I'm a boy of 17. I haven't had a girlfriend until now. Relatively beautiful, charming, smart, nice character, I'm funny. It's not a problem to talk to girls and I often do. Quite often they do, and I've noticed that they look at me. If I actually target a girl, I think I'm capable of "taking her down." The problem, however, is the following. I've liked a lot of girls over the years, but none for a long time. I usually "fall in love" a lot (that's hardly the word) but after a few days it passes and the same thing happens to another girl. I've never tried to do anything about my feelings before, maybe lately I've just become a little more confident, so I'm thinking about something. Thus, as I have feelings for a girl for a few days, I am afraid to try to get close to someone. I've always respected women, I'm not a bastard, I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings. I'm afraid we'll get closer, something will happen between us and in a week I won't have any feelings for her and since I can't pretend and lie to her I will have to tell her and therefore hurt her feelings. Is it possible for something like this to happen. Is my infatuation lasting so little simply because they are not shared or is it just so. Will the feelings intensify (and remain) if I am with her. I'm sorry for the confused text, I hope you understood me, I'm sorry for the mistakes I write from the phone and I don't hit the letters correctly. Thanks for the answers in advance. something will happen between us and in a week I will not have any feelings for her and since I can't pretend and lie to her I will have to tell her and therefore hurt my feelings. Is it possible for something like this to happen. Is my infatuation lasting so little simply because they are not shared or is it just so. Will the feelings intensify (and remain) if I am with her. I'm sorry for the confused text, I hope you understood me, I'm sorry for the mistakes I write from the phone and I don't hit the letters correctly. Thanks for the answers in advance. something will happen between us and in a week I will not have any feelings for her and since I can't pretend and lie to her I will have to tell her and therefore hurt the feelings. Is it possible for something like this to happen. Is my infatuation lasting so short simply because they are not shared or is it just so. Will the feelings intensify (and remain) if I am with her. I'm sorry for the confused text, I hope you understood me, I'm sorry for the mistakes I write from the phone and I don't hit the letters correctly. Thanks for the answers in advance.
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It's possible, and it even happened to me, it's not like you say for a week, but it was for a short time really. I think it's up to you two to keep in touch.
What do you expect at that age?
You just haven't met the perfect one. It is very difficult for the external beauty to coincide with the beautiful character and that is why your feelings do not stay. If there is no spark, there is no love. And the most perfect to stand in front of you does not mean that she is the one you are looking for. And the one you are looking for will appear someday and when you do, you will lose your mind, you will be a different person and it will not cross your mind to think of another. And the ones that now arouse some attraction in you are obviously not so wonderful. It makes a strong impression on me that you don't want to hurt anyone. Yes, it should be so, but if you just don't come across anyone out of habit, you may not notice true love.
My first impression when I read it: "The fish is still in the sea, he prepared the pan." I do not want to confront you. It's good to think about things, but don't worry (don't overdo it). Love will come, but do not look for guilt only in you. Maybe she's not right, she's pushing you away on some subconscious level, she's NOT FOR YOU. True love will not go away in 1 week;) And such "falls in love" are the result of external attraction, not a soul connection between two people. >> She's nice to you, you definitely like what she looks like, but in a week you can't figure out what kind of person she is. So you can't fall in love at all and fly away in a week. She's just a little nicer to you. Samantha - 17 years old
You may not feel sensitive for a long time because you may be gay. It may sound strange, but it is possible. I'm only 13 after all and I have no experience, but I guess. Either it is possible to be, or something like that. Good luck and sorry if I sounded dumb.
You just haven't come across the right one. When you meet her, your love will not last three days. And no, don't worry about stopping loving her. Since you love your parents and will always love them, then why do you think you can't love a girl like that? However, first you have to meet her and feel that this is SHE, and for now you just seem to fall in love with every prettier girl you see.