry. It happens to me all the time because there are some idiots in school who insult me. But I'm not afraid to be rejected, it makes me stronger. That's how I understand that these people are complete jerks and they don't care if others feel humiliated. They want to make people ashamed of themselves in some way. Don't be attached to them, in time you will become the one who will make them sick. Believe me .. I have been in the school I study since the 1st grade. I am currently in 10th grade. Since then, I have been mocked and insulted, and over time I began to not care about others. The important thing is that my friends, family and boyfriend accept and love me as I am! :)