Ignoring

I had an argument with my boyfriend and we have been separated for almost half a year or more. In the beginning I tried to fix things, to talk. I looked for him, called, wrote. He either didn't pick up the phone or just cut me off because he was busy. He just threw me out of his life, not responding to messages. The rare occasions when we were supposed to talk were always handed out by a busy and big partygoer. Always with company somewhere and such. And I got tired and gave it up. I'm tired of him not looking for me, answering or treating me like an intruder. I'm just tired of that feeling of rejection. Only on New Year's Eve he called me drunk and praised me where he was and how he was having fun. Time passed, and I began to feel better. I started going out more, relaxing. I even met a boy who is quite nice to me. I like him, I like him. The previous one called me again, pretending to get together, but he didn't tell me he loved me or that he missed me. He wasted so much time ignoring me and making me feel like a stranger, but now he was sorry. It was as if he were feeling the ground. I told him that I would never forget how he did not congratulate me on the holidays, how he did not pick up my phone and how he did not look for me at all. How he just refused to hear me, too busy with restaurants and companies. That his stubbornness and carelessness repelled me. If he hadn't treated me like that, if it wasn't for this indifference, I would have given him a chance. If only he had called me once, not answered me one-syllable and as if he were a stranger. He was furious and hung up. And the other guy I'm dating recently wants things to go slowly. I'm happy with him, but I'm not in a hurry for a relationship yet, so far we're just meeting. With this topic I wanted to tell all men and women, who ignore the other, or just behave like a stranger after a quarrel or some problem. This is not a way to fix the relationship, on the contrary, it worsens it. As long as you or the other person is stubborn and doesn't look for each other, things don't get better. And the ignored side simply likes the constant rejection and withdraws from you more easily. You also help him find another while pretending to be great. And when you realize and regret, the other will not want you anymore, because you will have embittered him enough. And you lose. If anyone can explain to me the logic of ignoring someone, I would be happy to read opinions. For me, this is cowardice and a lack of skills to deal with conflicts and problems.

For me, the particular person who subjected me to this caught my eye. This is not a way to fix the relationship, on the contrary, it worsens it. As long as you or the other person is stubborn and doesn't look for each other, things don't get better. And the ignored side simply likes the constant rejection and withdraws from you more easily. You also help him find another while pretending to be great. And when you realize and regret, the other will not want you anymore, because you will have embittered him enough. And you lose. If anyone can explain to me the logic of ignoring someone, I would be happy to read opinions. For me, this is cowardice and a lack of skills to deal with conflicts and problems. For me, the particular person who subjected me to this caught my eye. This is not a way to fix the relationship, on the contrary, it worsens it. As long as you or the other person is stubborn and doesn't look for each other, things don't get better. And the ignored side simply likes the constant rejection and withdraws from you more easily. You also help him find another while pretending to be great. And when you realize and regret, the other will not want you anymore, because you will have embittered him enough. And you lose. If anyone can explain to me the logic of ignoring someone, I would be happy to read opinions. For me, this is cowardice and a lack of skills to deal with conflicts and problems. For me, the particular person who subjected me to this caught my eye. And the ignored side simply likes the constant rejection and withdraws from you more easily. You also help him find another while pretending to be great. And when you realize and regret, the other will not want you anymore, because you will have embittered him enough. And you lose. If anyone can explain to me the logic of ignoring someone, I would be happy to read opinions. For me, this is cowardice and a lack of skills to deal with conflicts and problems. For me, the particular person who subjected me to this caught my eye. And the ignored side simply likes the constant rejection and withdraws from you more easily. You also help him find another while pretending to be great. And when you realize and regret, the other will not want you anymore, because you will have embittered him enough. And you lose. If anyone can explain to me the logic of ignoring someone, I would be happy to read opinions. For me, this is cowardice and a lack of skills to deal with conflicts and problems. For me, the particular person who subjected me to this caught my eye. For me, this is cowardice and a lack of skills to deal with conflicts and problems. For me, the particular person who subjected me to this caught my eye. For me, this is cowardice and a lack of skills to deal with conflicts and problems. For me, the particular person who subjected me to this caught my eye.